Flying With a Baby? Here’s What to Know Before You Go

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Infant Air Travel

We’re here to take you and your family wherever you need to go.  Infants or children under 2 years of age can travel on the lap of an adult for free (within the United States) or at a reduced fare (for international travel). You also may purchase a ticket and use the child’s own seat on the aircraft as long as it meets the FAA-approved child safety seat specifications or use a CARES harness. Our step-by-step guide explains how to easily add a lap-held infant (infant-in-arms) to your ticket yourself.

Due to FAA safety requirements, 1 adult passenger may only carry 1 lap-held infant. If an adult passenger is traveling with 2 infants, a seat must be purchased for the additional infant. Infants occupying a seat on domestic flights require a ticket and pay the applicable fare.

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Child & infant age restrictions, infant-in-arms or child in safety seat.

When you travel with a child under 2 years old, you may choose to travel with the child on your lap (infant-in-arms) or travel with your child in an FAA-approved child safety seat. To use a FAA-approved safety seat, you must purchase a ticket for your child so they have a reserved seat.

YOU WILL NEED TO PURCHASE A TICKET FOR YOUR CHILD IF YOU: 

  • Have a child that is 2 years old or older 
  • Have a child that turns 2 during the trip 
  • Prefer the child sit in a seat with an FAA-approved child safety seat 
  • Already have a child that will be sitting in your lap, regardless of age 
  • Want your child to earn miles for their SkyMiles account 
  • Will be traveling between countries, regardless of whether or not the child occupies a seat 

Child Safety Seat Guidelines

If you decide to use a child safety seat aboard the airplane and purchase a ticket for your child, there are a few restrictions and guidelines you'll need to follow.

The window seat is the preferred location for an approved child safety seat (child restraint system or car seat). Other locations may be acceptable provided the seat is not installed between other passengers and the aisle. An accompanying adult must sit next to the child. More than one car seat may be in use in the same row and section of seats. Per FAA regulations, children under 2 years of age are not allowed to sit in a seat equipped with an airbag seat belt. 

When using a child safety seat, don’t select seats in the following areas: 

  • Aisle seats
  • Emergency exit rows
  • Bulkhead seats when the safety seat is a combination car seat and stroller
  • Flatbed seats in the Delta One ™ area of the following aircraft: Airbus A330-200 or A330-300 aircraft *

* Child Safety Seats are not permitted in this area since the airbag seat belt cannot be deactivated .

An adult (18 years or older) may hold an infant (infant-in-arms) or place the infant in a FAA-approved child restraint in their seat during takeoff and landing. Booster-type car seats are not permitted for use during taxi, takeoff and landing.

Delta flight attendants will check with accompanying adults to ensure that children are properly secured in their safety seats and in the aircraft seat. The accompanying adult, however, has the following responsibilities when using a child restraint during takeoff and landing:

  • Ensure that the child restraint seat meets FAA guidelines , Go to footer note
  • Ensure that the child restraint seat functions properly and is free of obvious defects
  • Secure the child according to the manufacturer's instructions
  • Ensure the child does not exceed the restraint's weight limit
  • Ensure the child restraint is secured to the aircraft seat using the aircraft seat's safety belt

  All child safety seats or restraints include labeling that indicates their compliance with safety requirements. Restraints that meet the qualifications and labeling are approved for use on Delta flights.

Restraints manufactured within the U.S. after 2/25/85 with the following labels:

  • Conforms to all applicable federal motor vehicle standards
  • Is certified for use in motor vehicles and aircraft

Restraints manufactured within the U.S. between 1/1/81 and 2/25/85 with the following label:

Restraints manufactured outside the U.S. with the following labels:

  • Has the approval of a foreign government
  • Was manufactured under standards of the United Nations

Restraints that are not permitted: 

  • Booster seats, even if they bear labels indicating they meet U.S., UN or foreign government standards
  • Vest and harness-type child restraint devices other than the FAA approved CARES restraint device

Bassinets or SkyCots

For some of our smallest passengers on some international flights, we offer onboard baby bassinets. They’re ideal for babies weighing up to 20 lbs. (9 kg) and up to 26 inches (66 cm) long.

  • Onboard bassinets, also known as SkyCots, are available free of charge for passengers in select seats on equipped aircraft for some international flights
  • SkyCots can be requested by contacting Reservations before arriving at the airport and then speaking with the gate agent at the boarding gate, but cannot be guaranteed due to a limit of two SkyCots per aircraft and weight restrictions
  • Please note that all infants must be held during takeoff, landing and whenever the seat belt light is on

Additional Infant Travel Information

For children under the age of two, we recommend you purchase a seat on the aircraft and use an approved child safety seat. Here are some other helpful tips for traveling with your infant or toddler:

Breastfeeding

Delta fully supports a woman’s right to breastfeed on board Delta and Delta Connection aircraft and in Delta facilities. Breast pumps are allowed on board. At the airport and if you prefer, many airports do offer private lactation rooms or spaces. Ask a Delta associate if you need assistance locating one at an airport.

Booking Your Trip

When traveling with an infant or toddler, you may find it helpful to allow a little extra time between flights to take rest or bathroom breaks along the way. Our Airport Maps can help you plan your layovers before you even reach the airport.    

International Flights

If your travel destination requires a passport and/or travel visas, you will need a passport for your child, and possibly extra documentation. To review required documentation in each country you’re visiting or stopping over in, visit the U.S. Department of State’s Special Requirements for Children .

Infant Baggage

Review our Infant & Children's Items guidelines for specific details on carry-on items, including child restraint seats, strollers and diaper bags. During security check in, the TSA will usually make a special provision for items like medications, breast milk and baby formula. Check out the Traveling with Kids section of the TSA website for information and helpful videos about travel with infants and carry-on baggage restrictions.

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Traveling with children and infants.

We are committed to caring for people on life’s journey and want you and your children to have a safe and positive travel experience. To allow enough time for check-in, arrive early and be sure to have any required travel documents. You may have to present proof of age like a birth certificate for any children under the age of 18.

  • Families with children under 2 years old can ask to board early at the gate.
  • Only 1 carry-on diaper bag per child is allowed.

You can travel with a breast pump and small, soft-sided cooler of breast milk in addition to your carry-on or personal item. These items don’t have to be checked and are allowed even when you’re not traveling with a child. Also, most airports have nursing rooms and stations available for your convenience.

If you’re a family traveling with children under 15, we want to help make sure you’re seated together on your flight. Here are some tips for when you book:

  • Be sure to book everyone in the same reservation.
  • The farther in advance you book, the better. (Seats become limited closer to the day of travel.)
  • On the seat map, choose seats for your entire family or skip seats for that flight.
  • It’s better to skip seats than to choose just a few seats or seats scattered throughout the cabin. Our gate agents can try to reseat you but getting seats together the day of travel is difficult.

If you skip seats

If you’re unable to choose seats, don’t want to pay for seats, or chose a Basic Economy fare, our system will detect that you’re a family traveling. The system will search for seats together automatically before the day of departure. We’ll try our best to keep you together, but if seats are limited, we’ll assign seats so children under 15 are next to at least 1 adult.

Children and adults traveling in separate reservations

If you and your children are traveling together but have separate reservations, call Reservations so we can note it in each reservation.

Contact Reservations

Children 2 or older are required to have their own seat, a ticketed adult fare. Children under 5 can’t travel alone under any circumstances.

If you don't choose seats in Main Cabin or Basic Economy, we’ll assign seats a few days after you buy your tickets so children under 15 are next to at least 1 adult they’re traveling with.

We welcome infants as young as 2 days old, but infants under 7 days old must have a doctor's letter stating that they are medically cleared to travel.

Keep in mind:

  • Only 1 infant may be seated in the lap of each ticketed accompanying adult and the infant must be included in the reservation.
  • Additional infants under 2 years old must be ticketed and occupy an infant safety seat or in a separate aircraft seat.
  • The infant must be under 2 years of age for the duration of the trip. If they turn 2 during a trip, they will need their own seat for the remainder of the trip.

Adding an infant to your trip

If you’re traveling within the U.S., including Puerto Rico, you can add an infant to your trip when you book on aa.com, or later once it is ticketed. You only need to contact Reservations if you’re traveling with an infant who is under 7 days old; or if you’re traveling outside of the U.S. (taxes and a percentage of the adult fare may apply on international trips).

Book a new trip

  • Book your trip on aa.com
  • Enter your information on the ‘Passenger details’ page
  • Select ‘add infant in lap’

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  • Scroll to the ‘Passengers’ section

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Call Reservations if:

  • You’re traveling with an infant who is less than 7 days old
  • You’re not traveling within the U.S., and Puerto Rico

Reserved seat

If your infant will travel in their own seat, you must buy a ticket. The infant must either travel in a safety seat approved by the Federal Aviation Administration (FAA) or be able to sit upright in their seat without assistance and have their seatbelt securely fastened during taxi, takeoff, landing and whenever the 'fasten seatbelt' sign is on.

Bassinets and changing tables

  • Changing tables are available in the lavatories of all wide-body aircraft.
  • Bassinets are available on a first come, first serve basis at the gate for travel only on 777-200, 777-300 and 787 aircraft.*
  • Bassinets are not available in First / Business cabins.

*Infants using bassinets must be younger than 2 years old and weigh no more than 20lbs (9kg)

Acceptable safety seats

Most safety seats that are approved for use in motor vehicles are acceptable for use in aircraft. The seat must have a solid back and seat, restraint straps installed to securely hold the child and a label indicating approval for use on an aircraft.

The label may include:

  • These notes: 'This child restraint system conforms to all Federal Motor Vehicle Safety Standards' and 'this restraint is certified for use in motor vehicles and aircrafts' or 'this restraint is certified for use in motor vehicles and aircraft.'
  • Approval of a foreign government or a label showing that the seat was manufactured under the standards of the United Nations.
  • The safety seat can't be used in an exit row or in the rows on either side of an exit row; window seats are preferred.
  • Install the seat in the direction appropriate for the size of the child and according to the instructions on the label.
  • The child must remain in the safety seat with the harness fastened during taxi, takeoff, landing and whenever the 'fasten seatbelt' sign is on.
  • To carry on a safety seat, you must have bought a seat for the child, or a seat must be available next to you. If an unoccupied, adjoining seat is not available, the gate agent will check the safety seat to your final destination.

Review seat dimensions before your trip.

Safety seats are not allowed in First or Business on select planes due to the seat angles.

Airbus 321T

  • Boeing 777-200
  • Boeing 777-300
  • Boeing 787-800
  • Boeing 787-900
  • Any device without an approval label
  • Booster seats with no approval label or shoulder harness
  • Vest and/or harness-type devices, except Aviation Child Safety Devices (ACSD) showing the FAA aircraft approval label
  • Belt extensions that attach to the parent or the parent's restraint
  • Any device that positions a child on the lap or chest of an adult

Carry-on and checked bags

If you’re flying internationally with an infant on your lap, we’ll issue the infant a ticket. You may check 1 bag for the infant at the same rate as the adult’s first checked bag.

  • Each ticketed customer is allowed 1 stroller and 1 car seat to be checked free of charge
  • Strollers over 20 lbs / 9 kgs must be checked at the ticket counter
  • All other strollers should be checked at the gate before boarding
  • If you have a stroller and a car seat only 1 can be checked at the gate
  • Breast pumps and a small, soft-sided cooler of breast milk don’t count as your carry-on or personal item
  • Play pens, wagons, cribs and 'pack and play' count as regular bags
  • If any of these exceed carry-on limits they’ll be checked and incur regular fees

International documents

Children or infants traveling outside the U.S. are required to have the same documentation as an adult. If anyone under 18 is traveling internationally without both parents, they may be required to present a Letter of Consent.

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Traveling during pregnancy

If your due date is within 4 weeks of your flight, you must provide a doctor’s certificate stating that you’ve been recently examined and you’re fit to fly.

Special assistance throughout your trip

For domestic flights under 5 hours, you won’t be permitted to travel within 7 days (before and after) your delivery date. If you need to travel within this time frame:

  • Approval from your physician and a special assistance coordinator is required.
  • Your physician will be required to fill out a passenger medical form before your flight. A special assistance coordinator will send the form directly to your physician.

Clearance from a special assistance coordinator is required for international travel or travel over water:

  • Within 4 weeks of your due date (travel also requires a physician's note stating that you’ve been examined within the past 48 hours and you’re fit to fly)
  • 7 days before or after your delivery (travel also requires a passenger medical form to be completed by your physician)

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How hard is it flying with an infant on lap?

Easy peasy lemon squeezy. True or false? I must say, definitely true. Flying with a baby or travelling with toddlers on long haul flights is not difficult at all. But some preparations shall be in place at least for you to feel less tired and more comfortable.

How can you be well-prepared for a long haul flight if lap toddlers and babies are so unpredictable? Well, in this article I am going to introduce you to some incredibly useful long haul flight tips and tricks to make your flight restful and stress-free.

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Tips For Long Haul Flights With Toddlers And Babies

1. prepare everything in advance.

When you are flying with a toddler, make sure you prepare everything in advance. Make a plan; organize tasks by days if necessary; think about what you should wash, where you should put stuff, and when to pack everything. It was our fourth time moving from one country to another (third time changing a continent). Last time moving from Prague to London we accidentally threw all our passports with two-month savings, which were supposed to cover us for the first time in one of the most expensive countries, in a trash bin outside the property that locks with a special key. We then happily passed all the keys to our realtor who has left. Sweet as!

It was an extraordinary sight to watch how we were getting everything from our suitcases carrying a 5-month-old baby in the last five minutes before departure. That said, PREPARE EVERYTHING IN ADVANCE!

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2. Cook baby food before the flight

I always prefer and recommend cooking something nice for your baby. Baby food on a plane doesn’t exist.

  • Firstly, it makes him feel more comfortable eating his favorites during the flight;
  • Secondly, homemade food is always better than pouches, in my opinion. As much as my son loved them at his 9-11 months, he was denying each of a kind when he hit his first year of life;
  • Thirdly, it is always preferable for fussy eaters (totally my case!).

If you prepare pure that is blended, I suggest you use reusable weaning fill pouch bags . And important to note that it is not possible to store baby food in the fridge on a plane, nor it is possible to warm it up (at least airlines I have taken didn’t provide such service). So, due to the temperature drop, think wisely about what to cook for your baby. If it is the meat I would serve it as soon as possible; I wouldn’t go for fish though. However, getting your mealtime kit is a MUST, really! My favorite of all time is skip&hop on the picture below. It is compact, the zipper is strong, food is hot for hours and hours. You get six containers plus a cooler bag. Highly recommended!

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In general, babies and toddlers are getting quite complicated with food and sleep during the flights, just as we are adults, so, our favorite food might turn out to be a win-win for everyone. Also, some snacks are a plus! Kids love them, what can I say?! Though, I am always for a healthy lifestyle trying to give snacks after the main meal in a reasonable quantity.

3. Check with your airline on luggage allowance

Long haul flight with a toddler can turn into a real challenge if you don’t think about what items to take and where to put them beforehand. In our case, as we were moving to another continent, we used all the space that was given to us by the airline. Unfortunately, Aeromexico allows a buggy only as an extra for a baby. No travel cots or booster seats are available, they go as an extra charge, around 100 GBP per trip. So, we have placed both items inside our luggage , being left with only 10 kg of space for our own belongings. Smart, huh?!

It was such a good idea to check on all luggage restrictions beforehand, as honestly, I was 100% sure we can pick one item for free apart from the buggy. Usually, airlines let you choose between a car seat, booster seat, or travel cot, which definitely wasn’t our case.

4. Make sure you bring a baby bag on board with everything he needs and maybe a little bit more

We use a quite big and spacious bag for baby travel. It includes a special insulated on-the-go baby bag, a changing mat, and a diaper bag. Some airlines, such as Aeromexico, let us carry on board a baby bag of 20kg max. So, in this case, our bag was a perfect fit. In general, we pack all Teo’s clothes, medicines, and hygiene items , such as soap, shampoo, baby powder, nappy cream , etc. We also put his plane toys for toddlers – our lifesavers during the flight.

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Find out how to create a perfect kids’ flight bag here.

5. Place the most important items on top of everything

It is important to think about what things you are going to use on the plane and arrange them accordingly in your bags. For example, I put changing mat in the baby’s bag side pocket, medicines, and diaper cream – in the front one, changing clothes, diapers, and insulated food bag – inside the bag on top of everything; passports, documents, money, and a pen I put in a special compartment of my anti-theft bag.

This arrangement worked for me just perfectly, as my hubs could understand where to get things from easily.

6. Arrive at the airport earlier than usual

I am the person who is kind of never late, but at the same time who is coming just on time. My experience with a baby taught me that it worked well when I was single. Now time flies like Peregrine Falcon.

According to my experience, turning up three hours before the long-haul flight is just about right. The reasons are the following:

Some airlines do let you first as a passenger with a baby, e.g. Aeromexico, but some don’t, so it is better to be on time at the airport;

No rush whatsoever

You are able to check in your luggage stress-free, let your toddler run around for a while (it is important to burn a bit of his energy before the flight), get some coffee and offer food to your baby in a comfortable high chair, use bathroom service, and what most importantly, let your baby feel relaxed as you will be relaxed.

A great chance to get an extra free seat in a row

If you ask nicely and if there is at least one free seat in the entire plane, you will be given one, as you are traveling with a lap toddler. Usually, the staff makes sure of that.

No stress passing the security checkpoint

Fewer people, and so, more time to go through the security. As you are carrying some liquids and food for your baby, you will be likely checked, meaning some of the bags will be opened, and you will need to re-arrange them at some point (see p.3). Also, consider taking out your laptops, folding and unfolding the buggy – all this while carrying your baby at the same time.

7. Consider the nighttime for long-haul flights

I have heard many stories about taking long-haul flights from other parents. I would agree on one common point – consider taking the night one. Why? Because it increases your and your baby’s chances to sleep and rest during the flight. In our case, our 13-months-old toddler has been sleeping for eight hours straight compared to a regular twelve. But it is because he went to sleep way after his routine hour, 18:00 vs. 22:30. Also, very important! – try to sleep as your baby sleeps. Remember, crossing time zones affect your body just as it affects your little one.

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8. Distract and reassure your baby

Taking a long-haul flight usually contradicts the baby’s routine. If it is your first time, there is a chance your little one might feel insecure or even get scared or extremely exhausted waiting for the flight. Some babies are easy-going and fall asleep wherever and whenever they want. It is not my case. Our son prefers sleeping in his cot in his house in comfort. So, our job was to distract and play with him before we boarded the plane. Luckily, he is getting very excited about being surrounded by other people, that sometimes even forget about his mom and dad.

It can happen that your baby gets exhausted, in this case, staying close to lulling is just the best. In other cases, when reaching the limit, reading a nearby magazine, or watching a short cartoon or baby songs video on your tablet, kids kindle or phone turns out very helpful.

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9. Consider reserving special seats with a travel bassinet attached

Every airline offers travel bassinets on board the plane for free. All information on reserving an airplane bassinet and what some airlines hide from us is here. However, seats for parents come with an extra charge for each trip. Make sure you check with your airline the dimensions and maximum weight for the bassinet they provide. In Aeromexico, we were offered the cot with 12kg max. Our son was 13 months old, 80 cm tall, and weighed 9 kg. His height was just at the limit though. Also, all cots are quite narrow which I found not bad, as it limited my son’s movements and so was more secure during the turbulence. We have decided to cover him with a special protective layer from possible turbulence during the entire flight.

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10. Let him rest as soon as the lights are off for taking off

This was one of the most important points for me. I even asked a flight attendant how much time it takes for the plane to take off and how long the lights were going to be switched off for. As we had an unlucky experience taking the short flight from Venice to London just before this one, I wanted to make sure this time we have enough time to fall asleep. Here is why I love long-distance flights:

Short vs long haul flights

During the short-distance flight, flight attendants tend to switch on the light and start their service immediately after take-off. The service requires them time, plus, it all goes for an extra charge. While long-distance flights have no rush at all. They take their time, which definitely benefits your baby.

  • Broadcasting

Same as lights, broadcasting seems to be continuous. Also, it is extremely loud. While on long-distance night flights, the crew tries to minimize noise and avoid annoying sleepy passengers.

  • Free water and coffee

One thing I like the most about long-distance flights is that you get as much water as you need. I never knew this as I received a 1.5L bottle in my fifth month of pregnancy. This time I was lucky to have another bottle because I was still breastfeeding. Yay! At the same time, my hubs were enjoying his free coffee with cream and a piece of delish chocolate. Booya!

  • Movies availability

Oh yes! What can be better rather than enjoying watching a movie after your baby is fast asleep?! However, don’t go too hard on this, force yourself to sleep when your little one does the same.

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Of course, with a short-distance flight in economy class, the only possibility you have is lulling and carrying your baby during the entire time.

11. Let him feel comfortable

It is important to make your baby feel comfortable. One of the best tricks can be bringing his favorite little blanket to cover him in a bassinet. It is always a great idea to bring some of his favorite toys , such as building forms, musical touch remote/phone, or fluffy tiny toys. Also, letting him walk around, and chat with other people and the cabin crew definitely pays off. Firstly, because you can relax while your baby is on other laps, secondly, it is just so much fun for him anyway. In addition, bringing his favorite food and a bit of snack will be appreciated by your kid too.

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12. Take it easy

Don’t insist on anything. As it is been previously mentioned, we are breaking their routine. The most important is to be relaxed, then your baby will feel more relaxed and happier. Try to offer some food and lots of fluids. Let them get drowned in your cuddles and kisses and have as much fun as possible.

13. Consider a seat for your baby

Airline safety experts agree that the safest place for your baby is in its own seat using special restraint devices, such as a car seat or CARES harness. However, while FAA rules haven’t been changed just yet, it is all up to a parent to decide whether he prefers to travel with a toddler on a lap or not. Read more about it here .

It also comes down to the fact that toddlers are quite different from babies. One can feel comfortable in its car seat, the other can throw the tantrum of the century (again, totally my case! There is no possible chance my son will sit in a car seat without crying, possibly because we never had a car). The bottom line, it is your call.

14. Consider electronics

Although the American Academy of Paediatrics recommends no screen time for little ones until their second birthdays, a little bit of it won’t make harm you and your baby’s sanity. Personally, I am very careful with TV sessions for my son, and mostly, it is all limited to songs in four languages. However, I found it really practical in two cases:

  • On the way to the airport, as my son can’t bear car seats;
  • Before taking off, when he was just so tired, and we needed an extra five minutes before breastfeeding him.

All in all, I do not use a lot of electronics, neither I suggest doing it on a regular basis, as kids get used to that so fast. It’s incredible!

15. Consider a carrier

Although we are not a carrier family (and I know I am missing out too much!) but taking a carrier instead of a buggy through the airport might sound like a good idea. Keeping your child close to you from all the noises at a late hour is just what they need. Your baby might even fall asleep easier. Your back will thank you too!

I hope these tips are going to be of great help to you! Have a safe flight and enjoy your journey!

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How To Manage Flying With An Infant On Lap [22 Workable Tips]

Are you planning on flying with an infant on lap? If so, you’ll want to read this guide first. It contains 22 workable tips to help you make the experience as smooth as possible for both you and your child.

The meaning of lap infant has changed over the years. In the early days of air travel, any child small enough to sit on an adult’s lap was considered a lap infant.

Today, the definition of lap infant is a child under 2 years old who flies without her or his own seat.

While the safest place for your baby to sit in an airplane is in their own seat with an FAA-approved car seat, this isn’t always possible or practical.

If you’re flying with an infant on lap, there are some things you can do to make the experience safer and more comfortable for both you and your child during a long flight.

Let’s read this guide further, in which we will tell you 22 tips for flying with an infant on your lap:

What Are 22 Workable Tips When Flying With An Infant On Lap

Many parents choose to fly with their infant on their lap instead of buying a separate ticket and bringing along a car seat .

If you’re considering flying with an infant on lap, here are 25 workable tips to help make the experience as smooth as possible.

1. Prepare everything in advance

Make a list of everything you’ll need for the flight and pack it in an accessible place. This includes items for your baby like formula, diapers, and wipes, as well as your own essentials like a change of clothes and your ID.

2. Before the flight, cook baby food.

As we all know baby food is not available on a plane, so it’s a good idea to cook and puree your own before the flight. This will save you from having to deal with a hungry, crying baby at 30,000 feet.

First, your baby will feel comfortable if they have their own favorite food.

Second, use pouches or containers that can be resealed so you don’t have to worry about making a mess.

Third one is, it is always better to make food in advance, if you child is fussy eater.

When I talk to many parents they say, their child loves homemade food, so its better to cook in advance.

3. Check with your airline about luggage allowances before you travel.

Most airlines have different rules when it comes to flying with an infant, so it’s important to check with your airline before you travel. You may be able to bring a stroller and car seat for free, or you may have to pay an extra fee.

What smart parents do is, they put their travel cots or booster seats inside their luggage and left 10 Kg of space for their own clothes and essentials.

It is better to check luggage restriction before flying, so that you do not have to face any problems later on.

4. Bring A Baby Bag According To Your Baby Needs

You don’t want to be rummaging through your suitcase for a diaper or a pacifier during the flight, so make sure you have everything you need in a baby bag that you can keep with you in the cabin.

And always remember to bring a few extra diapers, wipes, snacks, and medicine just in case.

5. The most essential things should be placed on top of everything else.

Being a parent, you know that there are some items that you will need during the flight more than others.

So, it’s a good idea to pack these items on top of everything else in your baby bag. This way, you can easily reach for them when you need them.

For example, you might want to keep a pacifier, a change of clothes, and a few diapers within easy reach. Put your passports, boarding passes, and tickets in an easily accessible place as well.

6. Arrive at the airport at least 2 hour before your scheduled time.

When you’re flying with an infant, it’s always a good idea to arrive at the airport early. This way, you can give yourself plenty of time to check in, go through security, and get to your gate.

If you’re traveling with a stroller or car seat, you may also want to check them in at the gate so you don’t have to lug them around the airport.

It is common practice for smart parents to arrive at airport 3 hours before the flight, so that they do not have to face any last minute problems.

Here’s some of the last minute problems that you can get rid of, if you reach airport early

  • You would have ample time to fill the departure form
  • No need to rush for check in, as you would have already done it
  • You can double check the weight and size of your luggage
  • If you are traveling with an infant, you can check in early and get a bassinet for your baby
  • You can choose your seats in advance

7. Choose the Nighttime As It Is Best for long-haul flights

If you’re flying on a long-haul flight, it’s a good idea to book a nighttime flight. This way, your baby will be more likely to sleep for a good portion of the flight, and you’ll be able to get some rest as well.

Just make sure you bring a few extra blankets and pillows on board so you can make yourself comfortable.

8. Keep Your Baby occupied and calm.

During a long-haul flight, there will be times when your baby gets restless or cries. When this happens, it’s important to try to distract and reassure them.

You can try going for a walk up and down the aisle with them, or you can give them a toy to play with. If they’re still crying, you can try nursing or rocking them to sleep.

If your baby gets exhausted, you can play some soft music or kids cartoon to distract and calm them down.

9. Choose Special Seats with a travel bassinet attached

If you’re flying on a long-haul flight, you may want to consider reserving a seat with a bassinet attached. This way, your baby will have a place to sleep during the flight, and you’ll have a little more space to move around.

Just keep in mind that these seats are often in high demand, so you’ll need to book early.

10. Be prepared for turbulence

Turbulence is a common occurrence on flights, and it can be especially scary when you’re flying with an infant.

To prepare for turbulence, make sure you have a firm grip on your baby and your belongings. You may also want to put on your seatbelt and put away any loose items.

If the turbulence is severe, you can try to nurse or bottle-feed your baby to help them calm down.

11. Let him rest as soon as the lights are off for taking off

This is one of the most important flying with a baby tips. As soon as the airplane’s seatbelt sign goes off and the cabin lights are dimmed for takeoff, let your baby know it’s time to sleep.

You can do this by turning off any electronic devices, closing the window shade, and speaking in a soft voice.

If your baby is tired, he will be more likely to fall asleep during takeoff and have a better chance of sleeping through the entire flight.

12. Short vs long haul flights

There is no one definitive answer to the question of whether it’s better to fly on a short or long haul flight with a baby.

Let’s discuss some differences between the short vs long haul flights and how they effect your baby on a plane:

  • Lights: On a short haul flight, the lights are usually turned on for takeoff and landing. This can be disruptive for napping babies. On a long haul flight, the cabin lights are usually dimmed for takeoff and landing, which can help your baby sleep.
  • Broadcasting: On a short haul flight, the in-flight entertainment system may be turned on during takeoff and landing. This can be disruptive for napping babies. On a long haul flight, the in-flight entertainment system is usually turned off during takeoff and landing.
  • Free Water and Coffee: On a long haul flight, you will get enough water and coffee for the entire flight. This will help you because you can stay hydrated and avoid getting jet lag.
  • Movies Availability: On a long haul flight there are more movie options available to watch. This can help pass the time on a long flight.

13. Let him feel comfortable

Your baby needs to feel comfortable on the flight, so make sure you bring along any favorite blankets or toys. You should also pack extra clothes in case your baby has a blowout or spits up.

If you’re flying with a lap baby, you may want to bring along a nursing cover or scarf to help you feel more comfortable nursing in public.

You may let him to walk around the cabin, if he is old enough to do this and if the flight attendants allow it.

14. Stay calm

Flying with a baby can be stressful, but it’s important to stay calm for your baby’s sake. If you start to feel overwhelmed, take a deep breath and remind yourself that everything will be okay.

Flying with baby happens occasionally so it is not your baby routine. Try to see it as an adventure and enjoy the experience. It will be over before you know it.

15. Consider a seat for your baby

Safety experts agree that the safest place for your baby on a plane is in a government-approved car seat or a separate seat with special harnesses.

FAA rules say that infants under the age of 2 must be in a car seat or other FAA-approved restraint. Its all up to the parents to decide what is best for their baby.

If you’re flying with a lap baby, you may be able to get a discounted fare.

However, keep in mind that you’ll need to hold your baby during takeoff, landing, and turbulence.

If you’re not comfortable holding your baby during these times, you may want to consider paying for a seat for your baby.

16. Consider electronics

According to AAP (American Academy of Pediatrics) , there is no evidence that using electronic devices on an airplane is harmful to babies.

However, the AAP says that parents should use caution when using electronic devices around babies.

If you’re using an electronic device, make sure the volume is turned down so your baby isn’t disturbed.

Some airlines offer in-flight entertainment systems with movies, tv shows, and games that can help keep your baby entertained during the flight.

But some mothers do not prefer to use them to entertain their babies because babies get used to it very quickly.

17. Consider a carrier

If you’re flying with a lap baby, you may want to consider using a carrier. This will help keep your baby close to you and make it easier to breastfeed or bottle-feed during the flight.

If you’re not comfortable using a carrier, you can try wearing your baby in a wrap or slings. This can also help keep your baby close to you and make it easier to breastfeed or bottle-feed during the flight.

18. Bring Identification

Make sure you have your baby’s birth certificate or other form of identification with you when you travel. This can be helpful if there’s ever any confusion about your baby’s age or identity.

Or might be this can help you in purchasing a separate seat for your baby. Most airlines do not ask for identification when flying with a lap baby, but it’s always good to have just in case.

It’s also a good idea to bring along a recent photo of your baby in case you get separated. Sometimes the proof of age of your baby is required for certain reasons, so bringing documents has always been a good idea.

19. Change Diapers Before Takeoff

Make sure you change your baby’s diaper before takeoff. This will help reduce the risk of a blowout during the flight. This will reduce your physical work during the flight and you can relax more.

20. Feed During Takeoff and Landing

Breastfeeding or giving your baby a bottle during takeoff and landing can help reduce the risk of ear pain. Babies tend to swallow less during these times, which can lead to pain.

21. Pack First Aid Kit For Baby Emergencies

You can never be too prepared when travelling with a baby. Be sure to pack a first-aid kit with everything you might need, including diapers, wipes, rash cream, a thermometer, and medication.

You should also pack extra clothes for your baby in case of spills or accidents. And don’t forget to pack snacks and drinks for yourself in case of delays.

22. Dress Baby in layers

Dressing your baby in layers can help them stay comfortable during the flight. The cabin temperature can fluctuate, so it’s important to be prepared.

You may also want to consider bringing a blanket for your baby. This can be helpful if the cabin temperature is too cold or if your baby needs to sleep during the flight.

What Are Lap infant rules

Lap infants are babies who are under 2 years old and travel on an adult’s lap.

The rules for flying with a lap infant vary by airline, here are some general guidelines to follow:

Your Child Must Be Under 2 Years Of Age

You child must be under 2 to qualify as lap infant. On the day of travel, if your child turns 2, they will be required to have their own seat and ticket.

In a similar way, face mask restriction also follow the same age bracket. Means, kids under 2 years are not allowed to wear a face mask.

Lap Infants & Unoccupied Seats

Are you concerned whether your lap infant might find an unoccupied seat? The answer is “Yes” but with a few conditions.

The first is that the aircraft must not be full, and even then, the airline will likely only make the announcement to allow lap infants to occupy empty seats during the final boarding call.

The second condition is that you must have explicit permission from a flight attendant.

So, if you’re flying with an infant under 2 years old, it’s a good idea to be at the gate when boarding starts, and keep an eye out for any announcements about empty seats being available for lap infants.

Baggage Allowance for Lap Infants

When flying with a lap infant, you are generally entitled to bring one carry-on bag and one personal item per person in your party.

This means that if you’re flying with a lap infant, you can add an extra diaper bag to your regular carry-on and personal item.

You can check car seats and strollers that requires additional fee at the time of boarding, but it’s always a good idea to check with your airline before you travel, as their policies may vary.

Traveling with 2 Lap Infants

It’s a general rule that if you are travelling with 2 kids under the age of 2, you need to purchase a ticket for one of them.

So, if you have twins or two very young children, you’ll likely need to buy a seat for at least one of them.

If you’re traveling with more than one lap infant, you may be able to occupy two seats if the flight is not full and you have permission from a flight attendant.

Flight attendant might give you instruction not to sit next to each other as some flights have rule to have one lap infant in one row.

Similarly, Lap infants are not allowed to sit next to exit doors like front door, behind door, and emergency door.

So, it’s always a good idea to check with your airline before you travel to see if they have any specific policies regarding lap infants.

Pay For Lap infant on international flights

When flying internationally with a lap infant, you will typically have to pay a percentage of the adult fare.

The percentage varies by airline, but it is generally between 10-25%.

So, if you’re flying from the US to Europe with a lap infant, you can expect to pay somewhere between $200 and $350 in addition to the adult fare.

Where Lap Infants Are Not Allowed To Sit

Besides emergency or front and behind doors, there are also some seats where your lap infant is not allowed to sit.

These seats are usually the ones where the car seat are installed, or the ones with extra legroom.

So, if you’re flying with a lap infant, be sure to ask the flight attendant where your child can and cannot sit.

You will find these seats on some first class or business class locations or first row of economy seats.

Flying With An Infant On Lap: FAQs

Is it safe to fly with a baby on your lap.

No, it’s not safe to fly with a baby on your lap. The safest place for your baby to sit during takeoff, landing, and turbulence is in their own seat with an FAA-approved car seat.

Where should I sit on a plane with a baby?

The best place to sit on a plane with a baby is in a window seat with the baby on your lap. However, it is recommended that you purchase a seat for your child and bring an FAA-approved car seat.

Do babies need to wear masks on airplanes?

No, it’s not required that babies wear face masks on airplanes, but it’s recommended if they are over the age of 2.

The Bottom Line:

Flying with an infant on lap can be a daunting task, but with some preparation, you will be able to do it.

By following the 22 tips in this guide, you can make the experience safer and more comfortable for both you and your child.

Remember to purchase a seat for your child and bring an FAA-approved car seat if at all possible.

And if you have any questions, be sure to ask the airline staff for help.

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Is it safe to fly with a baby on your lap.

The answer can be rather controversial.

  • Safety risks for infants traveling on parents' laps in airplanes are significantly higher during crashes or turbulence.
  • Most industry organizations and health experts recommend purchasing an additional seat for infants for safety purposes.
  • The Federal Aviation Administration acknowledges the risks but permits lap travel, citing it as a cost-saving option for families.

For many who travel with young children, a question emerges when it comes to purchasing an additional seat for the infant or traveling with the child on their lap. In the United States, flying with a lap infant is permitted for children under the age of two , an option that can prove popular with those traveling on a tight budget.

Nonetheless, safety concerns arise given the lack of a secure position in which the baby can be held. Both industry organizations and health experts across the board strongly recommend the purchase of an additional seat for safety purposes.

However, many will still choose to do so anyway, given the cost savings and the challenges of lugging an infant's car seat through international airports. In this article, we will look closer at the safety risks associated with holding a baby in your lap or another unsecured position while flying.

The primary safety risk

According to the Association of Flight Attendants, the risk of harm to an unsecured child skyrockets during a survivable crash or when an aircraft encounters severe turbulence. These events can both prove fatal for an unsecured infant and, as a result, the American Academy of Pediatrics has routinely indicated since the 1980s that the safest place for a young child onboard an aircraft is in a fastened seat, as reported by ABC News .

According to an analysis from the Mayo Clinic , finding an appropriate seat in which to secure a child is not all that challenging, as most car seats are regulated for air travel. Nonetheless, inadequately fastening a car seat to an aircraft seat or failing to use an appropriate one can result in unnecessary injuries to a child.

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So what gives.

All of this leads to a natural question: if transporting lap infants is significantly dangerous, why do industry regulators permit the practice? As always, the answer is slightly more nuanced than one would initially expect.

The Federal Aviation Administration (FAA), which regulates the commercial aviation industry, permits infants to travel on their parents' laps while acknowledging the security risks involved. However, the organization does so in the following rather nonchalant manner:

"Did you know the safest place for your little one during turbulence or an emergency is an approved child restraint system (CRS) or device, not on your lap? Keeping a child in a CRS or device during the flight is the smart and right thing to do."

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Many in the industry have called for an end to allowing infants to travel without appropriate seats and have pointed to regulations such as those requiring all infants on military flights to be appropriately restrained. Nonetheless, the FAA has not indicated its intention to do so in the near or medium-term future.

At the end of the day, the practice of allowing infants to travel in their parents' laps enables those traveling with young children to fly for 50% less than they would have if required to purchase an additional seat. Ultimately, it is up to each family to balance financial and safety concerns to determine whether lap travel is appropriate for them.

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Flying with Baby: Parent FAQs

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By: Claire McCarthy, MD, FAAP & Jennifer Shu, MD, FAAP

Taking a baby on a plane is something that most parents approach with caution. Infants and air travel can both be unpredictable, and they don't always mix well. But some advanced planning and preparation can help make for a better experience for your baby, for you, and for everyone else on the plane.

Here are answers to some questions you may have before traveling with an infant, along with tips for a smoother and safer flight.

When is my baby old enough to fly on an airplane?

Generally, you should avoid flying with your newborn until they are at least 7 days old. Ideally, wait until your baby is two or three months old to fly. Air travel (and being in crowded airports) can increase a newborn's risk of catching an infectious disease.

Should my baby sit on my lap during the flight?

Ideally, no. The Federal Aviation Administration (FAA) doesn't require a ticket for children under the age of 2 years. But that means your baby will be on your lap. If there is turbulence, or worse, it may not be physically possible to protect your baby in your arms. Turbulence is the number one cause of children's injuries on an airplane.

If you do not buy a ticket for your child, you may want to ask if your airline will let you use an empty seat where you can install a car seat for your baby. If your airline's "lap baby" policy allows this, avoid the busiest travel days and times to increase your odds of finding an empty seat next to you.

The safest way for baby to fly

The safest way for your baby to fly is in a child safety restraint ―an FAA-approved car seat or airplane harness device . It should be approved for your child's age and size, and installed with the airplane's seat belt. Booster seats cannot be used on airplanes during flight.

  • Infants weighing less than 20 pounds should be bucked into a rear-facing car seat during airplane travel.
  • Children who weigh 20 to 40 pounds should be restrained in a car seat. They should not be switched to using just the airplane's lap belt until they reach at least 40 pounds.

There is an FAA-approved alternative to using a car seat on an airplane called the Child Aviation Restraint System ( CARES ). This airplane safety harness is not meant for infants, however. It is designed for use by toddlers (22 to 44 pounds) and only on airplanes.

Should I bring our car seat on the plane with us? Does that count as luggage?

Car seats, booster seats, and strollers generally don't count as luggage, but policies vary by airline; check with yours before flying. In most cases they can be checked at the gate, where the risk of damage may be lower, at no cost. Consider packing the car seat in a protective bag or box. If your baby has their own airplane seat, bring your car seat with you.

Not all car seats are certified for use in airplanes.

Make sure a label on the car seat says: "This restraint is certified for use in motor vehicles and aircraft."

Which seat on the plane is best for a baby?

Look for rows on the plane with more space , like the bulkhead. Exit rows are out, for safety reasons.

Choose a seat closer to the window, if possible . Aisle seats can be risky for babies during beverage service. Hot drinks being passed to passengers can spill and cause burns , and their little arms and legs can be caught by passing carts. Aisle seats are also closer to falling overhead bin items. If you use a car seat, most airlines require that they be installed in a window seat.

Ensure that your baby's seat is next to you on the plane. Visit the U.S. Department of Transportation Airline Family Seating Dashboard for tips. It shows which airlines guarantee adjacent seats for children under age 13 traveling with an adult at no extra fee.

Is there a way my baby can lie down flat on long flights?

Buckling your baby into a car seat or safety restraint remains the safest option. However, there are other options available to help baby sleep comfortably, especially on long-haul flights.

Airline bassinets. Some airlines offer airline bassinets attached to the plane's bulkhead wall―the wall behind the galley, or toilets or another cabin. In some premium cabins, they can be built into the seat compartment to use in bulkhead rows. Most airline bassinets require the baby to be under 6 months old and/or 20 pounds, and not yet able to sit up unassisted. These bassinets are sometimes called "skycots" or baskets.

Sleeper seat . For an added fee, some international airlines let you book three seats in a row with locking seat extensions. This creates a "sky couch" or sleeper-seat big enough for both parent and child. Some airlines also offer "lie-flat" and "flat-bed" seats.

Inflatable seat extenders . Some airlines let you bring your own inflatable, individual seat extension for your baby to snooze on lying down. Not all airlines permit these to be used, though, so check ahead of time. Your child will need their own seat to use one.

Note: For all options above, your baby would still need to be buckled into a car seat or held on your lap during takeoff, turbulence and landing.

Safe sleep practices still apply on the airplane.

  • If your baby sleeps on your lap during the flight: stay alert and check on your baby often. Make sure they can breathe easily, and their face is uncovered.
  • If your baby sleeps on another device during the flight: check that it is firm and flat, with no soft bedding. (See, " How to Keep Your Sleeping Baby Safe .")

Will I be able to get liquid formula or expressed breast milk through security?

Yes, but you have to follow the reasonable quantities rules. This means you're exempt from the 3-1-1 rule limiting liquids to 3.4 ounces (100 mL).

Pack formula, expressed breastmilk, or water for mixing with powder separately and be ready to let the TSA know you have it. You may ask that they not go through the x-ray machine (although this shouldn't cause a health problem). Visit the TSA website for more information.

Any tips for keeping my baby comfortable and content on the plane?

Dress your baby in layers. The temperature in a plane can vary widely, especially if you are stuck waiting on a runway. So, dress your baby in layers of clothing. As you pick out clothing , choose outfits that make diaper changing in a small space easier. Also, pack a change of clothes or two, in case turbulence hits during a diaper change or when you are feeding. Bring plastic bags for soiled clothing.

Be ready for ear pain during take-off and landing. During takeoff and landing, changes in pressure between the outer ear and middle ear can cause discomfort. If your baby has had ear surgery or an ear infection in the past two weeks, ask their doctor if it's OK to fly. Having babies drink from the breast or a bottle, or suck on a pacifier, can help. If your child has a cold or ear infection, a dose of acetaminophen or ibuprofen may help; check with your doctor for the right amount to give your child.

Reduce jet engine noise exposure . Airplane cabin noise hovers around 100 decibels, and is even louder during takeoff. Using cotton balls, small earplugs, or noise-canceling headphones may help to decrease the decibel level your baby is exposed to, and also make it easier for them to sleep or relax.

Keep in mind that sleeping babies are easier for everyone. If possible, travel at a time when your baby naturally sleeps. Or, onsider trying to put off a nap until it's time to fly. Flight delays can cause this to backfire if your exhausted baby decides to scream instead of sleep. But it may be worth a try.

Do not use diphenhydramine, or Benadryl, to help your baby sleep without talking to your doctor.

This medication can have serious side effects , especially if repeated doses are given on long flights. If you get the go-ahead and appropriate dose from your doctor, try it at home first. Some children react to the medicine by getting more awake instead of sleepy.

Consider a diaper change right before boarding the plane. A dry baby is a happy baby. Fortunately, when you do need to change a diaper in-flight, many planes have restroom changing tables . If yours doesn't, ask a flight attendant if there is a spot where you can spread out your changing pad. Some parents resort to diaper-changing on the closed toilet seat. If you try this, be sure to have a hand on your baby at all times and pack a disposable changing pad. Plan for delays; pack plenty of supplies.

Bring distractions . Pack some toys and books and be ready to play with your baby the entire time. A tablet with videos can be a good backup if the toys and books aren't helping anymore (we don't encourage entertainment media for children under the age of 2 , but desperate times can sometimes call for desperate measures).

Don't let the glares get to you . Despite the best advanced planning and efforts, babies cry sometimes. Know that you did, and are doing, all you can. At that point, one of the best ways you can calm your baby may be to stay calm yourself. And remember that for every person who is glaring at you, there are plenty of people who have been through it themselves and have lots of sympathy.

Ask for help . Arrange for your airline to help you if you need help making a connecting flight. Carrying a child safety restraint, your baby and luggage through a busy airport can be challenging.

Does my baby need a passport for international travel?

Yes. All U.S. citizens, including infants, need a current passport to travel internationally. Parents or guardians need to apply with their baby in person using the form DS-11 . Be sure to bring your baby's birth certificate and a photo taken within the last 6 months.

Passport photos must be taken with nobody else in the photo, which can be tricky with infants. To do this safely if your baby can't sit up yet , lay them on their back on a plain white blanket or sheet to ensure head support without having to hold them. Another option is covering a car seat with the sheet and taking a picture with your child in it.

What about domestic flights?

A valid passport is usually the only identification your baby will need to fly on a domestic flight, unless you need to show proof of age for a discounted child fare. Check with your airline before you leave. Note: Children under age 18 will not be required to get a Real ID .

What is the best time of day to fly with a baby?

It is hard to say whether flying during the day or night with a baby is better. After the first few weeks, some infants may sleep more reliably at nighttime than they do during naptime travel. If you and your baby can sleep on the plane, a late-night flight may be the way to go.

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50 Flying With A Baby Tips: EVERYTHING you need to know, from Booking to Arrival

Flying With A Baby Tips - Top Tips from Booking to Arrival, baby in the flight deck

  • As an ex flight attendant and a parent of two married to an Australian, I have flown thousands of miles long haul and short haul with babies on numerous different airlines (and helped other many other parents with my old airline when working.)
  • This family travel guide is full of flying with a baby tips. You will find over 50 useful and helpful tips – including practical, real life experiences from what we have learnt first-hand AND airline industry insider tips too.
  • There is no secret answer to guarantee a perfect flight with a baby, but we’ve always found the trip to be worth it.
  • If you are travelling with a baby soon and wondering what are the best flying with a baby tips you have come to the right place! Perhaps you are worried about other passenger looks when your baby cries, or how to get them to sleep onboard in an unfamiIiar environment or just generally how to travel with an infant? My personal experience of flying with my own babies and background as cabin crew, will hopefully answer ALL your how to fly with baby questions!

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Firstly, you are not alone with your worries. I had exactly the same concerns about traveling with an infant, before I first flew with my two tots; despite having helped hundreds of other parents as a flight attendant.

This article covers all aspects of international travel with information about many major airlines as well as policies that only apply to some countries eg USA and domestic flights.

This includes the answers to:

  • Age Restrictions and Regulations
  • Booking Plane Tickets for Infants
  • Planning for a Smooth Travel Experience
  • Packing Essentials for Baby including entertainment ideas
  • Navigating Airport Security with a Baby
  • Managing Baby’s Sleep and Feeding/Sterilizing a bottle
  • Ensuring Comfort During the Flight
  • Dealing with Ear Pressure and Changes in Altitude
  • Entertaining and Soothing baby during the Flight
  • Tips for Staying Calm and Relaxed

Flying With A Baby Tips - Top Tips from Booking to Arrival, baby in the fight deck

HOW TO FLY WITH A BABY

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This section includes tips on Rules for Flying With a Baby , Lap Belt & Car Seats , Airline Bassinets and Baggage Allowance for Babies.

1. Know the rules for flying with an infant

  • Decide whether you will be flying with a lap baby (where they sit on your lap usually for free on some occasions – e.g. if a USA domestic flight, or 10% of an adult fare for most long haul airlines) OR if you are going to purchase a seat and use a car seat or CARES harness (available in UK here ) to fly with baby or child.

Infant lap belt CRD baby in lap belt

  • You have the choice of purchasing a car seat or having baby as a lap baby. In the USA, car seat use on airplanes is much more common to see, which the FAA encourage but it is very much a personal choice, with the additional cost of a seat making a trip much more expensive. You can read more about using car seats as a CRD and CARES harnesses on an airplane on my post here .)
  • If you are flying and want your baby in their own seat, you will need to purchase a child plane ticket and bring your own an FAA approved car seat , (or equivalent authorities approval )- this post on FAA approved car seats on airplanes will help with all your questions about this!

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Flying with an Infant as a Lap Baby Or With a Car Seat or other restraint device?

  • If you are traveling with baby and are thinking of purchasing an extra seat and using your car-seat on a plane, look at airline policies on car seats first. When you travel with a car seat on a flight, rules can vary. Some airlines allow both forward and rear facing car seats on an airplane seat, others only forward facing.

Car seats airplane, child restraint devices CARES harness back

  • Planning some luxury on long flights with baby? Often a car seat or child restraint device such as the CARES harness won’t fit on the new business and first class style seats. Do check on your airlines website first for any requirements that need to be met. An AMsafe CARES harness can only be used for children meeting the weight requirements of between 22 and 44 pounds. (This is usually around 1-4 years old) and is the ONLY approved harness allowed on flights .
  • If you are flying with two babies under two years old, and are not flying with another adult, you will need to have at least one baby in a car seat as you cannot have two babies on your lap. If you are flying on a USA airline, this post on FAA approved car seats will be very useful!
  • If you have two kids under two and are with another adult, on smaller planes you may not be able to sit on the same row due to the number of oxygen masks provided.
  • Airplane travel with baby usually involved traveling with a bit of gear. If you are flying with car seats and strollers and not using your car seat as a restraint device, these can be gate checked for free. Most airlines allow you to take both the car seat and stroller but this can vary to just one piece. Check first! If you are checking a car seat, it’s a good idea to get a padded protective bag for it. You can read more recommendations for padded protective bags here .

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2. Can I get an Airline Bassinet?

  • Flying long haul with baby? Sleep will be on your mind! If you are flying with a lap baby and if an airplane bassinet is important to you because you are flying a long way, do look at which airlines provide a bassinet which is suitable for your child’s age. These are not infant seats on planes, but more like an infant bed. (NB. It is highly unlikely you will be given a bassinet position if you have purchased a seat and use your own car seat)
  • Age and weight requirements vary from airline to airline and often plane to plane. Most bassinets are suitable for up to 8 months, and British Airways bassinets are suitable for up to 2 years old – if your baby meets the weight requirements . When we have been flying long haul with a baby to Australia at various stages from 8 months to 13 months – an airline which had a bassinet was a huge influence on which airline I booked. More sleep baby has, the more you will! It is definitely one of the top travel tips for flying with a baby! 
  • When you are traveling with an infant or toddler, see if the bassinet is available before you book.  Very few airlines will let you see bassinet seat availability during the booking process – so more often or not, you will not find out until you get to choose your seats – after you have paid. Travel with a baby is much more relaxing if you know what resources are available to you.
  • If this is the case,  call your airline and ask them what the bassinet seat availability is like for a certain flight on a particular day. If the system shows it is free, then there is a good chance it still will be when you go online to book the flight when flying with infants.  However, with USA and Canadian airlines this does not apply: in this case, it is first come, first served at the gate – so check in early to maximise your chances on long haul flights with baby.
  • When travelling with baby on planes – know your seat choice options! Several airlines allow you to choose your seat immediately if you are flying with an infant – some for free! e.g British Airways and Thai Airways. If you want to double-check for a particular seat, look at www.seatguru.com and put in your flight number where you can check the plane layout. if you don’t know your flight number, don’t worry, you can enter the route and the airline.
  • When traveling with babies, even if you have pre-requested a bassinet seat for plane travel with baby, ring up and double-check the request is there. For American and Canadian airlines it is often the case that the f irst one at the gate grabs the bassinet . For other airlines, it’s the age of the baby that will have priority, usually the youngest . Finally, a few airlines just base it on who requested it first. 
  • Flying on a long haul flight with baby ? On a long haul flight, the bassinet should be set up for you after take-off, once the seatbelt sign is off. Most airlines will ask you to remove your baby if it is turbulent.

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  • If you have a bassinet, I can’t recommend the CoziGo airline bassinet cover highly enough- which shuts out the cabin light and noise distractions, so baby can sleep even during the day time. It doubles up as a UV breathable stroller cover too – perfect for hot sunny climates. This bit of baby gear is my go to for baby shower gifts and is perfect when flying with infants and it fits easily into your carry-on. Read more about it here .

Do all airlines allow the CoziGo Bassinet Cover?

Any travel with baby tips which actually help with sleep were my favorite. CoziGo is one of those. It’s an aiplane bassinet cover which doubles up as UV stroller cover too, so useful in several ways. It is one of my favourite parenting gadgets and one I often buy as baby shower gift for families!

On planes, it shields kids from cabin lights and distractions, allowing baby to relax and hopefully sleep! See why I like it so much? It’s one of my all time tips for traveling with baby on plane if using a bassinet.

Most airlines do allow the CoziGo, but check with your airline first. They usually state on their website in the travelling with children section or comfort device section if they have policy.

If you are flying with Virgin Atlantic, it may be worth using the term “Bassinet Cover” as some airline policies, do not mention specific brands, whereas others take the stance if the particular brand is not approved, it won’t be allowed.

Virgin Atlantic DO approve the CoziGo bassinet cover canopy , but do not mention its brand name on the website. Their safety team however call it a ‘bassinet cover’, so crew may be more familiar with that term. See more details here

If you are pretty sure your comfort device is permitted then my top tips are:

  • Be patient and polite – as crew are not always used to seeing these type of products.

2. Politely ask them if they can check their crew manual when they have a moment (they always have it packed).

3. Advise them that it may come under comfort device, bassinet cover, bassinet canopy rather than the actual brand name of CoziGo.

4. It also worth taking a screenshot of the airlines website, in case the crew are not familiar with the comfort device and think it is restricted. Here are some examples of airlines which approve the CoziGo on their website:

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3. Is there a baggage allowance for infants?

  • Air New Zealand
  • Alaska Airlines
  • American Airlines ,
  • British Airways ,
  • Singapore ,
  • Virgin Atlantic
  • Virgin Australia
  • That cheap flight may not be so cheap if you have to pay extra for baggage . I often use a stroller or gate check bag and put a few extra items like nappies/diapers or soft toys to also save space in my hold luggage and help protect the stroller or car seat more. You may be able to use your carry on allowance to use a stroller that fits into the overhead bin too. Find more suggestions for compact strollers for the overhead bin here .
  • You may find this post on the rules for flying with a baby useful too , especially if you are flying with babies or several children under two.

Good to Know:

  • A baby carrier is essential to help you be handsfree when navigating the airport
  • If the airline allows it, bring a carry on size stroller so you don’t have to wait at oversized luggage.
  • Pack essentials in a carry on diaper/nappy bag and pack essentials such as a change of clothes and diapers/nappies in Ziploc bags
  • Bring Calpol 5ml sachets or Tylenol/ Acetaminophen ‘Dr Kids’ single dose vials in carry on just in case your child feels poorly or is teething.
  • Have documents for the family to hand in one document holder
  • Depending on what the airline allows bring a CARES harness (available in UK here ) or FAA approved car seat . Note: CARES FlySafe is the ONLY FAA approved harness, be wary of copycats!
  • Give yourself a little extra time and try not to stress!

This section covers useful information and tips on Infant Air Fare Costs, ID & Age Baby Can Fly

Is there an infant air fare cost? Do babies fly free internationally?

4. do babies fly for free.

  • It depends: Babies do not fly for free internationally on any airline regardless if they are lap infant or not. Be prepared for most flights with under 2’s to cost 10% of an adult fare + applicable taxes. If you are travelling with infants, research what airlines offer.
  • Some countries like the USA offer free flights for infants if it is an internal flight and they are seated on your lap as a ‘lap infant’.  
  • Travelling with baby on a plane gives you the option to purchase a seat for them if you do not want have them travel as a lap infant. If you purchase a seat for your baby, fares are usually around 60-75% of an adult fare.  Sometimes going directly to the airline offers you a better deal but it is worth trying Skyscanner too.
  • Another popular question I get asked is, “does a 2 year old need a plane ticket?” Yes they do, all two year olds need a plane ticket and their own airplane seat for the flight.

5. Do I need a passport for my baby or child?

  • A frequent family travel question I am also asked is  ‘what do you need for flying with a baby?  If you have a baby flying with you, check what travel documentation or proof of ID is needed – even if travelling with an infant domestically. This information can also be found on your airlines website. If you are planning on flying with a newborn baby, apply for their passport as soon as possible.
  • A passport is always the best ID. If you are flying with an infant domestically in the USA, a passport is not required for  your baby – BUT it’s still a good idea to take a birth certificate and make sure you have a boarding card  or boarding pass issued for your baby.
  • Find further tips for flying internationally with a baby here. It’s a good idea to have all passports and documentation in one place, this document holder is also RFID blocking and has space for multiple passports and documents.

6. At what age can a baby fly?

  • When can a baby travel by plane? There is no legal requirement so each airline will stipulate their rules. Check the flying with an infant rules as per your airline regulations. Flying with a newborn baby rules may vary from airline to airline. Some may specify a baby must be at least 7 days old, whereas other airlines may say newborn babies must be 14 days old and/or meet other requirements to travel by airplane.  The American Pediatric Academy recommend ideally waiting until your baby is two or three months old to fly.

7. What Time of Flight is Best to Book?

  • We’ve tried early evening, day, night and everything in between and the best advice I can give, is choose a flight which works best for you eg a more direct flight, less transit stops or one that fits your budget. Obviously 4am flights are not ideal if you have a short haul flight, but might not be so bad if you are flying from Australia to UK. Consider how long the journey will take to and from the airport and how your child adapts to changes in their routine.

The following sections cover information and tips on Airline Child Meals, Baby Meal s, Baby Milk , Breastfeeding on a Flight and Sterilizing Bottles

7. Can I bring baby milk, water, and baby food on board?

  • All types of baby milk ( pumped breast milk , powdered formula or readymade baby formula milk) water for baby , baby food,   are all allowed over the 100ml /3-1-1 liquid rule IF you are travelling with your baby.

8. Do Airlines Provide Baby and Toddler Food?

  • Some airlines provide Baby Meals if they are pre-requested for long haul flights. If your baby is weaning, request a baby meal at least 24 hours before you fly.  
  • Baby meals are typically pureed jars of baby food which you can request for long haul flights – but not all airlines have them. It is always best if you to bring your own supplies and some healthy snacks.
  • For older babies, some airlines provide pre requestable toddler child meals or post weaning meals too. For more information on what airline food airlines provide for babies and toddler, see here .

Singapore Airlines Post Weaning Meal

  • If your airline doesn’t provide a special meal or if your baby is over the pureed stage- most airlines will not have food for your baby. You need to provide this yourself. A few airlines do have some extra amenities onboard for babies and toddlers, which include a tub of formula milk, but they are in the minority: do not depend on this!
  • If you are flying with baby food, be aware that most airlines will not chill it for you and some countries will not allow ice packs to chill it. A good option and bonus tips for traveling with baby is to take some Ziploc bags and ask for ice after security at any cafe or restaurant and replenish from the crew to keep any food chilled. Ziplocs for the parenting win!

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9. How Much Baby Milk Should I Bring?

  • If you are formula milk feeding , then plan to bring double than what your baby would normally consume. The same goes for snacks . You never know if your flight will be delayed on cancelled and having extra will save you stressing if that happens.
  • If you need milk for a bottle heated up for your child – do ask in plenty of time in case the crew are about to busy with a meal service.
  • Babies on planes usually likely to drink more than they usually do as the cabin air is quite dehydrating, which is another reason to pack more than you need if formula feeding. A spare bottle may be useful to have.
  • If you need to sterilise bottles on board, this post provides more information. But Milton sterilizing tablets are useful and this brilliantly useful collapsible bucket with lid which you can easily fill on board.

10. Breastfeeding on A Flight

  • All airlines are happy with a mum breastfeedin g and support your right to do so.  If you are a bit self-conscious, here are my breastfeeding tips on a plane in detail. You may a prefer a window seat for a but more elbow room.
  • Snack catchers can be useful for older babies who are weaning as then you know the whole pot won’t end up spilling all over the aircraft floor. Eating snacks doubles up as an entertainment activity too!

This section cover packing tips and other useful items to bring not already mentioned.

11. What Baby Travel Products Shall I Take?

  • Baby carriers
  • Travel strollers
  • Hand luggage size strollers
  • Portable travel highchairs

Parent Traveling With Baby Formula On A Plane

12. Pack more than you need when..

  • it comes to diapers/nappies and wipes and traveling with an infant on a plane, always pack more than you need for the trip and have them easily accessible in your carry on , in case you are delayed on the airplane and can’t access your hold baggage. Some airlines will allow a carry on diaper bag or changing bag for free. Otherwise it will need to be part of your carry on allowance.
  • This diaper bag doubles as a travel bassinet and changing mat and this one has extra space for extra carry on items as well as a a foldout changing mat

13. Bring These Brilliant Quiet Activities And Baby Toys

  • Entertaining your child on a flight is a big part of learning how to travel by plane with a baby. Bring some interactive but quiet baby toys which will keep them busy. Something new like our favourite suggestions are educational, good for child development and learning, and importantly fun! Also bring some familiar favourites. All of these entertainment ideas actually work in all of our many experiences flying with ours as babies.

14. Pack Ziploc Bags!

  • Ziploc bags: put a change of clothing in each one, nappies/diapers and wipes etc, so you can easily find them and whip them out quickly! When people ask me how to fly with an infant or child – I always recommend this as one of my favorite traveling with baby tips!

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15. Wear Easily Removeable and Comfortable Layers on You and Baby

  • Dress you and baby in comfortable and easily removable layers. Crammed in a refined space with baby asleep on you when you are feeling hot will require some Houdini moves, so easily removable layers can help. Aircraft cabin temperatures do fluctuate, so whilst you may feel hot on the ground, you may feel chilly after a couple of hours.

16. Pack A Change of Clothing for You AND Baby

  • Pack an extra change of clothing for you and baby in your carry on. We have to rely on this several times, and once we went through our changes of clothes and my daughter ended up wearing an over sized pyjama top from first class! You never know when someone will feel poorly or an accident can happen! My husband got covered in puke on one long haul flight and no he didn’t have a spare change of clothes!

17. Pack Essential Medicine in Your Carry On Bag

  • Don’t forget to pack any essential medicine in your carry on. If it’s over 100ml or breaks the 3-1-1 liquid rules, ask your doctor for a note and check with your airline. Liquid medicines are exempt from TSA limits in the USA, but this is not always the case in other countries . Bring Calpol 5ml sachets or Tylenol/ Acetaminophen ‘Dr Kids’ single dose vials in carry on just in case little one feels poorly or is teething. If you have any health needs, check with health services or other medical professionals before you fly.
  • For a more comprehensive baby travel checklist – see here. It also includes a free checklist to print out and is very useful if you are traveling with an infant on a plane.

This section is all about airport security and tips to make it easier .

18. Pre-Order Any Baby Supplies and Pick Up AFTER Security

  • If you are in the UK, consider ordering some supplies from Boots to pick up after airport security. This includes diapers/ nappies , milk , wipes , suntan lotion even baby bottles etc. The benefit is you should pass through security a bit quicker with fewer liquids. This was one of the best tips for flying with a baby I was given, especially when I was flying solo.

19. Leave Home in Plenty of Time

  • Plan to leave extra time for the airport- especially for security and the x-ray machine. An extra 30 minutes is ideal if flying with infants or young children, with all airports having different layouts and some better signposted than others!

20. Pack Liquids Separately

  • Pack any liquids in an easy place to access quickly. If you have a clear small single, transparent , resealable plastic bag, which holds no more than a litre and measures approximately 20cm x 20cm, use that to save time at the airport.

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21. Baby Milk and Water Is Allowed

  • Baby milk ( pumped breast milk , powdered formula or readymade baby formula milk) water for baby, baby food,  are all allowed over the 100ml /3-1-1 liquid rule if you are travelling with your baby.  It’s often worth asking the cafes airside (past security) for ice to replenish your ziplock bags if you have any perishable goods on you for the flight. Ice packs are often not allowed through security. They may swab your bottle but usually don’t open it.

22. Clear security e.g TSA, in plenty of time.

  • Be prepared to take your baby out of the stroller or baby carrier for the x-ray machine.

23. Look out for a Family Check in And Family Line in Security

  • Look out for a family line at the airport check-in and/or security or ask if there is one if it is not obvious. British Airways have a dedicated family check in area in London Heathrow Terminal 5 (to the left of the building) with some activities to keep kids occupied whilst waiting. Many airports have a security line just for families too.

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This section covers useful tips at the Airport including Courtesy and Travel Strollers , Airport Soft Play and Pre-Boarding

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24. Should You Gate Check Your Stroller?

  • Decide whether to gate check your stroller or check it in immediately. I’ve done both, and I prefer checking it immediately, unless it’s a small cabin sized stroller that meets hand luggage conditions.

25. Baby wearing Can Help

Baby-wearing makes it a little bit easier to board if you don’t have a stroller you can bring inside the airplane cabin with you. With a baby carrier there is less stress folding up your strollers and managing baby and bags as you board. American Airlines stroller policy is here.

26. Some Airlines Provide Courtesy Strollers To Use

  • Some airlines/airport provide complimentary strollers to use as part of their family-friendly facilities, like Emirates at Dubai International Airport. Great to use if your child is tired in transit.

Emirates at Dubai Terminal 3 provide complimentary strollers for passengers.

27. Look for An Airport Play Area

  • If you are flying with a toddler, or young child, check out the airport soft play facilities and let your kids burn off some steam for a bit before the flight. If not, use a blanket on the floor for them to stretch out a bit. 

airport soft play at capetown airport

28. Visit the Airport Restroom before your flight.

  • Visit the airport restroom before you board your flight to reduce any poonamies. Although, inevitably, they always do a big poo when it’s trickier to change them.

29. Don’t Board First, Unless…

  • One of my favourite tips for families about flying with a baby is to board a bit later than everyone but have your partner board earlier to secure space for all your gear. Although many airlines give families the option to board first, there is generally no point in having an older wriggly baby or toddler restrained on a plane waiting for everyone else to board. This is certainly the case for day flights. If it’s a night flight you may find it easier to get them settled first and to board first.

This section covers tips on Changing Diapers/Nappies , Helping Baby Sleeping on A Plane , Ear Pain

30. The Majority of Airplanes have changing tables

  • All airlines have restrooms on board with changing tables for families. (The only exception would be some short domestic flights in older aircraft).

 Airplane changing table sign

  • Look out for this sign on the door which indicates a changing table is available.
  • For more information and tips for flying with babies read  what to expect on board when flying with a baby – this post has more detail.

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31. How to Help Baby Sleep On A Plane

  • For sleeping tips when flying on a long flight with baby- this post will help with information on how to soothe and settle a baby in an unfamiliar environment. Tips include: strategies on routine and schedule, sleep inducing food, avoiding distractions and making baby feel cosy and comfortable. It also includes some brilliant travel products which can help stop baby from getting distracted by what is happening around them. A simple tip for those using a bassinet, is a light blanket or Cozigo cover to shield the baby from bright lights as you try to settle and soothe them.
  • Do expect some turbulence at times. It’s perfectly normal. If you are using a bassinet, you will be asked to remove your baby from it and secure baby on your lap – this will be with an infant lap belt if your airline provides one. The only exception is on Virgin Atlantic and Qantas due to their bassinet design.

32. Fill Out Any Arrival Documents and store in any easily accessible place

  • Fill out any documents in plenty of time ,including customs forms. If you are entering certain countries you must not bring any fresh food off the plane. If in doubt, declare it and go through the red channel. For example,  I have had tinned powder baby milk, declared it and it has been fine to enter Australia, but I always declare.

33. How To Help With Babies Ear Pain

  • If you are wondering how to stop babies ears popping on a plane, here are some ideas! Some babies cry with the change of pressure in their ears on takeoff and landing. Feed during the takeoff and landing phases of the flight, if you are concerned about the change of air pressure. You don’t need earplugs.
  • Cabin crew or pilots will normally announce when you are close to arriving at your destination and advise you to use the restrooms before the seatbelt sign comes on. This is your clue that it is almost time to descend and for the landing phase of the flight to begin – when changes in air pressure can occur. Sucking or chewing snacks or feeding often helps relieve this.
  • Alternatively, use a pacifier/dummy (or a rice cake for older babies) Earplugs are not normally an option, due to babies small ear size.

33. Ignore any person that is giving you a ‘look’

  • Ignore any person that is giving you a ‘look’ if your baby is making is a noise, and don’t feel pressured in having to placate them. You have enough on your plate. Sure, it’s always good practise to be considerate of your fellow passenger, which is why trying to distract your child by playing with them, with a new toy, feeding them, changing their diaper or nappy and following the tips on this page will show that you are trying to calm them. Most people know and understand that babies and toddlers DO cry scream on a flight despite you trying everything and often a look is from a friendly parent acknowledging that they have your back.
  • But if you have the pleasure of being sat near to that person who thinks babies shouldn’t be allowed on planes, don’t let them get to you. The most important thing is you are trying and everyone around you can see that. Soon the flight will be over and you can all get some rest and enjoy your stay.
On a particularly bad flight long haul flight (24 hours!) my daughter developed nappy/diaper rash just before we took off and screamed every time she needed to go. I’m not going to lie, it was horrendous. She screamed the place down every hour or so and neither of us got much sleep. Nothing worked, even a fresh bottle of warm milk. My husband and I were both frazzled and I was close to tears with exhaustion. But other passengers could see we were doing our best. Taking her to the rest room and the back galley to calm her down, changing her regularly etc, and we got there in the end! The return flight, two weeks later was a much better experience!

This section covers Arrival Tips including: Collecting Baggage and Your Stroller at the Airport

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34. Your Stroller is likely to be here on Arrival

  • If your stroller is not compact, it will be put into the aircraft hold with your bags . Some airlines (depending on arrival airport) will put a tag on it which indicated it can be brought to you at the aircraft door on arrival .

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  • Ask the ground staff at your destination, if they know where you will pick up your stroller – at the aircraft door, or at the baggage belt or in oversize luggage belt.
  • On our first few flights we waited ages at our baggage belt, only to find out our stroller was on the other side of baggage reclaim at the Oversize belt waiting for us. If you have been with babies, flying on a long flight – hunting around for your stroller is the last thing you need.
  • Some airlines and airports provide courtesy strollers for you to use – but just in case they are not available, that baby carrier will come in handy again.

Did these tips on flying with a baby help? Read on if you would like more flying with an infant tips broken down by age!

More Travel with Baby tips – Flying with a Baby by Age

Flying with a baby tips from 0 - 12 months old.

Traveling with a baby can provide different challenges depending how old they are. This helpful list guides you through flying with a baby - whether your infant is a newborn or a 12 month old.

Each stage considers what items you may prefer to bring with you, and what travel gear is most useful to help you and baby get comfortable, eat and of course sleep!

  • Other items covered are:
  • ID and other documents
  • Airline rules for flying with a baby
  • Liquid and food allowance and what airlines provide.
  • Sleep tips and gear
  • Travel toys for younger and older babies
  • Car seat and bassinet information
  • Packing tips
  • Sterilizing information
  • Breastfeeding on board
  • More travel tips for flying with baby.

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Flying With A Newborn Baby Tips

Firstly, rest assured, flying with a newborn is so much easier than when they are crawling or walking! But if this is your first baby, then just driving the car with a newborn baby inside can be daunting (at least it was for me), let alone flying in a plane.

Here are some flying with a newborn tips and information to help you on your travel adventure. (A newborn is generally considered to be under  8 weeks old )

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TIPS FOR FLYING WITH A 2 MONTH OLD BABY

If you need to travel urgently or perhaps you have a holiday or vacation booked before baby arrived, then you need to know the rules on how soon can you travel with a baby.  As a very general rule, most airlines specify a baby must be over 14 days old to travel.

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Tips For Flying With A 3 Month Old Baby

This was the age our eldest had her first flight. She was 11 weeks old when we embarked on a long haul flight from the UK to Cape Town, proceeded by a short haul from London Heathrow to Glasgow.  This is definitely  one of the easiest stages to fly with a baby : When you are  flying with a newborn  or a little older, they stay in one place, are purely on a milk diet and sleep a fair bit!

The following tips are specific for flying with a 12 week old baby/ or 3 month old.

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Tips for Flying With a 4 Month Old Baby

Learn all you need to know about  flying with a four month  old baby; including hacks, rules, sleep, car seats & more traveling with a 4 month old tips.

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Tips for Flying With a 5 Month Old Baby

Flying with a 5 month old baby is easier than with older infants, as most babies haven’t started to crawl and the majority of babies are still on a liquid only diet until six months. But, there are still things which can make help you feel more prepared and relaxed about your next flight. If you have lots of questions, then you have come to the right place. Learn all you need to know about  flying with a five month old baby;  including hacks, rules, sleep, car seats & more traveling with a 5 month old tips.

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Tips For Flying With a 6 Month Old Baby

Are you  flying with a 6 month old baby soon?  Worry not, whether you are flying domestic with an infant or on an international short or long haul flight, you will find plenty of tips and information here to help you feel more prepared and relaxed about your next flight. Just click on the highlighted link for specific tips fro flying with a six year month old.

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Tips For Flying With A 7 Month Old Baby

These tips for your weaning and more wriggly baby will help get you through you next  flight with a 7 month old.

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Tips for Flying With an 8 Month Old Baby

Are you flying with a 8 month old baby soon? Worry not, whether you are flying domestic with an infant or on an international short or long haul flight, you will find plenty of tips and information here to help you feel more prepared and relaxed about your next flight.

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Flying with a 1 Year Old Tips & Essential Information

Are you flying with a 1 year old baby soon? Worry not, whether you are flying domestic with an infant or on an international short or long haul flight, you will find plenty of tips and information here to help you feel more prepared and relaxed about your next flight.

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Best Baby Travel Toys

Having a few baby travel toys for the airplane is always a good idea. Lightweight, non bulky and sound free are the best!

For flying with a toddler top tips see here.

Are you travelling with a baby soon or have you before? Do you have any more travel  tips for flying with infants? Please jot them below for other readers to discover.

More resources and tips for travelling with a baby.

If you have already booked your flight, then this condensed version of how to fly with a baby may help you too, but this post goes into greater detail.

For in-depth information on certain points – just click on the highlighted links.

Feel free to join in with the chatter on my Flying with A Baby Facebook page too: there is all sorts of useful advice on there and on my Family Travel Tips Forum Facebook group, where parents all over the world offer local advice.

If you are flying for the first time with your baby or toddler, you may also find my post on ‘ What to Expect’ useful too.

Do let me know if these flying with a baby tips are useful and share to help another parent out!

Don’t forget:

  • For information on tips for flying with a sick baby see here.
  • For tips on flying with a breastfed baby see here.
  • For tips on flying with a newborn see here.
  • For tips for flying with a baby alone see here.
  • Tips for flying with a baby on British Airwa ys
  • Tips for flying with a baby on American Airlines
  • Tips on flying with s baby or other airlines see here.
  • Tips for flying with a baby and toddler.

Although this entire family travel site covers everything from flying with babies to older kids in so much more depth , (my own experience begins with flying with a 2 month old baby , including 24 hour long haul flights), I thought a briefer list of my best tips for flying with a baby, would also be helpful for those who don’t have time to read through the whole site.

Have these tips for flying with an infant helped you? Please let me know below! Most of all enjoy your flight with baby – good or bad, it will end!

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Monday 7th of December 2020

This is so helpful thank you I have a question though we are flying to Melbourne in feb do you know if we can pack bits like nappies under the pram? I'm looking to get a bag for the pram to go in and want to take a pack so we are covered when we have to quarantine and thinking it would be handy as they arent heavy but would take up space in the case. Also can we have a buggy organiser attached that has bits in like wipes? Thanks

Carrie Bradley

Tuesday 8th of December 2020

Hi @Jo, I have certainly done that with a pram bag. It helps to protect the pram too! I think if you are discreet and pack the bag either at home or at the airport discreetly and not have it bulging with extra bits, you are good to go!

Keryn Means

Sunday 15th of March 2020

Ear pain is the WORST! My youngest always suffered, but we did the best we could with bottles, pacifiers and Tylenol.

Jody A Robbins

Saturday 14th of March 2020

This is so comprehensive. Really appreciate all the advice and external links. You saved me so much time researching!

Stephanie Taleghani

Friday 13th of March 2020

Anyone flying with a baby needs to read this post. So many useful tips and many I wish I knew when I was first flying with my little one!

Sunday 22nd of September 2019

Very useful tips for parents. As i am a mother of two i know how important these tips are. Thank you for the tips. I’m definitely going to think of them when we’re away and my little one gets older.

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How to Manage Flying With a Baby on Your Lap (2023)

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Firstly, how safe is flying with a baby on your lap?

The Federal Aviation Administration (FAA) makes it pretty clear that they don’t advocate flying with a baby on your lap . The safest place on an aircraft for all passengers, including babies, is in their own seat (usually using a car seat or government-approved restraint system). So yes, there is a risk when flying with a baby on your lap. If you have the budget for it, consider getting your baby his or her own seat.

Pro Tip: For extra safety, bring your own car seat or purchase the government-approved CARES Child Aviation Restraint System .

How early can you fly with a baby? How much will it cost?

✓ Airline restrictions vary on how early can a baby fly, but most allow two-week old babies or older

✓ If you need to fly with your baby earlier than this age range, it’s best to bring a certificate/note from your child’s pediatrician

✓ Until the age of two years old, babies are allowed to fly for free domestically (with some discounts internationally)

Important! The CDC doesn't recommend non-essential travel (especially with babies) during the COVID-19 pandemic.

Best tips and hacks when flying with a lap baby  

Flying with baby on lap tips

So you’ve made your choice and decided to take a flight with your baby on your lap. Here are our best tips on how to make it through the flight (with both mommy and baby happy):

1. Don’t fly during the baby’s ‘witching’ hours!

The witching hour is described as the fussy period that almost all babies go through. It tends to happen around the same time every day and most frequently occurs in the late afternoon and evening hours. Many mommies say their babies witching hour window is 3pm - 7pm each day. Therefore, try to book only early morning or late night flights otherwise you might have a crying baby for the whole flight!

2. Choose the “right” seat

Choosing the right sit when flying with a baby on lap

If you want freedom (or maybe just want to avoid the passengers giving you the look ), choose the back seats! It might not be the most quiet nor most luxurious seat, but it does give you ample space and privacy since not many passengers want this location.

✓ The Front of the Plane Seats - Good for moms with infants below a year old or babies who fit in a bassinet. There’s enough leg space and you can rest while the baby is napping in the cot! Con: Armrest cannot be lifted so if the baby’s sleeping, only one parent can carry him or her.

✓ The Middle  - Good for moms with older lap infants (especially those who can’t sleep when it’s noisy). But it’s very hard to move around or go for bathroom breaks.

✓ The Back of the Plane Seats - Our fave! Not the most luxurious but can give mom and her lap infant enough space to move --- you can even snag an empty seat most of the time. Plus, you’re close to the bathroom (very helpful during a diaper explosion).

3. Bring proof of your baby’s age   

If you’re flying domestically, a baby under 2 years old should technically be free (for most airlines). However, you will still be required to present a proof of the baby’s age (bring their birth certificate or passport). If you’re traveling internationally, you might have to pay for a fee, usually 10% of the ticket rate and taxes .

Pro Tip: To be on the safe side, bring proof of the baby’s age whether it’s a domestic or international flight. You wouldn't want to miss your flight just because you can’t prove your baby’s age!   

4. Check-in bulky baby items

This question can be answered differently for every family, depending on if you’re flying with the baby on your lap or if you decide to pay for a seat (and use your carseat). If you’re flying with a lap infant, always check in your car seat, stroller and main luggage (basically all your bulky items) when you arrive at the airport. Or you can also opt to gate check your stroller (very helpful if your boarding gate is far). Just be aware that some airlines require claiming a name tag for gate-checked strollers!

Mom carrying lap baby using carrier

5. Wear your baby through the airport!  

There are many pros to wearing your baby! The baby stays close to you so there’s less chance of fussiness and crying. You also have both hands available (push stroller with one hand and hold hands with your other toddler). Additionally, passing through airport security is easier --- you won’t need to remove your baby from the carrier ( most of the time ). 

What else should I wear?

Perfect airport outfit for mommy and baby

Our Recommended Airport Outfit for Mom and Baby:

6. Use a backpack as your diaper bag!    

You need both hands as much as possible. Shoulder bags can easily slip off when picking up luggage and is just another pain to worry about. We love this backpack diaper bag from Mancro ! It’s very roomy and has lots of additional pockets (the sleek & simple design is a winner too). Pack bottles of water, formula/liquid formula, pacifiers, nappies, wipes, towels, extra clothes (3 to 4 sets), many bibs (if your baby drools), an extra shirt (or two) for mom, favorite toys and a sound book or toy.

7. Sip, sip, sip!

I’s important for the baby to sip or suck on milk to prevent the air pressure from hurting their ears (especially during takeoff and landing). Of course though, if they are already sleeping… Do not wake them up! You can also bring your own sippy cups --- make sure they’re leak proof.

8. Bring stickers, favorite toys & games to play  

The attention span of kids is minimal to say the least. It’s important to bring as many entertaining items to keep them distracted, without bringing your entire living room. An affordable yet effective strategy is stickers.  Something about stickers keep little kids so fascinated (and entertained for a long time)! Other entertainment options are toy cars, legos, coloring books, crayons, clay and animal figures. Keep these games stored in a clear packing cube inside your backpack. Easy access and easy organization!

Entertainment and activities for baby on lap

9. Download entertaining shows (plus comfy headphones)

It’s not the most ideal entertainment option for mommy but you gotta do what you gotta do! Fill up your tablet or laptop with your baby’s favorite shows, whether that’s Paw Patrol, Mickey Mouse Clubhouse or Shimmer & Shine. Games and apps can also keep little hands busy and entertained. Don’t forget to pack comfy headphones for your baby (unless you want to keep hearing Wheels on the Bus all throughout the flight). 

Kid's headphones and tablet

10. Organize with clear packing cubes

When you’re flying with a baby on your lap, moving quick is a must! That’s why clear packing cubes are your best sidekick (you’re a super mom after all). Need to change nappies in a jiffy, not to mention a small airplane bathroom? Just grab the cube with all your diaper-changing essentials. Is the baby making a fuss because he’s hungry? Grab the cube with all your snacks with easy access.

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Different Size Packing Cubes for Your Baby’s Needs:

✓   Extra small cube for small toys and knick knacks to keep your lap child entertained. It can also hold small snacks --- because who wants a hangry baby?

✓   Small cube for extra outfit changes --- don’t forget to pack your adorable onesies, some socks and lots of bibs!

✓   Medium cube for your baby’s bathroom paraphernalia! Remember to pack diapers, wipes and a changing pad.

11. Locate your baby’s bathroom 

Most large airplanes have at least one bathroom with a changing table. Before the plane takes off, ask the flight attendant where this bathroom is. If you’re seated near this bathroom, you’re in luck! No changing table in the bathrooms? We’ll still make it work. While you’re in the tiny bathroom, try changing the baby while you’re sitting on the toilet bowl --- with the lid closed!

Crying baby while on flight

12. Pack a first aid kit for baby emergencies  

Babies are prone to developing gassy stomachs (their intestinal system is still immature). It’s usually the cause of intense crying or fussiness! Make sure you pack a  DIY first aid kit with this clear bag for your baby. Bring along some gas relief drops,  teething ointment and pain relief meds   --- must haves for common baby emergencies.  

13. A little bribe never hurt anyone    

Bring treats for your surrounding airplane friends. You’ll feel a lot less stressed knowing you have some goodies to pass out if the baby starts having a fit. Some simple ideas include:

✓ Chocolates (because who doesn’t love a few Hershey Kisses?)

✓ Ear plugs (when the crying gets too loud, you can hand out your goodie bags to neighbors)

✓ Gift cards (Starbucks, Krispy Kreme, etc.) - this will go a long way

✓ Mints / Candies - add other goodies to the bag that you would enjoy receiving on a plane.

Some passengers might not even accept the gifts. Just the thought that you cared enough about their experience on the flight will go a long way.

Our favorite Mommy products to bring when flying with a baby

Flying with a baby essentials

Want to make airplane travel with your baby even easier? Real moms helped us put together their favorite airplane baby products below:

✓  Disposable diaper trash bags  

You wouldn’t want the whole airplane bathroom smelling like a poopy diaper, right? You can even use these trash bags for soiled clothes (vomit attack or poop explosion scenarios)!

✓  Snack ball/container  

This adorable snack ball/container can help avoid your baby’s favorite snacks from being crushed into pieces. Fill it with rice krispies or grain puffs before boarding your flight. It also doubles as a toy (shake, shake for a rattle sound).

Mommy favorite items to bring when flying with a baby

✓  Pacifier clip (and wipes)  

Don’t let your baby throw their pacifier on the airport floor! That’s just another thing you need to worry about cleaning. Easily clip their pacifier to their shirt and avoid hassles when they decide to spit it out. We also recommend pacifier wipes --- when you got no time to wash your baby’s nookie!

✓  Toxic-free hand sanitizer spray  

A must when traveling! Too many germs around your precious baby. Get a toxic free, yummy smelling one while you’re at it. We love the Honest Hand Sanitizer Grapefruit Grove !

COVID Update: In light of recent events, the TSA is allowing 1 liquid hand sanitizer up to 12 ounces per passenger. However, it needs to be screened separately so make sure to remove it from your TSA Approved Toiletry Bag.

✓  Wet bag (that’s actually cute)  

Why does everything get wet when you have a baby? This Whale Wet Bag is a lifesaver when traveling and just too cute. Just throw everything in, zip it closed and throw it in your carry on. No worries about your bag smelling like pee!

Packing cubes for organizing baby flight essentials

✓  Clear packing cubes  

These packing organizers will help you separate your bag into sections for amazing suitcase organization. Use the larger cubes for organizing your checked suitcase and the smaller cubes for organizing your carry-on bag. They are unique because of their see-through design , so you’ll know where everything is. Order a few small sizes for organizing the baby bag. Check out this video to see how our friend XOLivi organized her diaper bag !

✓  Portable snacks and treats  

Babies can be very picky when it comes to food. Don't forget to pack some  yummy freeze-dried fruits and organic puffs that are  also healthy and non GMO! #HealthyMomLife

✓  Car seat stroller  

Yup, we can’t help but gush over this GoGo Kidz Carseat Stroller . It converts your normal car seat into a stroller (no need for packing a buggy anymore). And it’s cute!

✓  Nursing pillow  

A long flight with a baby on your lap means lots of nursing (for  breastfeeding moms). Make it easier on yourself by bringing your own travel nursing pillow.   It makes a huge difference --- acting as a cushion for your baby’s head while also protecting your arms from soreness.

✓  Portable potty seat training cover  

Is your lap infant potty trained yet? Good job, mom! You’ll want to purchase a portable potty seat training cover before your flight. This will help protect your baby’s bum from germs ( this one from Gimars is non-slip too) and will make them feel more comfortable at your travel destination!

✓ Hygiene Kit

It's super important to prioritize your baby's health and safety. Pack your own Hygiene Kit using an Extra Small Cube.  Don't forget to bring some sanitizing wipes (for wiping down everything you'll be in contact with), spray alcohol, mask (for mommy) and gloves. 

Important!  Face coverings should NOT be worn by babies under 2 years old.

Decided to pay for a baby seat instead? Here are some options to consider!

If you decide you want to pay the extra bucks to buy a seat for your baby, there are lots of benefits to this option. It’s considered the safer option, plus you’ll have more space for yourself (and the baby). Here are a few ways to do this :

▻ THE OBVIOUS:  Buy your child a seat on the plane next to you. But this only works for babies who are old enough to sit by themselves (one year old and above). If your child is younger than one years old and you want to buy them their own seat, consider two options:

▻  Option 1: Buy a CARES Seat Belt and use this to strap your baby into the regular seat (this works well with older babies or toddlers).   Check in your stroller at the gate! You can push your baby all the way through security and only check the stroller in at the gate. Make sure to bring a wrap or baby carrier for the plane after you check the stroller in.

▻  Option 2 ( Our Recommendation ): Bring your own car seat! Attach the car seat to a GoGo Kidz Carseat Stroller for easy walk through the airport and attach your seatbelt into their airplane seat.

• Some moms like this option better than the CARES seat belt because their babies are used to their own car seat and sleep better on the plane.

• Important: Make sure your car seat is TSA Approved like this lightweight one from Cosco ! Also invest in a travel bag for your stroller to protect it during the flight.

Mom flying with lap infant

Flying with your baby alone can be scary, but with these tips you are good to go! Before the flight, take deep breaths and make sure you are extra organized. If the flight with your baby does not go according to the plan, you’ll be less frustrated and more prepared.

Discount for clear packing cubes

If you need help packing, remember that clear packing cubes are your best side kick. When you’re moving as fast as you do, our see-through cubes can keep up with your mommy duties. Bring all the baby’s favorite items and don’t forget about yourself!

Have a safe flight! You can do this.

P.S. Want more flying tips? Click here for the best tricks and hacks for airplane travel. 

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20 Tips For Flying With An Infant On Lap

Flying with an infant in arms can be very economical but it isn’t always the easiest! Following these tips for flying with an infant on lap will help you be better prepared and can ease the stress and headache that can accompany flying with little kids. After all, a little preparation can make all of the difference between an absolute meltdown and just a few normal hiccups.  

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Tips for Flying With An Infant On Lap

Before we get into the specific tips for flying with an infant on lap, it is important to address some of the common questions when flying with your baby! Knowing this general information will help you be even more prepared to handle a long flight with a baby or other little children. 

Information You Absolutely Need to Know Before Flying with an Infant on Lap

These are some of the most common questions and answers to flying with an infant on lap. This section will cover everything from how much it can cost, to what is the safest option, and everything in between.

What is infant in arms or infant in lap?

A lap infant or an infant in arms is a child under the age of 2 years old, who flies WITHOUT his or her own seat and instead sits on the lap of their caregiver. 

How old does my child need to be to fly?

Some airlines, like American Airlines, allow a child to fly when they are only two days old. Others have a more standard rule of 14 days. If you are unsure, it is best to check with your airline provider first. 

What is the safest way for baby to fly?

The AAP (American Academy of Pediatrics) recommends that the safest way for your little one to fly is in their own seat in a proper FAA-approved seat restraint. However, flying with your baby on your lap is still statistically safer than driving with your baby in a car seat . That is why the FAA recommends babies have their own seats and use a car seat, but they don’t require it. When you are determining what to do and what works best for your family, be sure to consult your pediatrician. 

How to prevent babies’ ears from hurting on the airplane

Just like adults babies can get ear pressure on the airplane, particularly during take-off and landing. The best way to combat this is to be prepared with a pacifier, or a bottle for your little one to have during take-off and landing. If you aren’t sure your baby will take a pacifier or will be hungry for a bottle, it can be advantageous if your baby is old enough to fill a bottle with their favorite juice or a drink that they don’t get often. This will help encourage them to drink to ease the ear pressure and lessen any fussiness or crying. 

Do airlines check infant age?

If you are flying internationally, then yes your airline will check the age as they require a passport. However, most US domestic flights do not check your infant’s age after you give it to them when booking their flight. 

What documentation do you need for an infant to fly?

When you are flying with a baby on your lap, you will need a separate ticket issued by the airline, even if it is free. You can do this by calling the airline and asking them to add your baby to your ticket. They will usually ask the age of your infant and then any other specific information they might need. They then will issue a special “infant in arms ticket” for your little one.  If you are flying internationally, you absolutely need a passport for your infant (more on that below)! 

Also don’t forget that if you are flying internationally with your baby and their other parent isn’t present, you need a travel consent form. 

You can read all about a travel consent form and download a template here !

Do infants need passports?

When flying internationally, yes! Any baby or child will need a passport when flying internationally regardless of age. 

Is a diaper bag considered a carry-on?

On most major US airlines, diaper bags can be brought on in addition to your carry-on and personal item. This means as a parent that you can bring your carry-on luggage, your purse/backpack, AND the diaper bag! However, some reduced fare airlines like Allegiant and Spirit may charge you for them. 

At what age do airlines charge for babies?

Most domestic airlines will allow babies to fly for free as an infant in arms ticket under the age of two. At the age of two airlines will require that your baby has their own seat and you will need to pay for it. International flights and airlines are a bit different. Flying with a baby under the age of two as an infant in arms internationally on international airlines like AirFrance, KLM, etc… will usually cost you about 10% of the normal ticketed fare.

What airlines charge for infants in laps?

Most domestic US airlines (Delta, United, JetBlue, American, Southwest, Alaska, etc…) issue “infant in lap” or “infant in arms” tickets for free. Air Canada also issues “infant in lap” tickets for free when flying domestically in Canada. However, other international airlines like Qatar, Singapore Air, KLM, etc… have a small charge (usually a small fee and then the taxes and fees) to issue an infant in arms ticket. The best way to find out if the airline you are flying will charge for an infant on lap ticket is to search the airfares site for “infant on lap” or “infant in arms’ ‘ or to call the helpline. 

Can a lap child fly first class?

In most cases, yes! In fact, Delta Airlines and other carriers have even released statements supporting parents who fly infants in arms or infants on laps in first class. 

*We have flown several times with an infant in arms in first class. I will say that all of our experiences have been positive. However, right now as Benson is REALLY active and is kind of a nightmare on flights I am sticking to the midrange class of airfare (on Delta this is Comfort+). Before you drop a bunch of money or points on first-class you might want to consider if you will be able to enjoy the amenities if you are wrangling a baby and if it might be a better idea to save up that cash or those points for a first-class flight later. 

What can you bring in your diaper bag on an airplane?

You can pack your diaper bag as normal. Any liquids will need to be checked as you go through security. Just make sure that you don’t have any scissors or sharp objects.

Can I bring water for baby formula on the plane?

Yes! TSA allows water and baby formula and food in “reasonable quantities” in carry-on bags. Although, be aware that it will most likely go through a quick additional screening process.  

Where should you sit on a plane with a baby?

If you can, try to score a bulkhead row and avoid the back of the airplane. The further you sit in the back of an airplane the more you can feel turbulence. Holding a baby during intense turbulence can be a bit intimidating for some. The bulkhead rows have quite a bit more space which can be really helpful if you need to bounce your baby around or get up and walk. 

Can I breastfeed or pump on an airplane?

Yes, in fact, most airlines won’t charge you extra for bringing your breast pump along. If you plan to nurse or pump while on the airplane you might want to consider booking a window seat if you would like a bit more privacy.

Can I wear my baby on the airplane?

Most airlines will allow baby carriers to be used during the duration of the flight with the exception of take-off and landing. Some airlines will also allow you to wear your baby during take-off and landing. If you are wondering what your airline’s policies are, just call and ask ahead of time. 

Can I wear my baby through the TSA security checkpoints?

Yes! Make sure that you don’t have anything stored in any of the compartments and that it doesn’t have metal buckles. 

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Now that we have most of the common questions about flying with a baby covered let’s dig into the best tips for flying with an infant on lap.

Be early! 

We suggest that you allow yourself at least an extra 30 minutes when you are flying with a baby. Adding another 30 minutes to your airport routine can help minimize the stress of trying to rush through the airport. You never know when you will need to change a diaper, feed, etc.. and having a bit of extra time can ease your mind. 

Have TSA Precheck or Clear

TSA Precheck or Clear are game-changers when flying with kids and babies. Life is so much easier when you aren’t trying to pull all of your liquids and electronics out of your bag, take off your shoes, remove your jacket, AND hold your baby. The best part of TSA Precheck is that if you as the parent have precheck, it is automatically passed down to your kids who are under the age of 12. 

If you don’t want to pay for TSA Precheck or Clear, here is a list of some of the credit cards that currently give you a free TSA Precheck or Clear credit.

  • IHG Rewards Premier Card 
  • United Explorer Card
  • Capital One Venture Rewards
  • Capital One Venture X
  • Delta SkyMiles Platinum (one of my favorites!)
  • Marriott Bonvoy Brilliant
  • United Club Infinite
  • American Express Platinum
  • Chase Sapphire Reserve
  • Southwest Rapid Rewards Business
  • American Express Business Platinum 

Haters are going to hate. Be okay with a few dirty or annoyed looks.

Almost every flight that I have been on with my little ones has garnered me at least one dirty or annoyed look. Honestly, most people are going to be really supportive and kind but be prepared that there might be someone who isn’t. Let those people go, and focus on the people around you who are happy and nice. Don’t worry about pleasing the person 3 rows in front of you who keeps shooting you a dirty look with each little whimper your baby makes. 

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Consider flying during nap, sleep, or happy times.

If your little one has a standard “witching hour”, avoid flying during that time! Flying early in the morning where your baby can snuggle you can catch some extra zzzz’s or flying red-eye can be advantageous if your little one is used to sleeping in your arms. 

Ask when you check-in if there are any extra seats! 

It doesn’t happen all of the time so you don’t want to bank on it, but it doesn’t hurt to ask if there are any extra seats on the flight when you check-in. Usually, if there are, the agent can seat you next to the extra seat so you can use the extra space for your little one. 

Attach loose items to you or your baby and bring caps and lids.

The airplane and airport are gross. There is no denying that. Having a pacifier clip or a bottle cap will save your sanity when trying to keep things off the floor. 

Bring extra wipes, and then bring some more.

Don’t underestimate the power of wet wipes and extra baby wipes. You will not regret being able to wipe down and sanitize your area and quickly clean up a spit-up or blowout. 

Consider double diapering. 

If you have a long flight ahead and your baby is prone to have massive blowouts you might want to consider double diapering. It is best to put a slightly larger diaper on the outside. Of course, you still want and need to change your baby’s diaper regularly. However, sometimes those blowouts happen during taxi, take-off, and landing and you can’t take care of them immediately. Having a bit of extra protection can be super helpful. 

Request a baby bassinet or the bulkhead.

If you are booking far enough in advance you should be able to request a bulkhead seat (a seat with more room) or a baby bassinet. Some airplanes don’t have baby bassinets but some do, so it never hurts to ask! 

If you are flying with your spouse or partner, book the aisle and middle seat!

Here is a hack to potentially help you snag some extra space for your baby! Most aircraft have 3 seats in a row. If you are flying on an airplane with this seat configuration with your spouse/partner you want to book the aisle seat and the window seat and leave the middle seat open. The reason for this is that the middle seats are the last to go and you are giving yourself a higher chance that you will have some extra space for a baby on your flight! 

If the middle seat ends up getting booked, just offer the person sitting there your window or aisle seat and have your partner/spouse move into the middle seat. This usually works great! The person who was going to be stuck in the middle now gets a better seat which can help with any frustration that may arise if your child or baby loses it. 

*We do this every time we are flying in the main cabin or comfort+ with our babies. I would say about ⅓ of the time we get lucky and have the middle seat empty. 

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Stick to your baby’s routine.

If you read a book or two and then sing a song before bedtime at home, do those same things on the airplane. This will help your little one transition a bit better. One thing you don’t want to do is to stress too much about your baby’s schedule. Most of the time flights can throw your infant’s schedule off for a day, so don’t get worked up if they miss a nap.  

Gate check your stroller. 

If you are going to have a longer layover or have a wiggly little one, keep your stroller with you as you move through the airport, and then just gate check it as you board! This is so simple and easy and means that you will have your stroller almost immediately after you deplane. You will love having your stroller with you so you have a safe place for the baby to sit while you check-in, wait for your flight, and then wait for your luggage. 

Take advantage of pre-boarding.

Most airlines allow families with young children who need extra time to preboard. Take advantage of this! Doing so allows you to get settled and situated. It also can help you snag some of that precious overhead compartment space. 

Pack some new toys and activities that can help distract your little one.

Having a few new toys and activities that you can pull out on the airplane when your baby is getting fussy can really help! We have found that the little spinner toys that can attach to the tray table or window work awesome and can entertain for hours!

If you don’t want to buy new toys, hide your baby’s favorite toy for a week or so before your flight. Then pack it and let your little one play with it on the airplane. 

Consider screen time.

There are some massive debates in the family travel world about allowing electronics on flights. We allow and even encourage it if it makes the flight easier. If you haven’t yet been introduced to “Hey Bear” on YouTube you need to give it a look. We have seen a dumb little “Hey Bear” animated song stop an absolute meltdown in its tracks. I try to download a few classic Disney movies or “Hey Bear” animated songs before we take off so I can quickly whip out my phone or iPad if needed. 

Make sure you pack enough snacks, water, and diapers.

You can get by without new toys, episodes, or even rushing through the airport to get to your gate on time. However, if your baby is hungry and you aren’t able to feed them it will be an absolute disaster. Check and then double-check that you have what you need. 

The best products for flying with an infant on lap

  • A lightweight blanket that you can drape over your shoulder for nursing or sleeping babies. 
  • A tray table cover. Using a tray table cover is a game changer! It is a perfect place to hold bottles, snakes, iPads with movies, and toys.
  • A sippy cup or bottle with a cap
  • Pacifiers with lids
  • Easy pour formula and snack containers

Pack an extra set of clothes for you and baby.

If you are flying with an infant on your lap and you are going to be taking your baby on a long flight you will want a change of clothes just in case there is a blowout or huge spit-up. 

Get baby as much sleep the day before.

Don’t get sucked into the idea that skipping naps and having an overtired baby when you board the airplane is a good idea. Doing this plan backfires and you then have an overstimulated and overtired baby. Help your baby get as much sleep the day before a big flight and then try to stick to your routines and encourage sleep at the proper times on your flight. 

Ask for and accept help.

If the kind stranger is offering to put your bag in the overhead bin while you get your little one settled in his seat, let them! Don’t try to do it all on your own if you don’t have to. If you feel comfortable asking someone to help you fold up a stroller, ask!  

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Be patient with yourself and with your little one.

Have realistic expectations for yourself and your baby. It is okay if your baby cries. It is okay to get flustered. Even if your baby freaks out THE WHOLE flight, you most likely won’t ever see those people again. You are doing your best. Don’t forget to take care of yourself and give yourself some grace. Ensuring that you have had food, and sleep will help you be better prepared for flying with your baby! Remember that it is about the destination you will be at and the memories you will make there! 

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Traveling with Children

All passengers are required to undergo screening. However, TSA has developed modified screening procedures for children who appear to be 12 years old and younger. TSA officers will consult parents or the traveling guardian about the child’s screening.

TSA standard screening procedures apply for children 13 years and older. Carry-on property of all passengers, regardless of age, must be screened. All passengers who alarm will undergo additional screening.

Children with Medical Conditions, Disabilities, or Mobility Aids

Inform the TSA officer if the child has a disability, medical condition or medical device.

Let the TSA officer know if your child is able to walk through the metal detector or needs to be carried through the metal detector by a parent/guardian. You may carry your child through the WTMD. The TSA officer will not remove your child from their mobility aid, wheelchair or scooter.

Request Assistance

TSA Cares provides information to passengers with disabilities, medical conditions and those that need additional assistance to better prepare for the security screening process. Call  TSA Cares 72 hours prior  to traveling with questions about screening policies, procedures and what to expect at the security checkpoint. You may also call to request assistance at the checkpoint.

Liquid Formula, Breast Milk, Toddler Drinks, and Baby/Toddler food (to include puree pouches)

Formula, breast milk, toddler drinks and baby/toddler food (to include puree pouches) in quantities greater than 3.4 ounces or 100 milliliters are allowed in carry-on baggage and do not need to fit within a quart-sized bag. Formula, breast milk, toddler drinks and baby/toddler food (to include puree pouches) are considered medically necessary liquids. This also applies to breast milk and formula cooling accessories, such as ice packs, freezer packs and gel packs (regardless of presence of breast milk). Your child or infant does not need to be present or traveling with you to bring breast milk, formula and/or related supplies.

Inform the TSA officer at the beginning of the screening process that you are carrying formula, breast milk, toddler drinks and baby/toddler food (to include puree pouches) in excess of 3.4 ounces. Remove these items from your carry-on bag to be screened separately from your other belongings. TSA officers may need to test the liquids for explosives or concealed prohibited items.

It’s helpful to the officers when formula and breast milk are in clear, translucent bottles and not plastic bags or pouches. Liquids in plastic bags or pouches may not be able to be screened by Bottle Liquid Scanners, and you may be asked to open them (if feasible) for alternate screening such as Explosive Trace Detection and Vapor Analysis for the presence of liquid explosives. Screening will never include placing anything into the medically necessary liquid.

TSA X-ray machines are not harmful to food or medicines. However, if you do not want the formula, breast milk, toddler drinks, and baby/toddler food (to include puree pouches) to be X-rayed or opened, please inform the TSA officer. Additional steps will be taken to resolve alarms. You or the traveling guardian will undergo additional screening procedures, to include Advanced Imaging Technology screening and additional/enhanced screening of other carry-on property.

Ice packs, freezer packs, frozen gel packs and other accessories required to cool formula, breast milk, toddler drinks and baby/toddler food (to include puree pouches) – regardless of the presence of breast milk – are also allowed in carry-ons, along with liquid-filled teethers. If these items are partially frozen or slushy, they are subject to the same screening as described above.

Passengers requiring special accommodations or concerned about the security screening process at the airport may request assistance by contacting  TSA Cares  or by phone at (855) 787-2227.

Screening of Children’s Items

  • Place all carry-on baggage such as children's toys, bags and blankets on the X-ray belt for screening.
  • Strollers, umbrella-strollers, baby carriers, car and booster seats and backpacks must be screened by X-ray.
  • Place items in the stroller pockets or baskets, in a carry-on bag or on the X-ray belt for screening.
  • Equipment that does not fit through the X-ray machine will undergo a visual/physical inspection by TSA officers.

Screening Technology

Walk-Through Metal Detector

Children able to walk through the metal detector without assistance may do so separately from their parent or guardian. If they alarm, children are allowed multiple passes through screening technologies and may undergo other procedures to resolve the alarm to reduce the need for a pat-down.

Infants and small children may be carried through the metal detector. Should the alarm sound, additional screening is required.

Advanced Imaging Technology

If your child is able to remain standing in the required position for 5 seconds, he or she may be screened through the advanced imaging technology. If a child 12 and under goes through the machine and alarms, they have an opportunity to go through again or the TSA officer may use other procedures to resolve the alarm to reduce the need for a pat-down.

You may not be screened by this technology when carrying an infant or child.

Screening your Child

  • Children 12 and under can leave their shoes, light jackets and headwear on during screening. For AIT screening, light jackets must be removed and placed on the X-ray belt.
  • Children will not be separated from their parent/guardian.
  • Remove infants and children from strollers and car seats and carry them in arms through the walk-through metal detector.
  • Infants may be carried in a sling/carrier (to include lap baby) through the walk-through metal detector or when being screened in a wheelchair, but may be subject to additional screening
  • Modified screening procedures are in place to reduce the likelihood of a pat-down.

12 tips on how to travel internationally with a baby

Lori Zaino

Traveling with an infant is already an adventure -- and traveling abroad with one is an even bigger feat to tackle.

Knowing the rules, researching and prepping ahead of time and packing the right things can make (or break) your first international trip with a baby. If you're in the know, you can take advantage of all the options afforded to traveling families, from bassinets on the plane and security shortcuts to special infant fares and other perks.

Covering everything from booking and documents to travel insurance and even jet lag, this guide provides everything you need to prepare for an international trip with your baby.

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Get your baby's passport

Before you get too far into planning a trip abroad, you'll need to get your baby's first passport .

While you're at it, make sure everyone else in the family has a valid passport, too. Remember, U.S. passports for children under 16 expire after five years, not 10 years like adult passports. Also, make sure everyone's passport isn't nearing expiration. Many countries require three or six months of validity to enter, which effectively means that child passports are really only valid for 4 1/2 years, which go quickly.

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When getting a passport for your baby , here are the main steps to follow:

  • Get their birth certificate.
  • Find out where to apply.
  • Make an appointment. You'll need to go in person and bring your baby with you.
  • Take their passport photo. It can be difficult to get a photo of your baby. Rules for photos state that the child/baby should be looking directly at the camera with a natural smile or neutral look. If you can manage to get the baby's eyes to stay open, that's typically enough for their first passport photo. The background should be white and the size 2 by 2 inches with no filters. Within that size, your baby/child's head needs to be 1 to 1 3/8 inches (25 to 35 mm) from the bottom of the chin to the top of the head. If you're struggling to get everything just right, the ItsEasy App can help you crop and size your photo to the correct dimensions.
  • Gather the paperwork. Fill out Form DS-11 and take your baby's birth certificate plus photocopies of each document. Bring a couple of photos, a valid ID for each parent, a photocopy of parental IDs and the fee (you can pay by check). Fees are currently $100 for the passport and $35 for processing.
  • Attend the appointment in person with both parents present . If only one parent can go, fill out and bring parental consent form DS-3053 plus a copy.

Get your baby Global Entry

If you already have Global Entry , you won't be able to use the service as a family if your little ones don't have it. So, get a start on your baby's application. Or, if this is something your whole family wants to do, apply simultaneously, making expiration dates and renewals easier to complete for everyone at the same time.

Do note that with TSA PreCheck , kids 12 and under won't need to have their own number to accompany parents through these special security lanes -- but that's not true for Global Entry, which you use to return to the U.S.

Check with your doctor

Check with your pediatrician to see when your baby can start flying.

To give you an idea, TPG talked to Dr. Jenny Yu , medical director at Healthline , to find out when it's typically safe for babies to travel. "While babies typically develop their immune system around 1 month, most pediatricians would recommend waiting until 3 to 6 months for travel," she said. For premature babies, it might be a little longer.

Also, with international travel, it's important to factor in any additional vaccines they might need, especially if you're traveling to emerging countries. Start by checking with the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention for recommendations on which vaccines both adults and babies should get, then talk with your pediatrician to see what is best for your family, baby and travel situation.

Other important questions to ask your doctor should be if your baby can wear sunblock or mosquito repellent and how to keep your baby and your whole family safe from tropical or waterborne diseases, COVID-19 and any other possible infections, which can depend highly on your destination.

Pick the right destination

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Whether it's a far-flung visit to Asia, a trip to visit family in Europe, a Caribbean escape or an African safari, you can travel anywhere with a baby as long as you and your family feel comfortable doing so. Choose a destination that makes you feel joy, not anxiety or stress at the thought of getting there and enjoying it with your baby.

Consider things like the activities you want to do, and if the destination is a place that feels welcoming for families. Also think about logistics, like the language barrier, climate and local transportation, when deciding if that particular destination is right for your family.

Book tickets

Depending on how old your baby is, you have some options when flying abroad with them. Here are a few to consider:

  • Lap infant: If your baby is under 2 years old, they don't need their own seat. They can instead sit on the lap of a ticketed adult. For international travel, some airlines charge 10% to 30% of the adult ticket price or just the taxes and fees for a lap infant, and some airlines don't charge anything at all. This table shows the costs by airline to buy your baby a lap ticket. Make sure to check on luggage policies when traveling with a lap infant. Most airlines allow for a stroller and car seat checked free of charge. You may also be able to check or carry on additional baggage, too, but more on that later.
  • Bassinet for lap infant: Many airlines have bassinet options, especially aboard larger aircraft that fly internationally. See if you can select this option while booking or call the airline for more information on securing a bassinet. Bassinets are usually free, but given to those who request them first. Ask for one right after booking to ensure you'll be assigned a seat with one when available. In most cases, bassinet weight limits max out at 20 to 24 pounds, so they're best for smaller babies and newborns.
  • Extra seat with car seat or restraint for babies 2 years and up: If your baby is older than 2 years, you must pay for their seat. Many airlines have discounted tickets for children. If the child weighs more than 44 pounds, they won't need any additional restraint system within their own seat. If they weigh less than 44 pounds, see the information on a certified child restraint or car seat below.
  • Additional seat with car seat or restraint for babies under 2: If your baby is less than 2 years old, you can still book them their own seat. In fact, the Federal Aviation Administration suggests that children under 44 pounds wear an FAA-approved harness (such as the CARES harness ) or certified child restraint to help keep them safe during turbulence, takeoff and landing. Make sure to check your car seat to see if there is an FAA-approved sticker on it.

It's worth noting that car seat, bassinet and harness options and policies vary wildly by airline and class of service. For more information on these policies by airline, read this article on 23 airline car seat and bassinet policies around the world .

Note that when booking seats for your family on an international flight, there are areas where kids and babies are not allowed to sit, like exit rows. Malaysia Airlines doesn't allow babies in its first-class cabins on A380 and 747 aircraft. Some international airlines such as AirAsia, Scoot and IndiGo also have kid-free and quiet zones where families with babies and children under a certain age (usually 10 or 12) aren't allowed to sit.

Additionally, if your baby is closer to 2 years old, you might want to compare the price of a lap ticket to the price of getting them their own seat. Sometimes, the price difference may not be that much, and it could make the flight more comfortable for the entire family.

Organize documents, including visas and COVID-19 forms

Passports aren't the only documents you'll need for international travel these days. Check to see if you and your baby need a visa to enter whatever country you're visiting. If you're traveling without your partner, look into completing a Child Consent Form.

Have proof of vaccines, complete any health forms and entry forms and take those COVID-19 tests if required to enter the country. Be clear on if your baby or children need to wear masks during the flight and plan accordingly. While babies 2 and up need to wear masks on board U.S. airlines, international airlines have different rules. For example, Iberia only requires children 6 and up to wear masks. Presently, British Airways has made masking up for all passengers a "personal choice" when not required by international law. We expect these rules to continue to rapidly evolve.

It's worth checking what documents you need for the trip when booking and again before traveling to ensure that you have everything you need as rules and regulations frequently change, especially in this era of pandemic travel .

Understand luggage rules

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Different airlines have varying rules for how much luggage you can take when traveling abroad, especially when traveling with lap infants or children/babies occupying their own seats. Most airlines allow you to check a stroller and/or car seat. Many also offer additional checked luggage, as well as a carry-on bag or item for the baby.

For example, British Airways allows both lap infants and children ages 2 and up to have a carry-on item and a checked bag in most cases, giving parents a little flexibility when bringing along all those key items babies need . Cathay Pacific allows lap infants two additional bags at 10 kilograms each when flying between most destinations.

If you aren't clear on the luggage rules, call the airline before traveling to confirm so you won't get stuck with any surprises or have to pay additional fees.

Know the rules for breast milk and formula

Thanks to the Friendly Airports for Mothers Improvement Act, all large- and medium-size airports in the U.S. now provide lockable, non-bathroom places to pump or nurse babies in every terminal and at least one men's and one women's restroom with changing tables in each terminal. This may not be the case abroad, so if you're concerned, research your destination airport to see what options are provided when it comes to these services.

You shouldn't have any issues flying with breast milk or formula on your outbound trip from the U.S. , as regular Transportation Security Administration liquid regulations don't apply to these special liquids. According to the TSA , "reasonable quantities" of these liquids are allowed, but you must take them out during screening for the security officer to test.

You can look up rules to see what's allowed when returning from your destination. For example, the United Kingdom allows breast milk past security in containers up to 2,000 milliliters. You can also take formula, milk and bottled water for the baby, but the baby must be present. In the European Union , you can take breast milk and formula through security and when flying as long as your baby is traveling with you.

Your airline may also provide clarity on these types of rules. Cathay Pacific, for example, states that breastfeeding is allowed during all phases of the flight, using an electric pump is allowed once electric devices can be switched on and travelers can even bring along suitably packed dry ice to refrigerate expressed milk, assuming it's declared during check-in.

According to some airlines, if you're taking a large breast pump along, this may count as a medical device and not be part of your carry-on allowance, but these regulations often aren't very clear. Contact your airline for more information and print out the rules in case you have any issues during security screening or boarding.

If you're traveling from a very obscure destination within an emerging country and you can't find answers about bringing breast milk, it may be best to have a Plan B in place, such as bringing along enough formula in powder form to last you for the flight or planning to pump or breastfeed in flight.

Should you want to ship your breast milk abroad, options are available for you depending on your destination, such as Maven Milk and Milk Stork .

Book accommodations

When booking accommodations in your destination abroad, take things into account like baby necessities, baby-friendly items, the option to do laundry and the availability to heat, cool and store milk and formula. Choosing a vacation rental instead of a hotel may be the right idea if you need more space, a kitchen and laundry facilities.

If your baby is eating solid foods, make sure there are restaurants or supermarkets nearby where you can get exactly what you need. Doing a little pre-trip research can help you feel confident and comfortable when traveling with your baby regardless of which hotel or home rental you choose to stay in.

Pack strategically

Packing with a baby can seem precarious, but it doesn't have to be. Just make sure you have enough of everything you need to get through the flight, plus a bit extra in case of delays or cancellations. For an exact list of everything you need to pack, see this article on how to pack -- and prepare -- for travel with a baby .

For extra-long flights, try to have everything to help your baby comfortably nap on hand, like a lovey, blanket, pacifier and more. Have changes of clothes on hand for the whole family in case of a messy situation, and enough layers for a plane that may be hot or chilly. A baby carrier can be key, too.

When packing for a trip abroad, the most important items to remember are everyone's passport, visa and key documents, plus anything essential that you know you can't get in another country. Babies live all over the world, so you can easily get items like diapers, wipes, formula and more anywhere. However, you may not find the exact brand you want, or if you're going somewhere rural or far-flung, like on a safari in Africa, you may want to bring enough for your entire trip.

For example, Enfamil, a popular baby formula brand, is found all over Europe and even in the Caribbean and Latin America. However, it may not be available in Africa or Asia, so do your homework.

If you're traveling with items that need to plug in to charge, like a breast pump, baby monitor or nightlight, bring converters if necessary. You can always rent baby items abroad, too, rather than lugging everything along with you. It's possible to preorder diapers and wipes in many destinations, as well.

Strongly consider travel insurance

Things happen. While getting the flu abroad may not be a big deal for an adult, a sick baby can be scary and stressful, especially if you're in a foreign country. Having travel insurance that covers accidents and emergencies -- and COVID-19, too -- can set your mind at ease and save the day if something happens.

Before travel, note where the nearest hospital or health care facilities are, as well as any international hospitals where staff may be more likely to speak English. Know exactly how to use your insurance, like what numbers to call or what to do if a situation arises. Check if any of your credit cards have travel insurance that may cover you and your family if things go awry.

Plan for jet lag

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Jet lag stinks. Jet lag with a baby might be even worse. There are things you can do to make jet lag a little less stressful, though, especially when traveling abroad to very different time zones.

First, give yourselves a few days to adjust, planning big events later in the trip. Limit your baby's naps when possible. If your baby takes a five-hour nap, they definitely won't be sleeping through the night.

Shift mealtimes, naptimes and bedtimes to the new time zone as quickly as possible, getting daylight during the day and darkness at night, so internal clocks begin to adjust for the whole family. If the time zone difference is small, you may want to keep your baby on the original time zone to minimize disruption, especially for a shorter trip.

For more tips on combating jet lag with a baby in tow, read this guide on surviving jet lag with your baby .

Bottom line

Planning and taking an international trip with a baby can be simple and create memories for a lifetime if you prepare just right. With a little bit of extra research, you'll be armed with everything you need to know, do and bring to make your trip abroad smooth and hassle-free.

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We asked, you answered: Parent-approved tips on traveling with kids under 2

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Last month, Life Kit asked parents to share their go-to advice for traveling with babies and toddlers under age 2 as part of an episode we did on the subject. Over 200 folks responded with tips they wish they'd known before taking a big trip with a little one.

Reading through these responses, it became clear there's no magic hack that works for every kid. Some parents swore by sticking to their kid's sleep schedule on a trip, others said their vacation was smoother when they let the usual routine go. Some sang the praises of the overnight flight (so their child would sleep on the plane), others said their child has never slept more than 10 minutes on a plane no matter the timing.

I flew to Japan with my baby. Here's the travel advice that helped me survive the trip

I flew to Japan with my baby. Here's the travel advice that helped me survive the trip

A few pieces of advice held true throughout. A hungry kid is an unpleasant kid, and children are messy. So packing lots of snacks, extra diapers and a change of clothes ranked high on the list of must-dos. Almost 40 of over 200 responses suggested packing extra outfits in your carry-on for your kid and for you. (If your charge spits up, throws up, blows out or spills it will also get on you!)

So here's a non-exhaustive, impossible-to-be-comprehensive, but-hopefully-still-helpful round-up of your top advice for traveling with little kids. These responses have been edited for length and clarity.

What to pack

A stroller that can be stored in the overhead bin. It's a game changer to not have to check clunky strollers at the gate or check-in counters. —Amy P.

A change of clothes for yourself. If the baby spits up or has a blowout, there's a high likelihood that the mess will end up on you too, especially if you're holding them. Also, be sure to bring a bag to put messy clothes in. Reusable waterproof bags are great and they keep the smell in! —Jenna Yount

Extra diapers. You think you will be fine but if something comes up it's not a good situation to be in. —Jeanna Limtiaco

Overnight diapers. Fewer diaper changes in transit makes everyone happier. —Samantha Warren

Snacks. Remember, the U.S. Transportation Security Administration allows for any size baby food [and baby or toddler beverage], so pack those pouches! —Clara W.

Meds you and your kids might need in flight. That includes chewable Tylenol, Imodium, Dramamine, Zofran, ginger chews, Band-Aids and alcohol wipes. —Paige Ellis

A dark-colored bath towel. It's a blanket, it's for tidying up, it's a tablecloth, it's a sun cover, it shields bottoms from hot slides, it dries off swings. It's a multi-tasking powerhouse. —Judith Heise

Consider what may make sense to buy, rent or borrow upon arrival. You don't need to stuff everything into your suitcase. Buy some of your diapers and snacks at your destination. See if you can borrow or rent large, bulky items like car seats or travel cribs from Facebook Marketplace or your hotel or Airbnb. —Jocelyn Newman

How to get through the flight

Get to your gate an hour before boarding. It gives you time to feed your child, change their diapers, have a cup of coffee and fill your water bottle. It can also help your kid let out their energy before they have to sit on the plane. —Shelly C.

Check the airport for family friendly spaces. Use nursing spaces or pods and family restrooms to reset as needed. Check lounges for nursing and play rooms. —Sara Conger

Take an early morning flight. Those are least likely to get delayed, which is important when traveling with kids. —Carina Ochoa

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Board with your partner separately. If you're traveling with two caregivers, have one go on the plane first with all the stuff and do the gate-checking of the stroller while the other hangs back with the kids until the last minute. It gives kids more time to run around! —Andrea De Francesca

Get a plane seat for your kid. Even though many airlines allow kids under 2 to fly for free as a lap baby, if you can afford to get them their own seat, it is worth it. It is recommended for safety to have them in a car seat, according to the Federal Aviation Administration, and the extra space for them to move around is nice. —Nicole Shelledy

Be ready for motion sickness. We were not prepared for how easily some little ones get motion sickness on an airplane. Have throw-up bags handy at all times. —Tiff Bankhurst

Prevent ear discomfort. Sucking during take off and landing may help relieve ear discomfort. My babies have flown with me from 4 weeks onward and never had a problem as long as they had a bottle or sippy cup or straw to suck on. —Shelly Ransom

Don't plan on them sleeping on the plane. It's great if they do, but if it doesn't happen, you'll be frustrated. —Colleen Mayerhoff

Don't worry too much about your kid "bothering" other people. The vast majority of people don't care, and many have been in the same situation you've been in and feel nothing but empathy for you. As for those who do care, they are not guaranteed a child-free existence in public. Kids are part of society too, and they are also allowed to take up space. —Jenna Yount

Make friends with the flight crew. They're going to help, they've got more experience than you, and they also want the flight to be pleasant. —April Graham

Save the screens for the flight. If you're using a screen, wait until you're on the plane. While you're waiting in the terminal, let them move as much as possible. Find an empty gate and play Simon Says, see who can jump in one place the longest, do animal charades. Let them go wild. —Paige Ellis

Download age-appropriate shows for your child on an iPad. (But know that if your kid is under age 2 they'll mostly just want to push the buttons.) —Chantel Dockstader

Travel hacks

Find a lodging close to a grocery store and a park. It makes it easy to buy last-minute things and burn off their energy easily at a park. —Gillian Molina

Dress your young kids in bright, matching shirts. I once traveled alone when my kids were 2, 4 and 6. We all wore matching yellow shirts so people could see we were together. —Emily Hernandez

If you want to let your little one crawl around , bring a pair of socks that you can put over their hands. Then you don't have to worry about dirty hands afterward. —Shannon Geraghty

Hire a photographer. You'll have photos with everyone in them, maybe get to see some scenic parts of the city you hadn't seen before. Dress up, wear matching outfits, be extra! They're only little once. —Tina Doyle

Helpful mindsets

It's not a vacation. It's a trip. You're just parenting in a new place. Set your expectations accordingly. —Laura Henriquez

The airport/train/bus/car is not the time to enforce the normal at-home rules. Do you want Doritos at 7 a.m. at the airport? OK. Do you want to watch 20 episodes of Blippi on the plane? No problem. There are no rules when traveling. This also makes traveling fun for kids because they get to do something different. —Meg Houston

Build in extra time to do things. It will decrease the chances of you and your child getting into stressful situations. —Cori DeLano

You're not going to get as much done as you think with a kiddo in tow. Think about things like nap schedule, traveling with a stroller, meltdowns, diaper changes. On my most "successful" trip with my kiddo, we planned one big activity a day and left the rest of the day open with some general ideas and left room for flexibility. —Whitney Winters

They might not remember, but you will. —Nina Hartman

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How to Survive Flying with a Lap Toddler

By: Author Leslie Harvey

Posted on Published: September 14, 2023

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Flying with toddlers is hard. They are fully mobile, totally opinionated, and incapable of all reason and logic at the most inopportune moments.

But why stop there? If you are really up for a family travel challenge, fly with your toddler in your lap. Up until your little one’s second birthday, your child is eligible to fly for free as a lap child on all US airlines and many other airlines around the world. Many budget-conscious families take advantage of those savings for as long as possible, which can make for some very tight accommodations in tiny airplane rows.

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Should You Fly with Your Toddler in Your Lap?

I’ll level with you: the lap toddler is controversial. In fact, all lap children are controversial. Airline safety experts agree that the safest place for your kiddos is in their own seats in child restraint devices (a car seat or CARES harness ).

But until and unless the FAA rules change, parents get to make that safety call for themselves. I’m not going to judge. While I always tried to buy a seat on airplanes for my children whenever possible, they’ve both also flown in my lap several times too over the years.

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There is an additional reason, however, that lap toddlers are so controversial. Toddlers are just very different than babies. Toddlers are much bigger and more likely to have developed an independent streak. They can throw serious tantrums when things don’t go their way. Once your child is fully mobile and can walk (somewhere around 10-18 months old for most kids), all bets of containing them are off.

In short, they are just more likely to need the extra space of another seat. (My friend and fellow family travel blogger over a Points With a Crew wrote a brilliant diatribe calling for the end of the lap toddler for just these reasons.)

So, should you take on this air travel challenge? Before you make the call to fly with your 1 year old in your lap, make sure to assess your child’s personality and the length of the flight you are planning to take. My first child, for example, was fiercely independent and did not make a good lap toddler at all. Luckily, my son was much mellower. While budget is often the final deciding factor, your sanity is worth a lot too.

If you’ve thought it through and have made the call to travel with a lap toddler, godspeed and good luck. Now you need to live to tell the tale! (I’m exaggerating here of course, but only somewhat.)

Here are my best tips for lap toddler travel success – a.k.a. how to survive flying with a lap toddler. And while these tips focus on having a toddler in your lap, most of them work for flying with a toddler in his or her own seat as well!

Tips for Airplane Lap Toddler Success

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1. Pick the right flight and time.

Is your toddler super-cranky during the pre-dinner witching hour? Don’t pick a 5 pm flight. Does your little one really need a full night of sleep to make it through the day? The 6 am flight is not for you. Would being stranded overnight after a missed connection be really, really rough with a toddler? Don’t book a connection onto the last flight of the night that gets you to your destination.

In short, don’t pick a flight that sets you up for failure before you ever leave. I happen to think that mid-morning flights are just about right for many toddlers. They give you enough time to wake up at a reasonable hour and get to the airport but they are still substantially before nap time meltdowns start.

Of course, if you are flying longer distances like on cross-country or international flights you won’t be able to time things perfectly. But when you do have options, set yourself up for success, even if it sometimes costs a tiny bit more!

2. Maximize your chances of getting an extra seat.

Toddler on airplane in separate seat with CARES harness.

Even if you don’t buy a seat for your toddler, that doesn’t mean you won’t be able to get one. If there are empty seats on a flight, many airlines will try to make them available for families with lap children to use.

The easiest airline on which to make this happen is Southwest. Because of the airline’s open seating policy, if there is even a single extra seat on the plane, you will be able to snag it for your child. Just double check with the gate agent and ask nicely. The answer, in my experience, has always been yes. I had a better than a 50/50 success rate on Southwest flights, even when traveling at peak periods. See my complete guide to traveling Southwest with kids for all the details you need to think about when flying the airline with little ones.

Other airlines are a mixed bag, as you often need the gate agent to rearrange seat assignments to leave an empty seat next to where your family is sitting. If you want to maximize your chances, book yourself and your partner or other child into an aisle and window seat (leaving an empty middle seat) near the back of the plane. Those are often the last seats to be filled and may be empty anyway. This strategy works best when planes aren’t full or close to full, so I’d only attempt it flying during lower demand times.

3. Electronics are a must.

Toddler watching iPad on airplane.

Yes, the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends no screen time for little ones until their second birthday. But I recommend leaving your perfect parenting pride behind on the jetway. You won’t wreck your toddler’s development by allowing some videos or apps in-flight to get through a tough moment on a single airplane flight (or in my family’s case, dozens of flights!). A little screen time can definitely be a lifesaver with any toddler in a moment of tiredness or boredom.

With the exception of JetBlue, very few airlines have seat back entertainment anymore on domestic US flights, so be sure to pack your own screen. We have found an old iPhone works great, especially if you have any ancient enough to still have standard headphone jacks that match what you’ll find on many toddler headphones . (If not, I carry this lightning connector to headphone jack adapter ).

Related : Tips for Flying JetBlue with Kids

Related : Best Airlines for Flying with Kids

4. Bring non-electronic entertainment to keep little fingers busy.

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Although electronics can be amazing distractions, toddlers have incredibly short attention spans. You’ll be lucky to get 5-15 minutes of sustained attention out of a TV show or movie for the under 2 set, so a phone or tablet simply cannot be the only entertainment you bring.

What worked for my toddler? Wikki Stix were a very big hit as my son neared his second birthday (one word of warning – these are NOT good for toddlers who still mouth objects, but my little guy never tried to eat them). I’ve also had good luck with little cases to open and close filled with treats like goldfish or M&M’s. My toddler loves opening each compartment and grabbing the goodies inside.

Other toddler-friendly entertainment ideas:

  • Matchbox cars
  • Post-it flags (easy to remove without leaving residue)
  • Toys that shake and rattle (a box of Tic Tacs actually works well!)
  • Bendy straws
  • Coloring pads with triangular crayons  (they don’t roll off tray tables – so simple but so brilliant!)

Check out my post with 20+ tech-free travel entertainment ideas for kids  for lots more inspiration.

5. Bring a wide variety of snacks.

For toddlers, food is entertainment too. Bring a wide variety of non-messy, toddler-friendly food and bring out new items at strategic moments to avoid meltdowns. Double bonus if the food takes a long time to eat.

I pack snacks in individual Ziploc bags and then put them into a snack trap to eat to help contain toddler messes. If you have more than one child in your family, I recommend packing a matching set of everything in separate bags so kids don’t have to share and aren’t jealous of each other’s snacks.

Related : 50 kid-friendly snack recommendations for air travel

6. Walk the aisle. But not too much.

Trying to keep an active toddler in your lap for a long flight is a pretty tough endeavor. Handing them back and forth between two adults helps (assuming you aren’t a parent traveling solo), but that only goes so far. Toddlers want and need to move!

For anything longer than an hour flight, plan to spend some time in the aisle getting a little exercise. Letting them take a lap or two can burn off some energy. Just try to time these walks around the beverage and food service so you can stay out of the way of flight attendants. And don’t crowd folks waiting for the bathroom or stay in galley areas too long.

7. Pack a baby carrier.

Baby Asleep Southwest Airlines

Most parents ditch the baby carrier before age 2, but it can still be a great tool when flying with a lap toddler (although it can’t be used on takeoff or landing). Sometimes, you just need to keep your toddler contained.

More importantly, the carrier can be particularly good for getting your toddler to sleep on you. We used a carrier for a flight with my then almost 2 year old son when we departed late in the evening and knew he would sleep most of the flight. It worked like a charm and was much more comfortable than trying to get him to stretch out across my lap awkwardly for bedtime.

If you don’t already have a soft carrier, I recommend the Boba Air as an inexpensive and low bulk option for air travel. It’s the closest successor to the one my family used regularly, the Bitybean (which is now sadly off the market!), and can be used for toddlers up to 45 pounds.

8. Don’t stress the nap.

Depending on your child, you may or may not get your child to nap on the plane if you are flying at nap time. Some kids conk out as soon as the plane starts moving, but my daughter never napped on planes between the ages of 1-3. She was simply too distracted and excited by the new environment. I certainly tried mightily to force a nap (rocking her, etc.) which ended up being more trouble than it was worth and probably provoking bigger meltdowns.

I was much more flexible with my second child at nap time on planes, and it went much more smoothly. And sometimes we even got a nap without trying because I was less stressed about the schedule.

Final Thoughts

While it may seem daunting to fly with a toddler at all – much less with a toddler in your lap – I promise it is worth it. The flights themselves are long but these years are short. I’ve gotten through it with two kids and you will too. Take some of the ideas above, do the preparation you need to match your family’s preferences and your child’s personality, and go get out there!

Have you flown with a lap toddler? How was it? What are your secrets for toddler travel success?

Flying with a toddler under 2 in your lap? If you haven't bought a seat for your little one, here are tried and true tips for managing a mobile and opinionated toddler on a plane, even in tight quarters!

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Lara Walklet

Sunday 1st of December 2019

Really good suggestions. The post-it flags were extra great for my 1.5 year old.

evalinesees

Thursday 14th of November 2019

ooh the special vegetarian meal is brilliant!

Stephanie Ford

Saturday 24th of August 2019

Have others found they are not able to use carriers during flight? That was my back up plan if in desperation, oh no!!!!

Thursday 1st of August 2019

CARES is the only FAA approved one

This is such a great article! I have tried a lot of things mentioned as we frequently travel from L.A. to London with our 4 y.o & 18 m.o. - there are some gems of advice here I haven’t found elsewhere: the veggie meal & the lightweight baby carrier.

My newest obsession when flying are very lightweight tray table covers with sides, so you don’t spend the flight picking up the stuff they inevitably drop from the gross plane floor. They work with babe in lap & even in the bulkhead as they don’t require seat backs.

I have to admit I find wikki sticks end up with us all covered in wax & unable to remove it (wipes don’t work) so we use pipe cleaners instead.

A backpack that is “clamshell” or “front loading” style where the entire front zips open can also be a lifesaver as you can open it one handed & see everything inside.

& sooo many sanitizing wipes to clean everything off before you settle in so you’re little one doesn’t pick up too many germs. & of course the obligatory travel hand sanitizer- those tiny ones that attach to the side of your bag are the best as they are easy to find even in the dark!

Speaking of dark..I always bring a thicker blanket that can block out light (not just a muslin swaddle) as I feel like they always bring the lights up just as my kids fall asleep. You can usually stretch the blanket from behind your shoulder to the seat in front or catch it in the tray table.

Gel clings if you have a window seat are also amusing for my kids, I always pick some up in the dollar section at Target.

Those are my 10 cents! Thanks for this great article.

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What To Consider Before Flying With A Lap Child

B efore anything else, let's just get this out of the way: The TSA does not recommend flying with a lap child for safety reasons. Instead, the agency strongly urges parents to fly with a car seat . But doing so would generally mean paying for an extra seat — something that takes a cut out of your travel budget. So, we totally understand if you'd rather fly with a lap child instead.

A lap seat is a viable option as long as your child is still below the age of 2. Otherwise, they'll have to fly with a paid ticket too. Thankfully, many family-friendly airlines have policies in place that make flying with children smoother. So, with a bit of planning, flying with a lap child can be convenient and comfortable for both you and your baby. With that being said, you have to think about many things before jumping on the decision to avail of a lap seat. Here are some of the important considerations to keep in mind.

Airline Lap Child Policies

Airlines typically have policies that lean toward making family flight easy and convenient. However, they can and do change their policies from time to time, so checking your airline's lap child policy before booking your ticket should always be something you do first and foremost. Plus, these policies might vary from airline to airline, so a little research can go a long way.

As mentioned, airlines don't normally charge for a lap seat on a domestic flight, but most require that you add your child to an adult ticket. This adult could be you, your spouse, or some other caretaker. Airlines strictly implement this one adult, one lap child rule, so if you have more than one child during a flight, you'll need to buy an extra seat. That is, you can only hold one child in your lap and the other one must occupy another seat. If you're traveling with another adult, say your spouse, you can split the children between you, but you can't sit in the same row together.

On an international flight, however, airlines will usually charge you taxes and fees and/or 10% of the fare. Ticket prices fluctuate so this can be anywhere from a few hundred dollars or more. And, it's especially tricky when it comes to using miles, as airlines have different redemption policies. Again, check with your airline regarding these.

Where To Seat A Lap Child

Similar to flying with a car seat, your seat options when flying with a lap child are limited. Because of this, booking your seat in advance ensures you'll be seated comfortably and in your preferred location. An aisle seat can let you freely get up and out, but a window seat means away from possible danger of falling or hot objects. But again, seat options vary from airline to airline so always check with them first. Typically, you won't be allowed to sit with a lap child in an emergency exit row, or the rows in front of or behind that. Advance booking and notification about a lap child also increases the chances of having the seat next to you unoccupied, unless it's a full or busy flight.

And, you should remember the under 2 rule. Otherwise, you might end up paying for an extra ticket you did not plan for. So, always take note of your child's birthday when you travel because if your flight falls on their 2nd birthday, they'll need a paid ticket too.

If you're in for a long flight, consider booking either a nonstop flight or one with a longer layover. With a nonstop flight, you'll only board once, while sandwiching a longer layover between flights allows you some time to breathe. You don't have to run with your baby and/or baby paraphernalia from one gate to the next. And, you can use the extra time to take care of your baby's needs and maybe even relax a bit.

What To Pack

When you have an infant or toddler, it's normal to bring tons of stuff wherever you go. Air travel is no exception. But because your child is flying for free, most airlines don't provide them any checked luggage allowance. So, any baggage you check in — whether it's for you or your baby — will count toward your luggage allowance. As always, check your airline's baggage policies. Fortunately, most airlines provide one free checked bag, with Southwest being an outlier allowing two free checked bags. Most airlines also allow you to check car seats and strollers for free. Plus, you can bring diaper bags as part of your carry-on allowance (or in addition to on some airlines).

Extra clothing and diapers, milk, food, and other baby supplies are essential to have on hand, so pack them in your carry-on or diaper bag. You can include their sleeping blanket, favorite toy, or lovey too. Basically, anything you might need to feed or nurse, clean, and keep your baby happy. You should also prepare for the possibility of delayed flights and lost bags by packing more than you need.

Another important item to pack is a document proving your child's age. This can be their passport, ID, or birth certificate. Make sure to double-check with your airline the documents they accept, and bring a copy with you and save a picture or file in your phone as well. If you can't prove your child's age, you might have to buy them a seat, which will be expensive.

Your Child's Comfort – And Yours Too!

Nobody wants a fussy or irritable baby, so comfort is a priority when you fly. Airplanes can get cold but outside, it might be warm. So, keep your child comfy by dressing them in layers. Think easily removable pieces of clothing, such as jackets, socks, hats, and maybe even bring a warm blanket. This goes for you too, i.e., dress with comfort and ease of movement in mind. Before boarding, do a quick diaper change in the airport restroom, which has more space than its plane counterpart, reducing the number of diaper changes you have to do onboard.

It's also a good idea to schedule your travel around your baby's nap time, so that they'll be able to sleep through the flight. Provide them with a noise-canceling headphone to help drown out the cabin and airplane noises. During takeoff and landing, feed or nurse your baby to avoid the dreaded ear popping and the crying that ensues. The sucking and chewing motions alleviate the pressure on their ears. But, if they do make a fuss and begin to cry, you can bring ear plugs for the other passengers. This isn't required, so do this only if you feel inclined.

And, aside from the items you need to pack, be sure to bring some form of entertainment for older children too. This could include mobile devices to watch their favorite shows and movies on, books, and toys. This will keep them distracted during the flight and give you some peaceful time to rest.

Other Considerations

Like adults, children have different personalities, and as such, you should design your travel plans accordingly. Some might behave while others might not, and even the same baby can act differently on each plane ride. "I've done this a lot and sometimes it's great and other times it's ... less great. But either way you'll survive!" one parent commented on the Mommit Reddit thread .

The reality of flying with a baby — whether they're sitting in their car seat or on your lap – can be hard, so set realistic expectations and have the right mindset. As this user in Reddit's Beyond the Bump forum aptly put it: "Flying with a baby isn't meant to be easy, I guess, so it's just about accepting that and going on for the ride."

And, for the side glances or disgruntled looks from a few people who don't appreciate you bringing a young child on the flight, well, let it go. "The overwhelming majority of adults understand that babies are babies, and sometimes they're irrational AF and there is nothing you can do about it," another Beyond the Bump Reddit user noted. "Generally, as long as you're engaging with your kid and trying your best, 95% of people get it. And the others? Meh. You'll never see them again, don't worry about them." When it comes down to it, the flight is just a short portion of your travels, so it shouldn't set the tone for your entire trip.

Read this next: 18 Best Ways To Help You Get Through Airport Security Faster

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Flying with children

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Travelling with young children can be a daunting task. But rest assured, we’re on hand to help your trip fly by as smoothly as possible with a few handy tips.

From what to pack onboard, to inflight family entertainment, we’re known for our family ethos for a reason. Let’s get your trip off to a flying start.

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What are the different child ticket options?

Firstly, what type of ticket do you need that best suits your needs?

Check out the basics before we delve into the good stuff.

Babies up to the age of two are classed as infants. They'll usually fly in the comfort of your lap, so we only charge 10% of the adult fare (plus any taxes, fees or charges). 

If you do require a seat for your infant, you’ll need to book that with us directly. Please  Contact us .

While you are there you can also request a  bassinet or cot , subject to availability.

You must be 12 or over to look after a lap infant onboard, and it's only one baby per lap please, or things get a bit too wriggly.

Child fares apply for children aged between two and eleven years old at time of travelling.  

After you've booked your child seat, you can pre-select a kid's meal created especially for ages 2 to 12. Find out more here .

Young Adult

Young person fares apply for children aged between 14 and 16 years old at time of travelling.  

Please refer to our page on  Young Persons Travelling Alone  for more information about our policies on young people travelling without a parent or guardian.

What you need to know before boarding your flight

  • Seating options
  • Checked baggage
  • Hand luggage allowance
  • Liquid allowance

Seating options for babies

All cots/bassinets should be requested in advance. If you already have a booking, please log in to My Booking where you can speak to an advisor via web messaging to request a cot/bassinet.

If you've not yet made your booking and wish to check the cot/bassinet availability before you book, please Contact us   and let the advisor know you would like to request a cot/bassinet.

Available bassinets will be allocated in the order we receive the requests for each flight. Your seat number will be allocated ahead of Online Check In opening.

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Children's baggage allowance

For children and infants who have their own seat, the same baggage allowances as adults will apply. Click here for details.

For infants on a lap (without their own seat) they’ll get one checked bag, except in Economy Light where no baggage is included.

If you're flying Economy Light, you may purchase one bag per infant at 50 GBP / 75 USD if you booked on or after 28th July 2021 or 45 GBP / 60 USD if you booked before 28th July 2021.

You can also bring a collapsible pushchair and car seat in addition to their free bag allowance. We will take this from you at the gate and pop in the hold.

At London Heathrow, all pushchairs (with the exception of Special Assistance pushchairs) are collected from the baggage reclaim.

Children's hand baggage

Babies and toddlers aged 0-23 months are entitled to one bag each weighing up to 6kg (or 13lb). Any children aged 2+ years are entitled to the same amount of hand baggage as an adult.

When travelling with infants or children you can bring a fully collapsible pushchair (which we can take from you at the gate and pop in the hold) and car seat, in addition to the free check in allowance. If you are travelling to London Heathrow, please be advised that pushchairs (with the exception of special assistance pushchairs) won’t be delivered to the aircraft door when you arrive and will be available to collect from baggage reclaim.

Alternatively, pushchairs that are a maximum of 23 x 36 x 56cm (that’s around 9 x 14 x 22 inches) when folded are permitted in the cabin with you as your hand baggage.

Please note pushchairs carried onboard are part of your hand baggage allowance, not an additional item. If your buggy does not fit in the baggage sizer at check in or at the boarding gate, the pushchair will be tagged by ground staff and checked in either at check in or the boarding gate. You must be able to place your foldable pushchair in the overhead bins unaided.

Liquid exceptions for infants and children

Including food and medication.

The following liquids are allowed in amounts greater than 100ml. Please bear in mind that you still shouldn’t bring excessive amounts:  

  • Baby food and formula milk, when the infant for whom the food or milk is intended for is present. 
  • Liquid expressed breast milk can be carried even when the infant is not present, provided that the milk is in containers not exceeding 2000ml (2 litres). The milk must not be frozen, and there is no limit on the amount of containers that can be carried. When the infant is not present, gel/ice packs can also be carried in order to keep the milk cool. 
  • Prescription and over-the-counter medications, whether in liquid, gel or aerosol form, including eye drops and saline solution for medical purposes. Read more about travelling with prescription medications on our Special Assistance page .
  • Liquids or gels for passengers with disabilities, diabetes, or an appropriate medical condition 
  • Items used to augment the body for medical or cosmetic reasons, such as prosthetic breasts and bras containing gels.

Onboard your flight

Kids entertainment.

Vera is the name of our inflight entertainment system onboard your flight. Here you'll find a designated Kids section to keep your kids entertained with movies, TV, audio and games suitable for small eyes and ears.

If there is content isn't suitable for your little travellers, we've included a parental block as part of our inflight entertainment system. For help with setting this up, just speak to a member of the cabin crew on board. 

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  • Feeding babies

Kids meal options

If you'd like to order any children's meals you need to do so separately which can be done easily online in My Booking . You can do this any time from booking up to 24 hours before your flight.

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We’ve created our kids’ menu with the fussiest child in mind, so it includes a variety of familiar dishes that are sure to tickle their tastebuds. It's designed for children who are aged from 2 to 12 years old and have their own seat. 

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Kids meals aren't always vegetarian, so if they're veggie they should go for the adult vegetarian option rather than a kids meal.

If you don't order one before you fly it's ok, they'll be able to choose from the delicious options available onboard.

Our nut allergen policy

We adhere to allergen guidance under European and UK food legislation, which may be different in other jurisdictions. The allergens declared refer to the ingredients only, the food items may contain traces of allergens since they are processed on or with equipment that processes products that may contain allergens.

We cannot guarantee the absence of food allergen or peanut traces in our meals, both on board and at the airport.  A list of food allergens contained in meals served on flights departing from the UK and USA is available on board from your Cabin Crew.

Our suppliers are based all around the world and not every country has the same legal requirements for providing allergen information. On flights to the UK, allergen labelling on pre-packaged items may not reflect all of the allergens required to be declared in the UK. For passengers flying from the USA, we also adhere to the three additional Nuts listed under US Allergen advisory information.

Peanuts are never knowingly included in any of our meals on board. However, our meals are not produced in a nut-free environment so may contain traces.

All other nuts may also be served on our flights to other passengers as part of the menu ingredients and/or the snack service, in any cabin. We also can’t stop other passengers from bringing (or eating) their own food onboard, which may include nuts.

In view of the above, we strongly encourage passengers to take all necessary precautions to prepare for the possibility of inadvertent exposure.

If you have a severe allergy, please see our Special Assistance pages.

Feeding your baby onboard

Mothers are welcome to breastfeed onboard. Our crew will make you as comfortable as possible, and can provide an extra blanket or a seat in the galley if you'd like some more privacy. We can’t store expressed milk, but we have ice and ice buckets if you need to keep it cool for later use.

If you're bringing baby food, milk or formula in your hand baggage, make sure you read about the airport security guidance on how much and what you can bring.  Here's the guidance for the UK .

If you're flying from  London Heathrow  you can reserve your baby milk or formula and collect it at the airport

If you need milk warming up, just let the cabin crew know and they’ll be happy to do it, by warming it in hot water then leaving it to cool.

Travelling with an infant on your lap – You can request a pureed baby meal (suitable up to 12 months old) via My Booking. We only offer a baby meal, so if your little one has moved on to solid food please bring something along with you for them to eat.

Travelling with an infant in their own seat – You can request a baby meal or a child meal.

How to claim if your baggage has arrived damaged or has missing items

Our ground staff in the baggage hall will assess the damage and, in some airports, try to settle your claim immediately by arranging a replacement bag (if your bag is no longer useable) or by referring you to our repair company.

If you wish to make a claim with us for damaged baggage and missing items, you must complete our Damaged Baggage form & attach PDF - Damaged baggage or missing contents within seven days of the baggage being placed at your disposal.

If you wish to make a claim with us for damaged baggage, you must complete this form to ensure payment can be claimed.

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  1. Booking a Lap Child on Your Next Flight [Includes Airline Pricing]

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  2. How to survive your first international flight with a lap child

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  3. How to Actually Enjoy Flying With a Toddler on Your Lap

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  4. Tips for Flying with a Lap Baby

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  5. How to Manage Flying With an Infant on Lap?

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  6. Safety Tips for Flying w/ Baby in Lap

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  1. Flying with a lap infant? Here's what you need to know

    Traveling with more than one lap infant. The strict rule is: One lap infant per adult. If you are flying as a solo adult and have two or more children under the age of 2 with you, you must purchase a ticket for one of them (and you should also be awarded a gold medal at the other end of the journey).

  2. Flying With a Baby

    A passport for international flights. All U.S. citizens, including newborns, need their own passports to fly internationally. To obtain one for your baby, you'll need to use the DS-11 form and apply together in person, so plan ahead. For domestic flights, babies and children under 18 don't need a passport or an ID. Her birth certificate.

  3. Infant Air Travel

    Infants or children under 2 years of age can travel on the lap of an adult for free (within the United States) or at a reduced fare (for international travel). ... breast milk and baby formula. Check out the Traveling with Kids section of the TSA website for information and helpful videos about travel with infants and carry-on baggage ...

  4. Flying With a Baby (41 Tips + Lap Child Policy Chart)

    Alaska Airlines Lap Child Policy. JetBlue. Infants under 3 days old are not allowed to fly. Lap infants are not allowed an extra bag. You may bring a diaper bag, car seat, stroller, and breast pump for no extra charge. You need to add your child to your ticket when booking. JetBlue Lap Child Policy. Frontier Airlines.

  5. Traveling with children − Travel information − American Airlines

    To allow enough time for check-in, arrive early and be sure to have any required travel documents. You may have to present proof of age like a birth certificate for any children under the age of 18. Families with children under 2 years old can ask to board early at the gate. Only 1 carry-on diaper bag per child is allowed.

  6. Flying With An Infant On Lap: 15 Workable Tips For ...

    Usually, airlines let you choose between a car seat, booster seat, or travel cot, which definitely wasn't our case. 4. Make sure you bring a baby bag on board with everything he needs and maybe a little bit more. We use a quite big and spacious bag for baby travel. It includes a special insulated on-the-go baby bag, a changing mat, and a ...

  7. How To Manage Flying With An Infant On Lap [22 Workable Tips]

    2. Before the flight, cook baby food. As we all know baby food is not available on a plane, so it's a good idea to cook and puree your own before the flight. This will save you from having to deal with a hungry, crying baby at 30,000 feet. First, your baby will feel comfortable if they have their own favorite food.

  8. The documents you need to fly with a lap infant

    Documentation required for lap infants. To prove your child's age to an airline, one of the following documents will suffice: Child's passport ( how to get a U.S. passport for an infant and things to know about children's passports) Child's birth certificate. Child's immunization form or other medical records may also work domestically.

  9. 31 Must-Know Tips for Flying with an Infant (By a Mom)

    Table of Contents. Tips for Flying With An Infant. #1: Know the Rules for Flying with a Lap Child. #2: But Consider Buying Your Baby a Seat. #3: You Can Only Have One Lap Baby Per Adult. #4: Baby Airplane Tickets May Be Cheaper Than Adult Tickets. #5: Babies Flying Internationally Do Cost. #6: Don't Apologize.

  10. Flying with an infant on your lap

    Infant fares. Flying with a lap baby is free on USA domestic flights and often costs around 10% of an adult fare (and sometimes additional taxes) for international flights - making it a popular and sometimes controversial choice for parents, as it is a cheaper option than paying for a seat and can save families some money.. Paying for a seat for an infant on a plane can range from 66 - 80% ...

  11. Is It Safe to Fly With A Baby On Your Lap?

    In the United States, flying with a lap infant is permitted for children under the age of two, an option that can prove popular with those traveling on a tight budget. Nonetheless, safety concerns arise given the lack of a secure position in which the baby can be held. Both industry organizations and health experts across the board strongly ...

  12. Flying with Baby: Parent FAQs

    If your airline's "lap baby" policy allows this, avoid the busiest travel days and times to increase your odds of finding an empty seat next to you. The safest way for baby to fly The safest way for your baby to fly is in a child safety restraint ―an FAA-approved car seat or airplane harness device .

  13. Everything You Need To Know

    Check the flying with an infant rules as per your airline regulations. Flying with a newborn baby rules may vary from airline to airline. Some may specify a baby must be at least 7 days old, whereas other airlines may say newborn babies must be 14 days old and/or meet other requirements to travel by airplane.

  14. How to Manage Flying With a Baby on Your Lap (2023)

    Bring along some gas relief drops, teething ointment and pain relief meds --- must haves for common baby emergencies. 13. A little bribe never hurt anyone. Bring treats for your surrounding airplane friends. You'll feel a lot less stressed knowing you have some goodies to pass out if the baby starts having a fit.

  15. 20 Tips For Flying With An Infant On Lap

    Gate check your stroller. Take advantage of pre-boarding. Pack some new toys and activities that can help distract your little one. Consider screen time. Make sure you pack enough snacks, water, and diapers. The best products for flying with an infant on lap. Pack an extra set of clothes for you and baby.

  16. Flying With A Baby: Lap Infant Vs. Buying A Seat?

    If you're traveling with a baby under two years old (meaning up until the day prior to their second birthday), you have the option of either traveling with them as a lap infant (meaning they don't need a seat), or you can buy a seat for them. Now, when our son was first born, I thought to myself "yay, he has the world's ultimate airline ...

  17. Traveling with Children

    TSA officers will consult parents or the traveling guardian about the child's screening. TSA standard screening procedures apply for children 13 years and older. Carry-on property of all passengers, regardless of age, must be screened. ... Infants may be carried in a sling/carrier (to include lap baby) through the walk-through metal detector ...

  18. Flying with Kids & Family Boarding

    Family boarding. We allow families with children less than two years old to board with our pre-boarding group. A gate agent will announce when it's time for you to get on the plane. Families with children under 12 can book Economy and Basic Economy seats next to each other for free. Sometimes, seat assignments change because of last minute ...

  19. How to plan an international trip with a baby

    For international travel, some airlines charge 10% to 30% of the adult ticket price or just the taxes and fees for a lap infant, and some airlines don't charge anything at all. This table shows the costs by airline to buy your baby a lap ticket. Make sure to check on luggage policies when traveling with a lap infant.

  20. Traveling with Lap Infants

    A child between the ages of three days old until their second birthday is considered a lap infant. There is no cost to add lap infants to a reservation. If the child has their second birthday between the outbound and return flight, a seat will need to be purchased for the return flight. Proof of age is required. Valid forms of proof are: Passport.

  21. 29 parent-approved tips on traveling with babies and toddlers : NPR

    We asked, you answered: Parent-approved tips on traveling with kids under 2. Last month, Life Kit asked parents to share their go-to advice for traveling with babies and toddlers under age 2 as ...

  22. How to Survive Flying with a Lap Toddler

    Check out my post with 20+ tech-free travel entertainment ideas for kids for lots more inspiration. 5. Bring a wide variety of snacks. For toddlers, food is entertainment too. Bring a wide variety of non-messy, toddler-friendly food and bring out new items at strategic moments to avoid meltdowns.

  23. Traveling With Children · Spirit Airlines Support

    Lap Children: From 7 days old until his/her second birthday (age 7 days to 23 months), a child is considered a lap child and does not need a paid seat; however, Guests may opt to buy a seat for the infant if they prefer. ... Guests traveling with children under 2 years old are permitted to bring a diaper bag on board, free of charge, and it ...

  24. What To Consider Before Flying With A Lap Child

    B efore anything else, let's just get this out of the way: The TSA does not recommend flying with a lap child for safety reasons. Instead, the agency strongly urges parents to fly with a car seat ...

  25. Flying with children

    Travelling with an infant on your lap - You can request a pureed baby meal (suitable up to 12 months old) via My Booking. We only offer a baby meal, so if your little one has moved on to solid food please bring something along with you for them to eat. Travelling with an infant in their own seat - You can request a baby meal or a child meal.