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How to Begin Your Self-Discovery Journey: 16 Best Questions

As part of this process, we must not only search to determine what constitutes our true selves, but let go of objects of identification we’ve long mistaken for ourselves, requiring a balance of introspection and new experiences.

So let’s set sail.

In this article, we’ll give you a range of powerful questions to help you along your journey of self-discovery and point you toward further reading and resources.

Before you continue, you might like to download our three Meaning and Valued Living Exercises for free . These creative, science-based exercises will help you learn more about your values, motivations, and goals and will give you the tools to inspire a sense of meaning in the lives of your clients, students, or employees.

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What is self-discovery according to psychology, fostering self-discovery skills: 10 examples & tips, why is the process important, a look at self-discovery coaching, 3 exercises, games, and activities for adults, best worksheets and journal prompts, 16 questions to ask yourself or your clients, helpful books & apps for your journey, tools from positivepsychology.com, a take-home message.

Drawing often from the field of philosophy , psychologists point to the illumination of our daimon (or ‘true self’) as the ultimate goal of self-discovery.

Formally defined, this true self is

“the central inner force common to all human beings and yet unique to each, which is the deep source of growth… [that is] free, healthy development in accordance with the potentials of one’s generic and individual nature.”

Horney, 1950, p. 17

As part of the process of searching for our true selves, we are ultimately working to identify three things (Waterman, 2011):

• Personal potentials
• Our purposes for living
• Opportunities to act upon those potentials and purposes in living

The search for our true selves, therefore:

“refers to those processes, both intuitive and reasoned, by which those [personal, purpose-related] potentials are discovered and come to attain the status of personally concordant goals that are to be actualized.”

Waterman, 2011, p. 360

According to this view, a person’s true self essentially lies beneath the surface, and our task is to find, recognize, or understand that which already exists. Once you have, you can then make choices about your life and identity that are more consistent with this self-knowledge (Waterman, 2011).

Seek a supportive atmosphere

The more time we spend in the presence of supportive family, friends, lovers, and communities , the sooner we will be likely to discover our true nature. This is because warm and encouraging atmospheres facilitate feelings of inner security while providing the freedom to have our own feelings and thoughts (Horney, 1950).

To this end, here are some ideas to consider:

• Seek quiet spaces and time out to facilitate reflection or journaling .
• Join a social group whose interests and passions align with your own, such as a painting, writing, or poetry group.
• Find a coach or therapist for a safe space to pursue self-discovery.
• Set boundaries with people who discourage your individuality, negatively affect your emotions, or put you down.
• Seek the company of people who inspire you, make you feel positive, and challenge your perception of yourself.

Identify your drifts

Pay close attention to the things you naturally love doing, or drifts, particularly those that are personally expressive . By paying attention to the subconscious pull of these activities, you can allow them to guide you toward your true self, stemming from your genetic makeup, upbringing, and experiences (Pagedar, 2021).

• Our drifts tend to emerge when the mind is still, so try selecting a quiet day to do some meditation or practice some relaxation techniques.
• Try to notice activities that cause you to slip into the state of flow , as these often point us toward our drifts.
• Consider which activities you possess a natural aptitude or talent for, perhaps using a strengths-finding exercise .
• Think about which activities you find intrinsically motivating . These are the activities you would undertake in the absence of external rewards, such as money or the approval of others.
• Notice times when you feel a strong sense of personal responsibility to do something or have a unique vision about how something should be carried out.

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To understand why self-discovery is so important, we must consider the consequences of failing to identify our true selves.

According to Horney (1950), when a person experiences a large discrepancy between their lived and real selves, they are likely to experience a sense of alienation from themselves. This remains true even if the person is successful in their activities and receives external rewards.

Such a person may often notice themselves wondering, “ Why am I doing this when it’s not who I really am? ” The consequence is a feeling of guilt or dissatisfaction if we fail to live up to an idealized version of ourselves that we cannot be.

Besides this negative emotional toll, the problem with pursuing such an ideal is that it will be rooted in externally derived standards of worth.

To illustrate, here are some examples:

• A student feels pressure from their parents to pursue a prestigious career in law, even though this line of work does not inspire them.
• A famous musician has mistaken their true self with their like of the status, prestige, and social validation they receive while performing.
• A woman’s family talks her into finding a husband and settling down when she’d rather travel the world with her friends.
• A son feels obligated to take over the family business when he’d prefer to start his own venture.

When we cannot live in alignment with our true selves, we must spend energy attempting to deny and distort our experiences to make sense of a pervasive lack of happiness and personal fulfillment. This ongoing effort can go so far as to produce psychological states and conditions such as depression (Waterman et al., 2010).

This is why self-discovery is so important.

Our goal in life should not be to pursue imagined or externally derived ideals, but rather to develop a more realistic understanding of our strengths and limitations. By doing so, we can avoid negative psychological states and self-actualize , feel contentment, and make better contributions to the world.

A growing trend in coaching, self-discovery coaching is about looking beyond specific goal pursuits (e.g., “I want to improve my self-esteem ”) to discover how we can live authentically and be truly happy .

Self-discovery coaching has many components, including (Elevate Life Project, n.d.):

• Exploring your values to live in congruence with what’s most important to you
• Discovering grounded confidence, centeredness, and strength
• Identifying your abilities for making easier decisions

The role of a self-discovery coach in this process is to act as co-pilot on a client’s journey toward authentic fulfillment by challenging them, imbuing them with courage, and showing compassion.

If you or your clients are looking to set off on a self-discovery journey, consider the following fun and insightful activities to get you started.

This exercise is a useful starting point for viewing yourself clearly in terms of values, beliefs, and more. The exercise guides users through a two-step process of considering themselves from the perspective of others, followed by a consideration of their self-perceptions at different times in their life.

Spontaneous collage

Collage is a fun and cathartic method of self-discovery that helps people bypass the socially protective aspects of the mind and reveal aspects of their authentic self. Best of all, no previous art experience is required.

For a great resource, check out Shelley Klammer’s 12-week online course and check out the #collageforselfdiscovery hashtag on Instagram to get inspired by others’ collages.

Kokology: The Game of Self-Discovery

Created by famous Japanese psychologists Tadahiko Nagao and Isamu Saito, kokology , the study of kokoro (“mind” or “spirit” in Japanese), is a fun and sometimes hilarious game for learning about yourself.

The game invites players to answer questions about seemingly innocent topics, such as the color of an imaginary bird that has flown in their window, to reveal profound insights in their answers.

Journaling and worksheets can both be hugely helpful for this purpose.

To help, look at some of the following free resources from our site:

• Self-Awareness Worksheet for Adults This worksheet poses a series of 15 questions to help you discover more about your true self. Specifically, the questions tap into topics such as your talents/strengths, values, and barriers to living more authentically.
• What Are My Qualities and Traits? This worksheet invites you to identify your top five and weakest two qualities from a list of 100 strengths. It then invites you to consider how you might shape, develop, and use your toolkit of identified strengths to better your life.
• Reflecting on Three Things This worksheet invites you to explore what defines who you are. These reflections can include statements, objects, roles in life, people you admire, and ambitions.

If you’re more into journaling, see if any of the following prompts might inspire some of your upcoming entries (Hollis, 2019):

• What things have you been doing lately that may be positively or negatively affecting your mental health ?
• What ways can you touch or move your body that makes you feel good?
• If you could spend the day doing anything, what would you do?
• How do you show love to other people?
• What are some things about you that you wish other people knew?

How to discover your authentic self – at any age – Bevy Smith

For more ways to get started on your journey of self-inquiry, consider the following questions, drawn from leading books designed to guide you toward self-discovery (see Helpful Books & Apps for Your Journey ):

Mindful self-discovery questions

• What’s going on inside your body at the moment (e.g., sensations, flows of energy)?
• Is there joy, ease, and lightness in what you are doing at the present moment?
• Do you really have any problems right now in this present moment ?
• Is there anything you can do to change, improve, or remove yourself from a present dissatisfactory situation? If not, how can you move toward accepting your present circumstances?

Exploring values

• What are your top five personal and professional values?
• How are you living outside your values?
• In what areas do you feel a personal sense of responsibility to better the world?
• How are you living outside of your integrity?

Questions about fear and courage

• What do you fear the most?
• What fears have actually come true in your life?
• What would happen if you treated the actions you fear as an experiment?
• For which pending decision could you use 10% more courage?

Considering worthwhile experiences

• What has made your childhood worthwhile?
• What lessons did you learn last week?
• What makes life worthwhile for you?
• What trip have you always wanted to take, and how could you make this trip happen?

More questions for self-discovery

For even more powerful coaching questions, be sure to check out some of the dedicated articles throughout our blog:

• 73 Powerful Coaching Questions to Ask Your Clients
• 100 Most Powerful Life Coaching Questions [+PDF]
• Self-Coaching Model Explained: 56 Questions & Techniques for Self-Mastery

Here are some of our favorite books and apps to support greater self-insight and discovery.

1. The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment – Eckhart Tolle

A critical first step toward greater self-insight involves ceasing to confuse your true self with the endless stream of thoughts flowing through your mind.

The bestselling book The Power of Now  takes readers on a journey to find their deepest self through the lens of mindfulness and spirituality.

The book guides the reader through steps to help recognize and free themselves from ego in the form of defense mechanisms, automatic negative habits, and over-identification with thought. From here, readers can then discover their true nature and lasting contentment, rooted in the present moment.

Find the book on Amazon .

2. Self-Discovery Questions: 155 Breakthrough Questions to Accelerate Massive Action – Barrie Davenport

Not all of us have the resources to employ a self-discovery coach, making it all the more important to know what questions to ask on your self-discovery journey.

Barrie Davenport’s book of 155 powerful questions is a perfect companion for self-reflection and journaling, helping readers become less reactive and take charge of their lives and destiny.

Once you become acquainted with your answers, you can strengthen self-awareness , break out of automatic patterns, and feel empowered to make positive new life changes.

3. The 365 Self-Discovery Journal: One Year of Reflection & Development – Created by 21 Exercises

Journaling remains one of the best ways to pursue self-discovery and greater self-insight (Charles, 2010).

This book provides journal lovers with a year’s worth of challenging and original questions to guide self-discovery.

By combining each prompt with thought-provoking poems and quotes, this book is an excellent tool to help steadily expand the reader’s comfort zone and curiosity across domains ranging from career and finances to love and relationships.

4. The Quenza app

Quenza was designed by our very own team as a one-stop resource for coaches and psychologists wishing to remotely support their clients’ self-inquiry between scheduled sessions.

The app links with an online dashboard and growing library of science-backed activities you can customize and send directly to your clients’ smart devices, including audio meditations, guided visualizations, and many thought-provoking reflections.

Try the app, platform, and entire library of pre-built activities for 30 days for just $1.

5. The Waking Up app

While Western takes on meditation tend to emphasize health and stress reduction, there is much more we can discover about ourselves through this powerful practice.

Waking Up , developed by philosopher and neuroscientist Sam Harris, features a rich array of audio-based meditations, exercises, and conversations with leading experts and teachers to help you make profound discoveries about the nature of your own mind.

This app is a top-rated resource for those seeking to dismantle illusions of the self and rediscover their true nature and purpose.

6. The Reflectly app

With the growing recognition of journaling as a tool for self-insight, new technologies are emerging to support this powerful practice.

Reflectly is a modern journaling app for self-care and greater happiness. Drawing on evidence-based approaches from positive psychology, mindfulness, and Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, this app serves as an AI companion to help you manage negative thoughts and find greater happiness.

Among its personalized functions, the app includes daily quotes, a mood tracker , and personalized insights via its reporting features.

Throughout this post, we’ve discussed the importance of clarifying values to better understand what brings meaning throughout one’s journey of self-discovery. To this end, we invite you to check out our free Meaning & Valued Living Exercises Pack .

This pack features three of our top tools from the Positive Psychology Toolkit©, all of which center on the theme of values-based living:

• The Top 5 Values This exercise draws on key principles of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help clients begin brainstorming their values. Following this, clients will then prioritize these values in a list to identify those most central to who they are.
• Self-Eulogy This exercise invites clients to consider how they’d like to be remembered at their funeral as a means to identify and clarify values. Based on this, they can then consider how well they are living in alignment with these values.
• The Scoreboard Metaphor This exercise helps clients recognize how to enact their values through goal-setting. In particular, it draws on the metaphor of a basketball game to illustrate how living into one’s values is an ongoing process and that the paths by which we pursue our goals are opportunities to enact our values in daily life.

You can access all three exercises for free by downloading our Meaning & Valued Living Exercises Pack .

If you’re looking for more science-based ways to help others discover meaning, this collection contains 17 validated meaning tools for practitioners. Use them to help others choose directions for their lives in alignment with what is truly important to them.

17 Tools To Encourage Meaningful, Value-Aligned Living

This 17 Meaning & Valued Living Exercises [PDF] pack contains our best exercises for helping others discover their purpose and live more fulfilling, value-aligned lives.

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Self-discovery is an ongoing process of stripping away that which is unimportant, reviewing our core values, and seeking to live in greater alignment with these inner truths.

Importantly, anyone can take steps toward greater self-knowledge . All that’s required is an attitude of curiosity and regular time out for meditation, reflection, or self-questioning.

We hope this article has left you feeling equipped for your journey of self-discovery, and if you decide to try out any of the tools or exercises we’ve explored, be sure to let us know in the comments.

We’d love to hear from you.

We hope you enjoyed reading this article. Don’t forget to download our three Meaning and Valued Living Exercises for free .

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• Charles, J. P. (2010). Journaling: Creating space for “I”. Creative Nursing , 16 (4), 180–184.
• Davenport, B. (2015).  Self-discovery questions: 155 Breakthrough questions to accelerate massive action.  Bold Living Press.
• Elevate Life Project. (n.d.). Self discovery coaching . Retrieved October 11, 2021 from https://elevatelifeproject.com/self-discovery-coaching/
• Hollis, B. (2019, July 16). Who am I? Journaling prompts for self-discovery and self-reflection. Learning to Be Free . Retrieved October 11, 2021 from https://www.learningtobefree.com/2019/07/16/journaling-prompts-for-self-discovery/
• Horney, K. (1950). Neurosis and human growth: The struggle toward self-realization . Norton.
• Pagedar, A. (2021). Finding awareness: The journey of self-discovery . Author.
• Tolle, E. (2004).  The power of now: A guide to spiritual enlightenment.  New World Library.
• Waterman, A. S. (2011). Eudaimonic identity theory: Identity as self-discovery. In S. Schwartz, K. Luyckx, & V. Vignoles (Eds.), Handbook of identity theory and research (pp. 357–379). Springer.
• Waterman, A. S., Schwartz, S. J., Zamboanga, B. L., Ravert, R. D., Williams, M. K., Bede Agocha, V., … Brent Donnellan, M. (2010). The Questionnaire for Eudaimonic Well-Being: Psychometric properties, demographic comparisons, and evidence of validity. The Journal of Positive Psychology , 5 (1), 41–61.

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What does self-discovery mean?

How to start a self-discovery journey, 7 elements of self-discovery, why is self-discovery so important, 5 benefits of self-discovery, how to keep yourself engaged with your self-discovery journey, moving forward.

Life moves fast. We have errands to run, work to do, and commitments to uphold. Learning how to begin self-discovery could be the last thing on our mind. 

Our busy routines rarely give us time to consider what kind of life we actually want. Do you reflect on who you are while standing in line at the grocery store? Most likely, no. It can be hard to find the space to discover and become our most authentic selves . However, there are endless benefits that make taking the time worth it.

If you’re wondering how to begin self-discovery, know that the first step is making a commitment. Your journey will require you to focus, take action, and prioritize your needs. Remember, you can’t make a change without putting in the work. 

Ready to find out how to begin your self-discovery jour ney? Let’s start by defining what self-discovery is. 

Self-discovery is the process of understanding your true self: your values, your needs and wants, even what food you like and dislike. You might have naturally learned some of these things about yourself over time. Yet, for a lot of people, we have a way of losing touch with our values and hiding our own motivations and preferences, even from ourselves. Going deeper into self-discovery can transform your life. 

It’s one thing to know your personality type or your favorite meal. But true self-discovery starts when you evaluate your life and think about what’s energizing and what's not. What will bring more joy into your life? What inspires you to jump out of bed each morning? 

Once you’ve discovered more about yourself, you’ll have an easier time finding your life purpose and being your authentic self in work as well as in personal life. Understanding what’s been missing from your life will help you learn about yourself. 

But don’t think you can finish this journey overnight. Self-discovery is an ongoing process. It requires you to dive in and examine all areas of your life and take the time to reflect . You’ll need courage and resilience to stick with the process — in the process of looking inward, you may learn things about yourself that you find hard to accept . 

Discovering your inner self also requires lots of self-awareness , otherwise known as self-knowledge. Self-knowledge usually refers to your knowledge of your own feelings, beliefs, and desires . If you have more of this in your life, you’ll have better emotional regulation . This will help you better your personal and work relationships and improve your stress management . 

Knowing more about the way your mind works also improves your empathy, helps you exercise better self-control, be more creative, and have higher self-esteem. You’ll even be more honest as a result. 

There are endless benefits to learning how to start a self-discovery journey. The important thing is to take the first step and get started. 

You may feel intimidated by the prosp ect of embarking on a journey of self-discovery. Where do you even begin? The steps to self-discovery aren’t set in stone. That means you can start with whatever action feels right for you. Remember that having the courage to begin this journey is already admirable, so keep that momentum going.

Here are 11 tips you can follow to learn how to discover yourself:

• Work to be your best self each day, no matter what you’re doing
• Take risks and try new things
• Hone in on your passions and what makes you excited
• Understand your strengths and think about how you can apply them everywhere
• Start journaling your thoughts so you can reflect on them later
• Make sure you surround yourself with people who support you
• Learn from your mistakes and move on
• Think back to your childhood and connect with your inner child again
• Be curious and ask questions
• Build habits that support your personal growth and goals
• Practice positive self-talk and reward yourself for your wins

Discovering your true self will help you feel more confident in your decision-making abilities. This is true for all areas of your life because self-discovery helps you understand yourself on a deep level. You’ll know better than anyone else what’s good for you.

As you work to improve your sense of self-awareness, here are seven elements to keep in mind:

• Reflect on where you started and what you’re accomplishing each day
• Zero in on what gives you energy and what zaps your energy
• Visualize the person you want to be
• Follow where your passions and interests lead you
• Let go of your inner critic and any self-doubt
• Choose a life of meaning and be purposeful with your actions
• Be proud of your power, grit, and resilience during challenging times

BetterUp offers the guidance and objective support — not to mention accountability — that you need to start your journey. We’ll help you chart an organized and purposeful plan toward self-discovery.

Self-discovery is important because it helps us live more meaningful lives. You learn how to take better care of yourself when you understand yourself. Plus, you might find a more fulfilling career if you’re connected to your true self. And if you’re on a career path you’re truly passionate about, you’re more likely to succeed . 

Perhaps you’ll learn that, although you’re an introvert, you’re also a people person. Taking care of our social health is always important, but maybe you need more social connection than you’d initially realized.

This also gives you more clarity on what you want your future to look like. By understanding yourself, you can chart a future that satisfies your needs and supports your well-being . Without self-discovery, you won’t live the most passionate and fulfilling life possible. 

Let’s say that you do some reflecting and realize that your favorite projects at work are the ones you lead . That probably means that you have a talent or a passion for leadership. With that in mind, you can work to become a manager . You’ll have a clearer career path and find a role that you’re more passionate about. 

And when you know yourself, you can recognize your strengths and weaknesses. Maybe you’re skilled at mindfulness , empathy, or compassion . Or you could be an amazing writer or public speaker . The best way to find out is to begin your self-discovery journey. 

This process can help you see where you need to grow, too. If you need to strengthen your communication skills , for example, taking the time to reflect on yourself will show you that.

The impact of your self-discovery will touch other people’s lives, too. You can put your newly sharpened skills to work in your social life and form deeper relationships . This authenticity will help you become a better friend, coworker, and family member. 

The road to self-discovery can look different for many people. But for everyone, it brings benefits that help you become your true self.

To put that into perspective, here are 5 benefits that you can experience after finding yourself:

1. Your relationships will thrive

Your relationships will be healthier when you better understand your core values and what you want out of your life. You’ll be able to identify toxic traits — yours or not — and solve deeper issues you have. You can then improve your social health by being more honest and open.

2. You’ll experience less self-criticism

Rather than criticize every mistake you make , you’ll know that mistakes sometimes happen because we’re human. It doesn’t mean you’re a bad person. Plus, with more self-awareness, you’ll learn to avoid some mistakes. Understanding why you’ve made an error is the first step to preventing it from happening again.

3. You’ll feel more creative

Self-expression is key for letting others know how you feel and for becoming more creative . But how can you express yourself if you don’t know who you are? Self-reflection will help you find your identity and learn how to express it.

4. You’ll have a better ability to focus on what you truly want

The ongoing process of discovering yourself requires you to be committed and focused . That practice will help you set and achieve goals with a better sense of self in mind. You can plan a future that embodies who you really are.

5. Your self-confidence will increase

Believing in yourself and your abilities can impact your professional and personal life. With more confidence, you’ll walk into new experiences as a whole person ™, not someone who shies away from challenges or change. And as you begin your journey of self-improvement, your confidence will continue to grow.

Self-discovery isn’t something that you start and finish in one afternoon. It could take months, a year, or more to get to a point where you feel content with what you’ve discovered.

Throughout that process, here are a few ways you can keep yourself engaged and learning:

• Stay organized with the career and person goals you’re working to achieve
• Find journal prompts that keep you stimulated and thinking
• Listen to podcasts, read books, and watch videos about other people’s journeys to make you feel inspired
• Ask yourself questions like “Why do I like these things?” or “What impact do I want my choices to have on my life?”

Remember, finding your true self and defining your life purpose will be more than worth it. 

The journey of self-discovery doesn’t involve only thinking about the future. It asks you to take a look at your past, too. Spending time revisiting past feelings and experiences can be tough. Remember, it’s okay to ask for help from your friends and family.

Knowin g how to begin self-discovery is only the first step. In this process, you’ll need to get out of your comfort zone and ask yourself some hard questions. As you start, feel proud of yourself. It’s never too late to become more in touch with yourself and you’ll be so grateful you took the leap.

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What "finding yourself" really means, seeking your true self is a journey of self-discovery and self-awareness..

Posted September 1, 2023 | Reviewed by Davia Sills

• When someone knows who they are and what they want, they can make choices that are more authentic.
• It is often helpful to identify harmful thinking and behavioral habits and replace them with healthier ones.
• Building meaningful relationships and embracing change can help life feel more fulfilling.

Finding yourself is important because it is the key to living a fulfilling and authentic life. When you truly know yourself, you can make decisions that align with your values, passions, and purpose. It's about understanding who you truly are, embracing your unique story, and living authentically.

But what does "finding yourself" really mean?

Embracing your story

Your story is what makes you unique and powerful. Take the time to reflect on your life experiences, both positive and negative. What have you learned from them? How have they shaped you?

Embracing your story means accepting every part of it, even the challenging moments. By doing so, you can gain a deeper understanding of yourself and what the universe has in store for you.

Living authentically

When you find yourself, you can live authentically, being true to who you are at your core. This means embracing your strengths, accepting your weaknesses, and showing up in the world as your genuine self. Living authentically allows you to attract people and experiences that align with your true essence.

Noticing problematic thought patterns

We all have thought patterns that hold us back. Take a moment to identify five problematic thought patterns that frequently recur in your life. Explore how these patterns translate into beliefs and behaviors. Be specific and give examples. Understanding the impact of these patterns on your thinking and life is crucial for creating change.

Discovering your purpose

Finding yourself helps you uncover your purpose in life. By understanding your values, passions, and unique gifts, you can identify the path that brings you the most fulfillment and meaning. Your purpose gives you a sense of direction and guides your decisions, leading to a more purposeful and satisfying life.

Replacing old patterns with new ones

Once you've identified your problematic thought patterns, it's time to replace them with new, empowering ones. Think about what new behaviors or thoughts can replace the old ones. This step requires conscious effort and practice. By consistently implementing these new thoughts and behaviors, you'll start to see a shift in your life.

Building self-confidence

When you know who you are, you develop a strong sense of self-confidence . You become more self-assured in your abilities, decisions, and choices. This confidence radiates in your interactions with others and empowers you to take risks, pursue your dreams , and overcome challenges.

Making it about others

One powerful way to find yourself is by shifting your focus from yourself to others. When we constantly worry about how we are perceived, our light can feel dimmed. Instead, focus on how you want to be remembered and the impact you want to have on others. By making it about others, you'll feel a sense of purpose and invincibility.

Creating meaningful relationships

Finding yourself allows you to attract and cultivate meaningful relationships. When you are authentic and true to yourself, you naturally attract people who appreciate and accept you for who you are. These relationships are based on genuine connections and mutual understanding, leading to deeper and more fulfilling connections.

Embracing change and growth

Finding yourself is an ongoing process. Embrace change and growth as you navigate through life. Be open to new experiences, challenge yourself, and step out of your comfort zone. Remember, it's in the moments of not knowing and feeling lost that our true potential emerges.

Making aligned choices

Knowing yourself helps you make choices that align with your values and aspirations. You become more aware of what truly matters to you and can make decisions that support your personal growth and well-being. This leads to a greater sense of fulfillment and satisfaction in life.

Finding yourself is a deeply personal and unique journey. It may take time, but by embracing your story, replacing old patterns, and focusing on others, you'll start to uncover your true self. Seek support from loved ones, mentors, or even professional guidance if needed. Embrace the adventure of self-discovery and live your truth.

Remember, finding yourself is a continuous journey of self-discovery. It's about exploring, learning, and evolving as you navigate through life. Embrace the process, be patient with yourself, enjoy the adventure of uncovering your true self, and know that you're not alone. We're all trying to find ourselves.

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What Is the Meaning of Spiritual Journey? Self-Discovery

A spiritual journey is the process of introspection, self-discovery, and seeking answers to life’s deepest questions to gain a deeper understanding of oneself, the universe, and one’s purpose in life.

A spiritual journey is an individual and transformative process that often involves questioning beliefs, values, and identity.

It is a lifelong quest for truth, meaning, and wisdom, often leading to personal growth, healing, and enlightenment.

This journey can take many forms, including meditation, prayer, studying spiritual teachings, and engaging in spiritual practices to develop inner peace, compassion, and mindfulness.

Throughout the spiritual journey , individuals may face challenges and obstacles that test their resilience and commitment. By overcoming these hurdles, they foster greater self-awareness and spiritual growth.

This process of transformation ultimately serves to enhance their overall well-being and sense of interconnectedness with all living beings, cultivating deeper empathy and compassion for themselves and others.

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Five Facts About Spiritual Journey

Understanding the meaning of spiritual journey, defining spiritual journey.

A spiritual journey is an inward journey of discovery, an exploration of the self that allows individuals to gain a deeper understanding of their purpose in life and their connection to the world around them.

It is a quest for spiritual growth, guiding individuals towards a higher state of consciousness.

Here are some key points to help define what exactly a spiritual journey is:

• A spiritual journey is a subjective experience; each person’s journey is unique to them.
• It can be a long-term or short-term process, and it can involve different practices and techniques.
• A spiritual journey can be a conscious or unconscious process, depending on the individual’s level of awareness.
• It can be initiated by various factors, including a desire for personal growth, a life-changing event, or a crisis.

Connection To Spirituality

Spirituality is the foundation of a spiritual journey. It is the aspect of our being that longs for a deeper sense of connection to ourselves, others, and the universe. A spiritual journey is a quest to establish and strengthen this connection.

Here are some key points regarding the connection between spirituality and a spiritual journey:

• Spirituality is not necessarily linked to any specific religious or spiritual tradition.
• A spiritual journey is a path towards spirituality, rather than a destination.
• Spirituality is an essential aspect of a human’s existence, and it can impact their well-being, relationships, and sense of purpose.
• A spiritual journey involves practices that help individuals explore and deepen their spirituality, such as meditation, prayer, yoga, and self-reflection.

Importance Of Spiritual Journey

A spiritual journey is a transformative process that leads to personal growth, self-discovery, and a deeper sense of purpose.

Here are some key points regarding the importance of embarking on a spiritual journey:

• A spiritual journey can help individuals develop a sense of inner peace and calmness.
• It can also lead to a better understanding of their role in the world and their impact on others.
• A spiritual journey can help individuals find meaning and purpose in their lives, which can contribute to an overall sense of fulfillment.
• It can also help individuals develop greater empathy and compassion towards others, leading to more meaningful and fulfilling relationships.

The Different Aspects Of A Spiritual Journey

A spiritual journey is a deeply personal experience that involves seeking a sense of purpose and meaning in life beyond material and physical possessions. It’s a quest to connect with a higher power or a deeper sense of self.

The following section will explore the different aspects of a spiritual journey, including mental and emotional development, understanding the self, development of inner peace, connection to nature, and cultivation of empathy and compassion.

Mental And Emotional Development

A spiritual journey includes developing one’s mental and emotional capacity. This involves learning to let go of negative emotions such as anger, guilt, and fear, and cultivating positive ones such as love, joy, and gratitude.

Below are some ways in which one can develop their mental and emotional capacities:

• Regularly practicing mindfulness meditation is a powerful technique for developing emotional regulation and mental calmness.
• Engaging in introspection and self-reflection is important for understanding our thought patterns and emotional triggers, which can help us become more self-aware and mindful.
• Learning to accept and forgive oneself and others is an essential aspect of emotional maturity. By doing so, we can release ourselves from the past and live in the present moment.

Understanding The Self

A spiritual journey also involves understanding the self. This includes knowing our strengths and weaknesses, values, and beliefs.

When we understand ourselves, we can make decisions aligned with our authentic selves, which can lead to a greater sense of fulfillment and purpose.

Here are some ways in which we can understand ourselves better:

• Journaling is an effective way to gain insight into our thoughts, emotions, and values. By reflecting on our experiences, we can uncover patterns and identify areas we want to work on.
• Seeking out feedback from trusted individuals can help us gain a different perspective on our behaviors and attitudes.
• Engaging in activities that challenge us and push us out of our comfort zones is an effective way to develop self-awareness and self-understanding.

Development Of Inner Peace

Inner peace is a state of equanimity and tranquility that arises from within. A spiritual journey involves developing inner peace by letting go of negative thoughts and cultivating positive ones.

Here are some ways in which one can achieve inner peace:

• Practicing yoga is an excellent way to connect with the body and calm the mind. It’s a practice that focuses on breathing, meditation, and asanas, which can help bring a sense of balance and harmony to the body and mind.
• Spending time in nature and engaging in outdoor activities can help us connect with the world around us and develop a sense of awe and wonder. Being in nature can also help us find a greater sense of perspective and calmness.
• Engaging in self-care practices such as getting sufficient sleep, eating well, and practicing relaxation exercises can help us manage stress and anxiety, which can lead to greater inner peace.

Connection To Nature

Connecting with nature is an essential aspect of a spiritual journey. It involves developing a sense of connection and appreciation for the natural world.

Below are some ways in which one can connect with nature:

• Spending time in nature by going for walks, hikes, or simply spending time outside can help us connect with the natural world and develop a sense of wonder and awe.
• Engaging in environmental conservation and sustainability efforts can help us develop a sense of stewardship and purpose. By taking care of the earth, we can also take care of ourselves.
• Learning about the natural world, including plants, animals, and ecosystems can help us develop a deeper sense of connection and appreciation for the complexity and beauty of life.

Cultivation Of Empathy And Compassion

Empathy and compassion are essential qualities for a spiritual journey. They involve developing an awareness and concern for the well-being of others and the ability to put oneself in someone else’s shoes.

Here are some ways in which we can cultivate empathy and compassion:

• Engaging in volunteer work or community service can help us develop a greater sense of empathy and compassion by seeing firsthand the challenges faced by others.
• Engaging in practices such as loving-kindness meditation, which involves cultivating feelings of love and compassion towards oneself and others, can help us develop a greater sense of empathy and compassion.
• Engaging in empathetic listening, which involves actively listening to someone else and being able to understand their perspective, can help us develop empathy and compassion in our interactions with others.

Examining The Stages Of A Spiritual Journey

The call to adventure.

The beginning of a spiritual journey starts with a call. It’s often a feeling of discontentment, a longing for something more in life.

The individual feels lost, disconnected, or empty and starts seeking answers. The call may come in different ways, such as a significant event or an encounter with someone who inspires them.

• The call could be a desire to find a purpose in life.
• It could be a yearning for a connection with something greater than oneself.
• It could be triggered by a significant loss or a traumatic experience.

The Initiation

After receiving the call, the individual embarks on the initiation stage, the beginning of the spiritual journey.

It’s a phase of self-discovery, where the individual starts exploring and questioning their beliefs and values, and begins to seek answers to their questions.

• The initiation phase is where the individual starts to learn about themselves.
• They start developing an understanding of their inner strengths and weaknesses.
• The initiation phase is also where they start to understand their relationship with a higher power.

The Challenges

The spiritual journey is not always a smooth ride. There come challenges throughout the process. These challenges serve as lessons to the individual on their growth and development.

• Some challenges could be external, like facing discrimination or physical hardships.
• Other challenges could be internal, like overcoming fear, anger, or negative habits.
• Challenges may also arise as an opportunity to demonstrate self-discipline, resilience, or forgiveness.

The Road To Redemption

After overcoming the challenges and learning the spiritual lessons, individuals enter the road to redemption. They begin to see the bigger picture and how the experience fits into their life journey.

• A regained sense of purpose and meaning can lead to a more fulfilling life.
• Forgiveness and reconciliation can restore relationships and foster emotional healing.
• A better understanding of oneself can lead to better decision-making and a more grounded approach to life.

In the final stage of the spiritual journey, individuals return to their lives with newfound knowledge, perspectives, and practices.

They integrate their spiritual experiences with their everyday life, creating a more balanced and fulfilling existence.

• Individuals integrate their spiritual lessons into their daily routines.
• They apply their newfound sense of purpose to their work, relationships, and community.
• The final stage is where individuals share their newfound knowledge with others, inspiring and guiding them on their own spiritual journeys.

Each individual spiritual journey is different, but by examining these stages, we can gain insight into the patterns of spiritual growth and development.

The spiritual journey may be challenging, but it can lead to a more fulfilling life and a deeper connection with oneself and the world around us.

How Does the Spiraling Symbolize Life’s Journey in the Spiritual Context?

The spiraling symbolizes the spiritual journey of life , embodying the continuous search for meaning and growth. As we navigate through life’s ups and downs, the spiral reminds us that our path is not linear, but rather a constant evolution towards higher consciousness. Each turn represents new experiences, lessons, and opportunities for transformation, ultimately leading us closer to our spiritual essence. Embracing the spiral’s symbolic power connects us to the profound cycles of existence and our place within them.

Tools And Techniques For Navigating The Spiritual Journey

A spiritual journey is a personal quest to discover the meaning and purpose of life and to connect with something greater than oneself. It involves exploring one’s inner self, developing a deeper sense of awareness, and connecting with the divine.

The journey can be challenging and transformative, but the rewards are often profound. To navigate this journey, there are several tools and techniques that can be helpful.

We’ll explore some of these tools and techniques, including meditation and mindfulness, journaling and self-reflection, connection to a higher power or spiritual community, yoga and breathwork, and energy medicine and healing modalities.

Meditation And Mindfulness

Meditation and mindfulness are practices that involve quieting the mind and focusing on the present moment.

These practices are helpful for cultivating inner peace, reducing stress and anxiety, and developing a deeper connection with one’s inner self.

Here are some key points about meditation and mindfulness:

• There are many different types of meditation, including mindfulness meditation, loving-kindness meditation, and transcendental meditation.
• Meditation can be done in many different settings, such as at home, in nature, or in a meditation center.
• Mindfulness involves paying attention to the present moment and noticing one’s thoughts and feelings without judgment.
• Meditation can be practiced alone or with a group, and can be done for as little as a few minutes per day.

Journaling And Self-Reflection

Journaling and self-reflection are powerful tools for gaining insight into one’s thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. By writing down one’s thoughts and experiences, it can help clarify one’s goals, values, and identity.

Here are some key points about journaling and self-reflection:

• Journaling can be done in a physical journal or online.
• One can reflect on their day, their relationships, their inner life, and their progress towards their goals.
• Self-reflection involves looking inward to gain clarity and insight into one’s experiences and relationships.
• Journaling and self-reflection can be done on a daily or weekly basis.

Connection To A Higher Power Or Spiritual Community

Many people find strength and guidance through connection to a higher power or spiritual community.

This can take many forms, such as prayer, attending religious services, or participating in spiritual groups.

Here are some key points about connecting to a higher power or spiritual community:

• Connection to a higher power can provide a sense of support, guidance, and meaning.
• Spiritual communities can provide a sense of belonging and connection with like-minded individuals.
• Connection to a higher power may involve following a particular religious tradition or may be based on a personal connection to the divine.
• Connection to a spiritual community may involve attending events, participating in service projects, or engaging in group activities.

Yoga And Breathwork

Yoga and breathwork are practices that involve linking movement with breath to develop flexibility, strength, and inner peace. These practices can be helpful for improving physical and mental health, reducing stress, and cultivating spiritual awareness.

Here are some key points about yoga and breathwork:

• Yoga involves practicing postures (asanas) to develop strength, flexibility, and balance.
• Breathwork involves practicing different breathing techniques to calm the mind and body.
• Yoga and breathwork can be done in a studio, at home, or in nature.
• Both yoga and breathwork can be modified to suit different levels of experience and physical ability.

Energy Medicine And Healing Modalities

Energy medicine and healing modalities are practices that involve working with the body’s energy fields to promote healing, balance, and spiritual growth.

These can involve various techniques, such as reiki, acupuncture, or shamanic healing.

Here are some key points about energy medicine and healing modalities:

• Energy medicine involves working with the body’s energy fields to promote healing and balance.
• Healing modalities can involve working with a trained practitioner or can be practiced independently.
• Different modalities may be more effective for different individuals depending on their unique needs and circumstances.
• Energy medicine and healing modalities can be used in conjunction with other spiritual practices to enhance their effectiveness.

There are many tools and techniques that can be helpful in navigating the spiritual journey. These practices can help cultivate inner peace, reduce stress, and develop a deeper connection to oneself and the divine.

Whether one chooses to practice meditation and mindfulness, journaling and self-reflection, connection to a higher power or spiritual community, yoga and breathwork, or energy medicine and healing modalities,

The journey towards spiritual growth and awareness is a lifelong process that can be rewarding and fulfilling in many ways.

FAQ On What Is The Meaning Of Spiritual Journey

What is a spiritual journey.

A spiritual journey is a quest to connect with one’s inner self, seek spiritual enlightenment, and find purpose and meaning in life.

How Long Does A Spiritual Journey Last?

There is no defined timeline for a spiritual journey as everyone’s path and pace is unique. It can last for a few weeks, months or even a lifetime.

What Are The Benefits Of A Spiritual Journey?

A spiritual journey has many benefits such as self-discovery, inner peace, improved emotional well-being, and a sense of purpose and fulfillment in life.

How Do I Start My Spiritual Journey?

To start your spiritual journey, you can begin by meditating, practicing gratitude, seeking guidance from a spiritual mentor or a religious leader, and engaging in self-reflection exercises.

The spiritual journey is an individual experience that leads to self-discovery, self-transcendence, and ultimately finding meaning and purpose in life.

It is a path of growth that deepens our connection with our inner self and helps us understand the interconnectedness of all living beings.

The journey requires an open mind, patience, and a commitment to inner work. It is not an easy process, but it can be a transformative one. By getting in touch with our spiritual nature, we can find peace, happiness, and a sense of belonging.

It is important to remember that the journey is not about achieving a certain goal, but rather about embracing the process of experiencing life to its fullest. May we all find the courage to embark on this journey and discover the beauty and richness it holds.

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14 Powerful Self-Discovery Activities for Your Personal Journey

OVERVIEW : This comprehensive guide outlines the three stages of self-discovery as a developmental model, highlighting the common pitfalls along one’s journey and offering tools and methods for each stage.

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Know thyself— the famous aphorism from Ancient Greece.

No better phrase can capture the essence of self-discovery.

Let’s dive deeper into what this aphorism means …

What is Self-Discovery?  

Self-discovery is the process of learning about and finding oneself.

There are many different facets of this discovery process. In the earlier stages, you learn about   your personality type, what you value, your strengths, weaknesses, talents, dreams, shortcomings, aspirations, and interests.

In a later stage, self-discovery is about getting to know the parts of yourself that were “disowned” in childhood, commonly called the shadow.

The process of self-discovery is a continual movement from less conscious to more conscious, from less aware to greater awareness of oneself.

Similar to the hero’s journey motif, the self-discovery journey is the path toward mature adulthood.

Self-Discovery versus Self-Development

These two concepts are intrinsically linked together.  

On its own, self-discovery is simply about revealing what’s always there: who you are on a conscious level.

Self-development is about molding and growing in various areas, including physically, emotionally, cognitively, and spiritually.

Can you engage in self-discovery without self-development? Only on a very cursory level. Why?

In the act of getting to know yourself, you’re placing your attention on various aspects of your being. In doing so, development will likely take place.

Although there’s a large self-improvement industry that promotes ways of “bettering oneself,” the reality is that development is a natural process .

Early childhood trauma and conditioning hinder that process, but once it’s initiated in adulthood, it tends to take on a life of its own.  

As such, self-development is an integral part of one’s self-discovery process.

What are the 3 Stages of Self-Discovery?

The common stages of self-discovery outlined here largely mirror the stages of human development from transpersonal psychology but in a very simplified format.

Stage 1: Discovering Your Conscious Self (Personality)

Stage 2: Exploring Your Personal Unconscious (Shadow)

Stage 3: Returning Home (The Self)

First, we’ll examine each of these stages in more detail. Then, we’ll explore the self-discovery activities commonly used at each stage.

Before we dive into these three stages, let’s examine where we start: the persona.

Stage 0: Wearing Our Social Masks

In early development, we are mostly focused on adjusting to our environments and “fitting in” at home, school, and anywhere else we find ourselves.

Our identities at this stage are largely defined by “others” in a social context. That is, our identity is mostly a series of personas (social masks) designed to help us “fit in.”

When we’re in the persona stage we’re not technically in the self-discovery process yet.

We create our personae unconsciously and subconsciously. It’s the starting point from which self-discovery can be initiated.

Self-Discovery Stage 1: Discovering Our Conscious Personality

Stage 1 can be a fun stage for many individuals. It’s the part of self-discovery that many people associate with the term “self-discovery journey.”  

Stage 1 is marked by discovering one’s conscious personality including strengths, weaknesses, habitual patterns, drives, desires, and aspirations.

Self-discovery comes through our engagement with life. Like any good hero’s journey , life is filled with trials and tribulations. Setbacks and victories. Each experience provides a window into ourselves.

If we pay attention, we learn through our reactions and interactions with others and the world.

In this initial stage, we develop a strong curiosity about ourselves. It’s common at this stage to take a wide range of assessments.

Learning about your “personality type” is highly instructive: it highlights many of your greatest strengths and mortal weaknesses. It illuminates common behavior patterns that you may not have noticed.

You’ll discover a myriad of patterns that you spontaneously engage in without knowing why.   At this stage, you’re also likely to inquire about your core values to clarify what you stand for and what’s most important to you.

You might take up journalling, and begin capturing your big life goals, dreams, and even a vision for yourself.

This stage usually goes on for many years. In fact, many individuals never move beyond this initial stage of self-discovery.

Self-Discovery Stage 2:   Exploring Our Personal Unconscious  

The second stage of self-discovery brings you toward your inner world where the meaning of “self-discovery” vastly changes.

Stage 2 often begins either at midlife or after a major life event that rattles you to the core. This event could be a divorce, the death of someone close to you, physical illness, or some other crisis.

Psychiatrist Carl Jung often said this inward turn should happen at midlife: after you’ve built a healthy ego in the world (career, home, family, etc.). That is, the first half of life is meant to be more externally oriented while the second half is internal.  

In tribal cultures, at midlife, members of the tribe would go on extensive walkabouts or vision quests. They returned as different people, now taking up a more shamanic-type role as ritual elders of their tribe.

For us, this inward turn is more about engaging in inner work , addressing our childhood trauma, exploring our dream world, and getting to know our shadows . Here, internal observation, self-awareness , reflection, self-analysis, understanding, sensitivity, and inner honesty are required.

In stage 2 of self-discovery, we address our deep-seated internal tensions and splits within our psyche.

The self-identity that we created for ourselves in stage 1 becomes less codified and more fluid. As we move toward psychological integration, that self-identity moves further into the background.

This stage will also last many years depending on your life circumstances. For example, if you’re in midlife and still very active in the world, there may be less time available for self-reflection and inner discovery.  

Self-Discovery Stage 3: Returning Home of the Self

In the third stage of self-discovery, an individual returns home to their Self (capital “S”).

The meaning of “self” changes greatly at this stage. The self in “self-discovery” when we set out on our path was our conscious personality. It starts to become a distant memory at this later stage.

This stage is marked by transcending an exclusive identification with the self (small “s”) and realizing one’s true Self (self-realization).

The ego we developed in the prior stages now must take a back seat so that the original Self can return.

In The Ego and the Dynamic Ground , professor of philosophy Michael Washburn called it “regression in the service of transcendence.” 

This stage requires us to strip away everything we are not so that our Original Nature can take its rightful place in the Center.  

In Taoist philosophy, they make a distinction between the conscious spirit and the Original Spirit.

The conscious spirit (ego or “acquired mind”) is what we develop in stage 1. This self-identity is a set of conditioning from the external world.

In contrast, the Original Spirit is our primordial Self that is unconditioned by the insanity of this world.

At this stage, the focus is on self-inquiry, self-observation, neutrality, stabilizing the mind, and moving toward inner stillness.  

In transpersonal psychology, they often call this stage integration . Maslow called it self-transcendence . Jung referred to it as wholeness —the final stage of individuation .  

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Now, let’s review a series of self-discovery activities and exercises you might use at each stage of your personal discovery journey.

Self-Discovery Activities for Stage 1

Here are seven self-discovery activities and exercises you can use for Stage 1 of your journey:

Myers-Brigg Personal Assessment (Common Self-Discovery Activity)

Personality Assessments

Personality assessments are one of the most common self-discovery activities most people use.

Any quality personality assessment will reveal different aspects of your personality. They can be very insightful—especially when you’re in the beginning stages of self-discovery. Three popular ones include:

• The Enneagram
• Human Design Engineering
• Myers-Briggs Type Indicator

(Just do a quick search. There are many paid and free versions online.)

Values Assessment

Getting to know your core values is an essential self-discovery activity. Self-aware individuals tend to know what’s most important to them. Knowing your core values helps you make better decisions.

If you don’t know your values yet, you can go through my popular 7-Step Values Assessment .

Strengths Assessment

Getting clarity on your strengths and weaknesses is another excellent self-discovery activity..

While we learn our natural strengths and weaknesses by observing our life experiences, the VIA Character Institute offers a free survey to help you determine your strengths right away.

See my guide on authentic happiness for a primer on this topic from positive psychology.

Personal Vision Casting

A personal vision can help guide you through your self-discovery journey. It helps clarify what’s most important to you.

A compelling vision can also help you remove distractions and stay focused on your long-term self-development goals.

Get step-by-step instructions on how to craft your vision statement .

Wheel of Life Assessment

As you begin to flush out who you are and what you stand for, you’ll likely determine specific goals you have for self-development. It’s important to understand that we all have multiple lines of intelligence and areas of focus.

The Wheel of Life assessment is a good coaching tool to clarify your self-development goals for different areas of your life.

Active Journaling

Journalling can be a powerful aid in this stage and the next. A journal can be used to capture your dreams, ambitions, life lessons, and insights on the written page.

Self-Development Plan

Some individuals prefer to have more structure to help them proceed with their discovery process and self-development.

Creating even just a basic self-development plan with the data you gather above can help you reduce distractions and stay focused on your long-term objectives.

Self-Discovery Activities for Stage 2

What’s strange about Stage 2 is that it can seem like we’re going backward.

While we’re building our personalities and moving toward a vision in stage 1, in this stage, we need to take a step back and explore our past.

Getting to know our past is absolutely essential for deeper levels of self-discovery.

As such, the energetic striving we experienced in Stage 1 now gets replaced by a more self-reflective mind. We now have enough life experience behind us to observe major patterns that we couldn’t see before.

The self-discovery activities in Stage 2 different greatly from Stage 1. Overall, Stage 2 is less about tools and assessments and more about methods and exercises that support one’s inward discovery journey.

Observational Meditation

Many individuals will likely discover meditation in the first stage of their journey. However, the quality and function of meditation take on a different meaning in Stage 2.

Your journey through Stage 2 benefits from a reflective mind and a strong Inner Observer . To gain insight into one’s psyche, it helps to be able to carefully monitor one’s deepest thoughts, feelings, reactions, attitudes, moods, and impulses.

For some, developing this Inner Observer happens naturally. For others, it takes meditative training .

Shadow Work

One of the most remarkable aspects of Stage 2 is that you eventually realize that everything you built up in Stage 1 isn’t entirely accurate.

All prior personality growth and self-development were based on a sense of self (ego construct) that was never closely examined.

To function in the world in early life, we necessarily cut off and dissociate many parts of ourselves that get relegated to our personal unconscious. This creates a split in our psyche that leads to internal tension. This internal tension is the source of our moodiness, emotional instability, neurotic behaviors, and dis-ease .

Think of it like renovating an old house with lead paint. Sure you can paint over the lead with a new “eco-friendly” paint and add new furnishings, but you still have a house with lead paint.

When you reach the Inward Turn, you begin examining what’s been cut off and hidden inside of you.

Every aspect of yourself that was deemed “unacceptable” during childhood was relegated to your personal unconscious. Now, it’s time to bring the unconscious to consciousness. Shadow work becomes an indispensable self-discovery activity at this stage.

See my guide on shadow work here .

Inner Work (Active Imagination & Dream Analysis)

Getting to know your shadow is an integral part of inner work. Inner work is more of a general term for turning inward and examining aspects of one’s unconscious.

Jung used two primary methods for helping his patients harmonize the split within their psyche: dream analysis and active imagination.

Jung saw dreams as a primary means for the unconscious to speak to us—to our conscious minds. So by paying attention to our dreams, we bring to consciousness aspects of ourselves currently hidden from us.

Active imagination is another excellent self-discovery activity. It’s the process of inner dialogue with “parts” within our psyche.

The psyche is filled with a collection of semi-autonomous archetypes that constantly influence our behavior.

In the second stage of our self-discovery process, it becomes necessary to dialogue with or at least become conscious of these various subpersonalities operating within our psyche.

Trauma Release Exercises

In the course of exploring our past, we encounter numerous psychic wounds that need our attention.

Trauma plays a large role in our early development. Addressing this trauma is a necessary aspect of becoming whole.

While mental processes are useful, we also need to address the body directly where this past trauma is stored. (See Dr. Bessel van der Kolk’s The Body Keeps the Score .)

I cover the topic of trauma more deeply in this guide on repressed emotions .

There are a range of methods available to use from David Berceli’s Trauma Release Exercises (TRE) to Alexander Lowen’s Bioenergetic Analysis. All of these self-discovery activities can be highly therapeutic at this stage.

Regardless of the modalities you use for your journey, the key thing is that you release this stored trauma and build a stronger connection to your physical body. This is called body-mind integration. In No Boundary (2001), integral theorist Ken Wilber labeled it the Centaur Level .

Cultivating deeper levels of body awareness is an important, often overlooked, part of one’s journey to self-discovery and healing.

Self-Discovery Activities for Stage 3

In Stage 2, we put our house in order. The more we harmonize the opposites within us, the more internal tension we resolve. We move, slowly and patiently, from fragmentation to greater wholeness.

As this unfolds, we can hold to the Center with greater ease.

From the Center,  there’s no need to strive to become anything. Even the growth need of self-actualization begins to take a back seat.

The ego we’ve developed through the first two stages doesn’t go anywhere. But a different quality emerges from the Center. One’s true Self comes forth and gently guides us.

This stage takes us beyond Western psychology and into the realm of mysticism and sagehood .

This third stage is less about self-discovery activities and more about stabilizing one’s mind. Self-inquiry and the closer examination of one’s consciousness become more than just a daily sitting practice, but a continuous way of being.

Becoming versus Being

In the first stage of self-discovery, we’re in the process of becoming . The self-discovery activities above aid us in this developmental process.

Self-development and personal growth are integral to this stage as we do our best to cultivate healthy egos that can thrive in this crazy, chaotic world.

In developing our personalities, we are, as psychologist Abraham Maslow put it, actualizing our potential .

Some of us do this through our careers and vocations. Others do it through cultivating skills and various intelligences out of personal interest.

Eventually, however, there’s a shift in quality in one’s process of self-discovery.

The drive to “become” moves into the background while a quality of beingness wants to emerge. This represents the shift inward that marks stage 2 and reaches fruition in stage 3.

Self-Discovery Through the Three Gunas

In Yogic philosophy, they have what’s called the three gunas or qualities of consciousness:

• Tamas : inertia, inactivity, darkness, and ignorance
• Rajas : activity, passion, desire, energy
• Sattva : purity, knowledge, beingness, truth

Those stuck in tamas (inertia) are unlikely to engage in their self-discovery journey. They sadly remain stuck in their personas. Self-discovery activities are likely uninteresting to them.

Stage 1 occurs when the active quality of rajas is present. Rajic energy is necessary for developing our personalities and fully engaging in life (the process of becoming).

The shift toward sattvic consciousness starts when we embrace our inner world in Stage 2. However, a sattvic state isn’t realized until we arrive home within the Self in Stage 3.

Self-Discovery Activities Roadmap

7 Factors that Hijack Self-Discovery

Keep in mind that self-discovery is a natural process. Sages often refer to it as the “play of consciousness.”

However, many common factors can potentially stall our development. Maslow called this aborted self-actualization . When this occurs, the self-discovery activities we highlighted above either don’t come into play or they hold no meaning.

Let’s take a look at some internal and external factors:

Internal Factors That Can Hinder Self-Discovery

Numerous potential internal hurdles can stall self-discovery. When this occurs, one does not fully engage in self-discovery activities

Here are four potential hurdles:

Early Childhood Trauma

This is probably the most common culprit. A series of psychic scars in early childhood cause various shadow archetypes to take the helm in our conscious mind.

Childhood trauma leads to neurosis like anxiety and depression. Under these conditions, the discovery and awakening process may be thwarted. Instead, life becomes an endless struggle to meet their basic human needs and/or the pursuit of fleeting pleasures.

Trauma often triggers the puer aeternus archetype (eternal child), leading to the Peter Pan syndrome.

However, once brought to consciousness, trauma can be a catalyst for engaging in self-discovery activities.

A Fixed Mindset

Psychologist Carol Dweck’s decades of research presented in her bestseller Mindset (2007) reveals that a fixed mindset, conditioned into us in childhood, can have lasting consequences if not addressed in adulthood.

With a fixed mindset, individuals fear growth and have fundamental blocks to learning in adolescence and adulthood. In contrast, with a growth mindset , one naturally engages in self-discovery activities.

Misaligned Values of Society

The unspoken values of society include image, attractiveness, wealth, material possessions, competition, and “success.” When these are one’s ideal standards, it leads to neurotic behaviors and excessiveness (a feeling of never having enough).

In fact, many people engage in self-discovery activities when they realize how empty these societal values truly are.

As J. Krishnamurti said in Commentaries on Living :

Is society healthy, that an individual should return to it? Has not society itself helped to make the individual unhealthy? Of course, the unhealthy must be made healthy, that goes without saying; but why should the individual adjust himself to an unhealthy society? If he is healthy, he will not be a part of it. Without first questioning the health of society, what is the good of helping misfits to conform to society?

This is why it’s vital to discover your personal values . Your values will naturally help guide you toward self-discovery instead of “following the pack.”

A Strong Drive for Comfort

We all like being comfortable, but for various reasons (two of which are listed above), many individuals avoid risk while clinging to comfort. They have an unhealthy drive for safety and aversion toward growth—the exact opposite of self-actualizing individuals .

An excessive drive for comfort often degrades into addictive tendencies that result in a downward spiral. Endless distractions replace the natural drive for self-discovery activities.

External Factors That Can Hinder Self-Discovery

Here are three common external factors that cause us to withdraw from self-discovery activities:

Financial Restraints

We all have basic human needs and when we have difficulty meeting these needs, it creates a great deal of tension.

For example, how are you supposed to invest energy and attention into learning about your personality, when you’re worried about paying rent next month?

You don’t need to be affluent to pursue self-discovery, but it does help to have your “house” in order first. You just need an internal space for psychological safety where you are calm enough to pursue self-discovery activities.

An Unsafe Environment

Humanistic psychologist Carl Rogers points out in On Becoming a Person (1995) that psychological safety in our environment is an important condition for creativity and the development of positive mental health.

This lack of psychological safety can be due to an abusive relationship, socio-economic conditions, or some other factor. These days, just turn on the news: external psychological safety seems to be in short supply.

A Disempowering Peer Group

Being surrounded by destructive individuals or people with mental illness (including narcissism) can make it challenging to pursue self-development. Your peer group can act like “crabs in a bucket,” pulling you down if you try to get out.

This external factor is more of a concern at the early stages of discovery when you’re first building momentum.

When individuals first engage in self-discovery activities, for example, they often search for other like-minded individuals. Others, at least for some time, go it alone.

Self-Discovery: A Pathless Path

Ultimately, the path you take to self-discovery will be unique to you.

The above stages and self-discovery activities are mere guidelines, designed to capture the essence of the journey home.

Remember, too, that it’s normal to slide off your path at times and to experience major setbacks along the way. Tests, trials, and tribulations are a part of the journey.

As Jung often pointed out, the way is not without its dangers. As soon as you leave the conventional, ordinary world and enter the “special world,” you’re on your own. While this can be terrifying, it can also be liberating.

It’s only when you step back and view this self-discovery process from a 10,000-foot view that you can fully appreciate the play of consciousness expressing itself through a myriad of forms representing all of us. What a peculiar thing.

Travel safely. Or don’t.

Either way, stay alert.

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Great Information! Thank YOU! BARB!

You’re most welcome, Barb.

Return to hOMe. Be Blessed.

Guía extensa, pero iluminadora. En mi caso, es un excelente enrutador, ya que me aclara situaciones que me agobian y me hacen detenerme sin rumbo definido. Esta guía me hace reflexionar y decidir qué camino debo seguir. Gracias Scott por tu valioso apoyo.

Sure thing, William.

Returning to Home and Self! The path is not without danger and suffering but it will be liberating. And I know I can do it.

Travel safety or not. Either way stay alert.

Thanks Scott a lot! Your writings and wisdom is making a lots of difference in the world, at least in my world.

Thank you for the feedback, Niimka.

Great to hear that the material is making a difference for you.

I have a a clarification regarding the content of this article , however, I might reference other articles on which my thought process is based. Please bear with me, as I try to make clearer sense of the “Sage Stage”.

In my view and based on experience/inner work it seems relevant to me to see three types of consciousness. Namely, Superconscious, Conscious, Subconscious, Unconscious.

In this article does the Sage stage refer to the “Consciousness arising from a leaning towards a Superconscious influence on an individual or is it coming from an archetypal “Sage” arising from the Subconscious/Unconscious?

I perceive inner work more aligning with Superconscious/Inner Guidance rather than Archetypal/SubConscious/Unconscious.

To seems to me, Spirit can interact with Soul-Ego(Human) only from a place of SuperConscious.

Please let me know how you perceive our internal construction that navigates self-discovery in relation to evolving consciousness? Thank you!

Personally, I don’t use terminology like “superconscious.” But I also don’t perceive that third stage in terms of a “Sage Stage.” I referenced “sagehood” as it links to the Sage archetype guide that’s relevant here. From a purely Jungian perspective, that’s accurate.

However, I’m not Jungian. To me, the Spirit isn’t an archetypal image as it is to Jungians.

“Returning home” doesn’t involve images. Navigating through images is the defining characteristic of Stage 2.

“Please let me know how you perceive our internal construction that navigates self-discovery in relation to evolving consciousness?”

So this is probably what may be different in our understanding. The transpersonal literature speaks about “evolving consciousness,” but wholeheartedly don’t agree with this. Sure, there’s the development of the ego. That’s why there are stages. But the “Return Home” is not evolutionary or developmental; it’s a function of stripping away what the Taoists call “mundane conditioning” to return what was there all along (hence, the “Original Spirit” or “Original Nature”).

Bringing order to the psyche (Stage 2) helps reduce mental illness. With less mental illness, there’s less neurosis. With less neurosis, the mind is more still. When the mind is still, one can be. If one can “just be” long enough, one’s energy stabilizes. As one’s energy stabilizes, the Spirit returns.

In this way, Stage 3 is more “alchemical” — not evolutionary or developmental.

Yes, I can now see the difference in views.

I had a very unique and personal experience in getting to come to know about the work of Sri Aurobindo. Although I am Indian, I did not know anything about him at all and his work on human evolution. It was through a personal sequence of synchronistic events in the last few years that were totally unexplainable that I came to know of him. In exploring his work I found a deep connection with my own personal “evolution of consciousness” making sense. The way he describes the process of moving from ego-centric mind to a higher mind has been very resonant with me at a personal level.

It fits accurately even within what you refer to as “sagehood”.

Because my personal experience is very valuable to me, I might like to perceive it as my consciousness is continuously evolving. Offers me the necessary motivation to stay on track even though inner work is hard.

Thank you for the clarifications.

It seems that the process on inner work being so non-linear in nature adequately covers the areas of de-conditioning and addressing neurosis as long as I stay dedicated to the discipline needed for inner work. It seems like the end is similar but being addressed in different ways.

To clarify, I did not suggest that “inner work” is non-linear. Sure, the psyche can be messy, and establishing order doesn’t necessarily follow a step-by-step process. Stage 2 of the self-discovery process is where inner work takes place. Stage 3 is more about contemplative practices that enable stabilization.

“The way he describes the process of moving from ego-centric mind to a higher mind has been very resonant with me at a personal level.”

Sure. But what I’m saying is that it’s incorrect to call this “evolution.” It’s the wrong word.

In the way I view inner work, I am considering messy and non-linear to be similar. In my mind it is similar to “not a step-by-step process”. I used the word non-linear to imply not in a straight line, sometimes straight, other times with repeats and new situations to navigate and explore…I see this as the “messy psyche” I am trying to “order” at some level.

The Indian word “Sadhana” that seems to align with Spiritual Contemplative practice to me is really what is most useful to me (as I have mentioned before I have a strong inclination towards spiritual contemplation). It could be different from other contemplative practices so sure. What is achievable through Sadhana is difficult for me to put into a few words. It is a state of being to which stabilization is definitely arriving. Also I’m over-simplifying everything here just to be concise.

The use of the word evolution is present in his literature aligning with a progressive movement. I think “awakening” applies here too. Is there a better word to describe the process?

“The Indian word “Sadhana” that seems to align with Spiritual Contemplative practice to me is really what is most useful to me”

Yes, Sadhana is the pathway of Stage 3.

“What is achievable through Sadhana is difficult for me to put into a few words. It is a state of being to which stabilization is definitely arriving.”

In the Indian tradition, especially the nondual schools, the focus is primarily on a transformation of consciousness — transcending the identification with the body-mind organism and moving beyond the “I am” (primary Maya). In the Taoist tradition, especially the Southern Reality School, the emphasis is on the stabilization of the energy within the body first. Then, they move to a transformation of consciousness.

“The use of the word evolution is present in his literature aligning with a progressive movement. I think “awakening” applies here too. Is there a better word to describe the process?”

Transformation and development both work.

Thank you for your time to clarify my questions and comments. It is very much appreciated.

Is the practice that is proposed by Jung for working with the unconscious mind “Active Imagination” suitable for all individuals?

The reason I ask is that some people have a predisposition towards “fantasy thinking” that utilizes imagination actively (not is terms of Jungian Active Imagination).

What I mean by fantasy thinking could be divided into two kinds, what I refer to as “Magical thinking, that goes like : I wish things would magically happen” or “Wishful thinking which is a active conscious thought process involving romanticizing reality, looking at life through rose-colored glasses or in some cases even dark fantasy that involves getting back at someone for wrong doing (even if it be in the realm of thought). The first two is something I seem to indulge in more easily. But I know people around me who indulge in (dark fantasy/more violent type) the later frequently. What I have described in this paragraph is a conscious active mental process.

I would say that based on knowing and studying myself as well as studying and observing others, some types (Enneagram in particular) have a greater predisposition towards fantasy thinking.

In fact I could even say that some “guided visualizations” that take people on mental journeys fall into a form of fantasy thinking process, that are more unproductive than useful. I find such guided visualizations very ungrounding and airy experiences. Please correct me if I wrong.

Makes me wonder if this is why hypnosis that takes a creative-imagination driven format with its practical applications works well only for some people.

Since active imagination is a way to tap into the unconscious would a person prone to fantasy thinking feel more ungrounded by engaging in it, without a clear sense of whether they have shifted into pointless imaginations or real useful work with their unconscious “parts”?

Is there a grounding practice that accompanies active imagination would support an individual to stay on track with “active imagination” vs. getting lost in imaginary conversations with parts (that they might be accustomed to given their fantasy-driven tendencies) that might produce useful, meaningful and desired results that tap into their psyche?

I hope my questions and background I have provided is clear enough.

Thank you for your time and consideration.

“In fact I could even say that some “guided visualizations” that take people on mental journeys fall into a form of fantasy thinking process, that are more unproductive than useful. I find such guided visualizations very ungrounding and airy experiences. Please correct me if I’m wrong.”

Yes, I generally discourage guided visualizations, despite how popular they are. Guided instructions can be useful as a learning aid, but guided visualizations serve little value in my experience.

“Since active imagination is a way to tap into the unconscious would a person prone to fantasy thinking feel more ungrounded by engaging in it, without a clear sense of whether they have shifted into pointless imaginations or real useful work with their unconscious “parts”?”

Not necessarily. Someone prone to fantasy may find active imagination very instructive as it can add a useful structure to their fantasies.

“Is there a grounding practice that accompanies active imagination would support an individual to stay on track with “active imagination” vs. getting lost in imaginary conversations with parts (that they might be accustomed to given their fantasy-driven tendencies) that might produce useful, meaningful and desired results that tap into their psyche?”

Yes. See these two guides: https://scottjeffrey.com/how-to-ground-yourself/ https://scottjeffrey.com/center-yourself/

Hi Scott, I’ve been considering the statement you mention “Not necessarily. Someone prone to fantasy may find active imagination very instructive as it can add a useful structure to their fantasies.” As someone who has not benefited in anyway in indulging in fantasy, I have not been able to use many of the practices that have been outlined by Jung. I don’t mean to dismiss or disqualify the validity and use of the practices…it might be extremely useful for certain individuals. I think I am very driven to focus on reality as it occurs and then try to connect it to fields of study. There is a neat distinction made by John Vervaeke (he may not be the originator), between “imagination” and “imaginal”. A website definition of this distinction goes as follows … Here it is important to differentiate between the imaginary (fantasy) and the imaginal, with the latter being seen as a crucial bridge between subjective and objective experience, as well as between perceptual and conceptual domains.” … It seems to me that Inner Work aligns well with “Imaginal” rather than “Imagination”. Personally, inner work continues to breakdown the hold of fantasy in my life…which continues to make inner work very useful. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to think through this via this discussion.

To clarify, inner work and active imagination are not about engaging in fantasy as such. What you’re doing is actively engaging in dialogue with semi-autonomous subpersonalities within the psyche. There’s no need to get hung up on definitions of “imagination.” You don’t have to “imagine” these inner voices. They are already there. It’s just a matter of whether or not you tune into them.

Also to clarify, inner work is not the same thing as sadhana. With inner work, you engage with the images in the psyche. With sadhana, you don’t. That is, Eastern practices are focused on going beyond the images (because, as you observed, focusing on the images can lead to fantasy — i.e. delusion).

The integral movement (including transpersonal psychology) places inner work practices at a lower stage as it relates more specifically to the personality and contemplative practices (sadhana) at a higher stage of development. Overall, I would agree with this structure.

Thank you for the clarifications Scott.

It definitely sounds more honest to tune into inner voices. I can relate to that. I don’t think I make a clear distinction for myself about the stages of development. I tend to use a broad term as “Inner Work” that is simply ongoing, placing awareness onto various aspects of my life.

I don’t even have any specific affiliation with people who call themselves “integral” or “transpersonal psychologists”. When something resonates and seems to match something in my reality it offers a little more clarity. Thank you for sharing your time and guidance with me.

Sure thing, Roopa. I also don’t have any affiliations with these various groups. I mentioned integral here in this context because before this “fifth wave of psychology” there wasn’t really a language or understanding to differentiate these different schools of thought — both East and West — and the levels of development they represent. And without this differentiation, there tends to be a lot of internal confusion. This type of differentiation itself is a function of developing cognitive consciousness.

Scott, your portrait shows you becoming more distinguished, retaining the handsomeness.

Forgive me if I seem to be repeating what you have said. I think writing it down helps me understand.

“Stage 1: Discovering Your Conscious Self (Personality)”.

Is this how people see you? Is this the unconscious that acts in your conscious? Is this the personality enneagram types and are they archetypes?

So far, I’ve asked about the persona as an unconscious part. Is it possible for our persona to be consciously developed? As a boy I emulated my father, then later years became an image (perhaps the persona mask). Can I say that I made my image and is this my archetype making me believe it’s me? What archetype I don’t know, you might have an idea which it is? Thank-you.

How people see you is a function of numerous factors that don’t necessarily align with Stage 1.

Yes, the Enneagram types are ultimately expressions of archetypes as I explain here: https://scottjeffrey.com/archetypes-list/

“Can I say that I made my image and is this my archetype making me believe it’s me?”

Not really. No. The psyche is a collection of archetypes — not just one. And there are a host of factors involved here.

Also, you don’t really consciously develop your persona. It’s more of a reaction to your environment.

That said, we all do learn by observing the behavior of those around us — especially those we project onto like parents and other authority figures.

My understanding of the persona; is an Image we relate to others. Do you think we would rather be our true personality to others?

I think the persona is not far off compared with our personality. As you can see from this quote”The list shows how likely it is that you are each enneagram type.

Most people will be the type at the top of the list, however, your actual personality type might be somewhat lower in it (usually it’s in the top 3).

This is from an enneagram test, which tells my we are not willing to show our true personality. Don’t you think we would be more contented with ourselves if we were able to incorporate the persona with personality? Thank-you.

The social mask is something that’s subconsciously created as a response to one’s environment. It’s a reaction.

One’s true personality is not known until the individual builds consciousness via processes like shadow work. Until then, they are divorced from many qualities about themselves (positive and negative) and engaged in self-deception. The goal of individuation is to bring the individual to a sense of wholeness.

The persona falls away during this process.

Thank-you Scott for your patient reply. However, from the quote on the enneagram test “Most people will be the type at the top of the list, however, your actual personality type might be somewhat lower in it (usually it’s in the top 3)” and your comment quote “One’s true personality is not known until the individual builds consciousness via processes like shadow work”.

There seems to be a conflict, are you suggesting the enneagram test people are wrong?

Perhaps there is not a conflict, I may be seeing the comments in a black and white perspective. I would like you to detail both quotes for me. Thank-you.

There’s no conflict here. The Enneagram is a typing system. Like any personality typing system, it can only highlight general predispositions of particular “types.” If you read any good book on the Enneagram, for example, you’ll resonate with many of the type descriptions. That’s why many individuals have difficulty zeroing in on their type. Their singular type represents a “center of gravity” — it’s not codifying who they are. Plus, there are nine levels of development for each type — from least healthy (9) to healthiest (1). Most people are in the mid to lower range (unhealthy to average mental health). Finally, as you develop your personality through inner work, you actually move toward a different type in the Enneagram (“path of integration”). Ultimately, the more one moves toward individuation the less any of these types become relevant. That’s part of the reason Jung didn’t approve of Myers-Briggs (MBTI). In his view, it missed the point of what psychological types represent.

Ilike the expression you used “center of gravity”. You have answered where the enneagram fits in to the individuation process. It does seem useful to consciously stay in your enneagram type. Thank-you. Perhaps you might elaborate on the phrase “center of gravity” …

“Center of gravity” is a term used in the developmental literature. There are all kinds of developmental stage models, including the Enneagram’s 9 levels, Loevinger’s ego development, Erikson’s psychosocial development, spiral dynamics integral, Maslow’s needs, etc. It’s a mistake to pigeonhole someone at a certain stage of any model. It’s more accurate to say that a person’s “center of gravity” is at a particular stage as it reflects the reality that we are complex beings with many parts. For example, with spiral dynamics, a person’s center of gravity value structure may be “green” (sensitive self) but that doesn’t mean they don’t they don’t also express orange (achievement) and blue (right-wrong morality) under different conditions.

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Navigating the Journey of Self-Discovery

Embarking on a Journey of Self-Discovery

Have you ever considered what truly makes you tick? We each embark on our own unique journey through life, complete with highs and lows, successes and challenges. Yet, at the core of all our experiences lies the personal quest of self-discovery. This journey is about exploring who we are, understanding our desires, and figuring out our purpose.

The journey is not a linear path, nor is it a destination where one arrives. It’s a continuous process that can yield profound insights into our deepest values and beliefs, often leading to an enriching life filled with meaning and satisfaction.

Understanding the Importance of Self-Discovery

At its heart, self-discovery is about self-awareness. It’s asking the question, ‘Who am I?’ beyond your job title, responsibilities, or social status. The answer is not always clear or easy to find, but it is vital. Without self-awareness, you might find yourself on a path not truly aligned with your inner self.

Self-Awareness as the Foundation

Self-awareness lets you understand your strengths and weaknesses, your passions, and fears. It is the foundation for emotional intelligence, important for building strong relationships, achieving personal goals, and navigating life’s decisions. Knowing yourself allows you to live more authentically, and make choices that resonate with your personal values, leading to a more fulfilling life.

The Role of Values and Beliefs

Your values and beliefs shape your perception of the world. They influence your thoughts, actions, and reactions. Understanding what you value most can help steer your life in a direction that brings genuine happiness and satisfaction.

Starting Your Journey of Self-Discovery

The journey to self-discovery can start at any point in your life. It could be triggered by a significant event, or it can begin with the simple desire to know yourself better. Here are some steps you can take to start your journey:

• Reflect on Your Life: Take time to look back on your life experiences, accomplishments, and failures. Reflect on the lessons learned from each experience.
• Identify Your Passions: Ask yourself what you love to do, even if you weren’t getting paid for it. What activities bring you joy and make time fly by?
• Iron Out Your Goals: Set short-term and long-term goals. What do you want to achieve in different areas of your life?
• Embrace Change: Be open to change and willing to grow. Your journey is about evolution, not staying stagnant.

Journaling can be a powerful tool during this process. Writing down your thoughts can help to clarify them and give you a tangible record of your inner world.

The Power of Questions in Self-Discovery

Asking yourself probing questions can drive the discovery process deeply. Here are some you might ponder:

• What moments in my life have brought me the most happiness and fulfillment?
• What values do I hold that I would never compromise on?
• How do I define success for myself, apart from societal standards?
• What are the fears or beliefs holding me back from pursuing my passions?

Give yourself the space to answer these questions honestly. The answers might not come immediately or easily, but they will provide valuable insights into your true self.

The Role of Relationships in Self-Discovery

Our relationships often serve as mirrors reflecting parts of ourselves we might not see. Engaging in deep, meaningful conversations with friends, family, or mentors can reveal aspects of your personality and hidden strengths or beliefs. Listen to how others perceive you, not as an absolute truth, but as additional data to consider on your journey.

Overcoming Obstacles on the Trek to Self-Knowledge

Your journey of self-discovery will not be without challenges. It’s natural to encounter obstacles.

Fear of What You Might Find

The idea of uncovering aspects of ourselves that we may not like can be intimidating. Remember that self-discovery is a process of understanding and acceptance, not judgment. It allows you to work on areas you may want to improve.

Inner Resistance

Change can be hard, and the mind often resists it. Acknowledge the resistance but remind yourself of the benefits of self-understanding and personal growth.

External Pressures

Social expectations and other people’s opinions can sometimes derail your journey. Focus on what truly matters to you, rather than conforming to external standards.

Inspiration from Self-Help and Self-Development Resources

Books and other resources on self-help and self-development can offer guidance and support through your journey. For instance, the seminal book “The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People” by Stephen Covey provides timeless principles that can help you understand and manage yourself better. The resources you find can serve as a compass, but remember that your journey is entirely your own.

Staying Committed to Your Journey

Consistency is key. Regular self-reflection and mindfulness practices like meditation can help maintain a strong connection with your inner self. Dedication to the journey, despite inevitable distractions, is crucial for continuous growth.

The Evolving Nature of Self-Discovery

Understand that self-discovery is a lifelong endeavor. Who you are can evolve with your experiences and the insights you gain. So the questions you ask yourself today might bring different answers 10 years from now, and that’s part of the beauty of being human.

Finishing Thoughts

Embarking on a journey of self-discovery invites us to explore the depths of our being, to seek a richer understanding of ourselves and our place in the world. It equips us with the knowledge to live with intention and make choices that resonate deeply with who we are. The path is not always easy, but the rewards are innumerable and personal growth is assured. So let’s step forward with curiosity, openness, and courage, knowing that with each step, we’re becoming more tuned with the essence of who we truly are.

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Finding Yourself: The Definitive Guide for Your Journey of Self Discovery

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Do you sometimes feel like something is missing in your life and that you are searching for the answer? That despite your best efforts, you just can’t seem to find yourself or the path that’s right for you?

Have you ever felt that there’s more to you than meets the eye? That there’s more lying within the depths of your being, waiting to be discovered?

Well, gorgeous, if you’re nodding your head in agreement to any of these questions that means it’s time to embark on a journey of self discovery.

And while a journey to self discovery can be a little intimidating to start (we’re going to dive deep ), I don’t wan’t you to worry; I’m here to guide you through it.

Consider this post as your trusty compass, your handy guidebook packed with clear, actionable steps, and your personal cheering squad all wrapped into one.

This journey is sooo worth it.

Let’s get started!

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Why Go on a Journey of Self Discovery?

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So, what’s this journey all about?

It’s about embarking on a treasure hunt within your own heart and mind.

It’s recognizing that you’re not just a passenger in your life; you’re the driver .

You get to choose the route, set the pace, and decide which turns to take.

It’s a path of uncovering your hidden strengths, passions, and dreams.

It’s understanding your quirks, facing your fears, and growing into the best version of yourself possible .

You may have heard the old saying “Know thyself” – this is exactly what embarking on a journey of self-discovery is all about.

The truth is, if you don’t invest in getting to know yourself, no one else will — and you’ll forever be living a life that isn’t in alignment with your truest self.

You deserve to know exactly what makes your heart sing.

And you deserve to live a life that’s uniquely yours.

A journey of self-discovery will bring clarity and empower you to make better decisions in both your personal and professional life.

It will help you to form deeper connections, build stronger relationships , and find a sense of belonging in this world.

Ultimately, it will unearth parts of yourself that have been hidden away for far too long — allowing you to become the version of yourself that you were always meant to be.

Plus, I can guarantee that self discovery will grant you a level of inner peace and understanding that’s unlike anything else.

You know what’s amazing?

You’re not just another puzzle piece in this world; you’re a one-of-a-kind masterpiece.

And there’s no better time than right now to start uncovering your magnificence.

When you embrace introspection and explore your authentic self , you start to uncover what makes you a masterpiece and understand yourself better.

You learn more about what makes you tick, what strategies work best for you in different situations, and who you want to be.

This process of unraveling — it’s empowering and humbling all at the same time.

I want you to think of yourself as an onion (minus the tears, of course).

Each layer you peel back reveals a new facet of your being.

Start with a little self-reflection ➡️ What are your passions? What are the moments that have defined you? What are the dreams you’ve been nurturing deep within?

As you unravel these layers, you’ll likely discover a bunch of strengths you probably didn’t even know existed.

For example, maybe you’re a great listener, a creative thinker, or a problem solver.

Embrace these strengths – they’re your superpowers on this journey. 💪

And don’t forget, acknowledging your weaknesses is just as crucial; they are opportunities for growth.

Don’t be afraid to unravel what those weaknesses are. Facing your fears is an essential part of this journey.

To uncover those, you might ask yourself ➡️ Are there aspects of myself I’ve been avoiding? Are there challenges I’ve been hesitant to take on?

Acknowledge them.

When you confront your fears, you’re not just conquering them, you’re empowering yourself.

Setting your intentions is an important first step in this process.

Ask yourself…

• What do I want to discover about myself? (Is it a hidden talent, a sense of inner peace, or a deeper connection with your passions?)
• What changes do I want to make?
• Where do I want this journey to take me?

Write your responses down.

The answers to these questions and others you come up with will give you direction and purpose.

During this process, make sure you remain curious and have an open mind.

Curiosity will lead you to ask more questions, to dig deeper, and to explore the unexplored corners of your thoughts and feelings.

And an open mind will allow you to consider new perspectives, even if they challenge your current beliefs

Now, it’s important right about now to acknowledge that this journey won’t always be a smooth one.

There might be moments of doubt, fear, and uncertainty.

Sometimes negative self talk might try creep in and attempt to throw you off track. Just know that that type of self-sabotaging behavior is a temporary distortion of your thinking. Don’t let it stop you!

When you encounter a limiting belief, pause, question it, and challenge it. Replace it with a positive affirmation or a truth that reflects your capabilities.

These tough moments are a part of the process.

Look at these feelings as an opportunity to pause, to reflect on what you’ve been through so far, and to move forward with greater clarity.

5 Tools & Tips for Self-Discovery

Now that you’re navigating your journey with clear intentions and an open mind, I’m going to equip you with some powerful tools and techniques to make this expedition even more transformative.

#1 – Self Discovery Journaling

Journaling is an incredibly effective way to explore and understand your inner world, unlock your creativity, reflect, discover, and achieve clarity. It’s a great way to show up for yourself every day .

And guess what? I have a special treat for you! A free Self Discovery Journal , designed to help you to get the most out of your journey.

It’s packed with prompts, activities, and thought-provoking self-discovery questions that will spark insights and bring clarity into what matters most in your life.

Receive your free printable and other resources sent directly to your inbox!

Check your inbox. 💌

You won’t be able to get in touch with your inner self if you’re constantly pushing through life without pausing for a moment of reflection.

Mindful living is about using all of our senses to become aware of our thoughts, feelings, and experiences without judgment or attachment to them. It’s living in the present moment and tuning into our inner wisdom.

Similarly, meditation is another incredibly powerful tool for self-discovery – helping to reduce stress and anxiety while promoting empathy and emotional intelligence.

The key takeaway here is that it’s important to prioritize some moments of sitting quietly with your thoughts each day and having regular moments of stillness and reflection during your self-discovery journey.

Ever wanted to learn an instrument, paint, dance, or cook a new recipe ?

Trying new experiences isn’t just about expanding your skill set; it’s about discovering facets of yourself you never knew existed.

Each new endeavor is an opportunity to explore your interests and passions.

Embrace new experiences to open your eyes to the world around you. This could be anything from trying a new activity or cuisine, learning a foreign language, or joining a club.

These are all great ways to challenge yourself and explore different parts of your identity.

Self-discovery is a lifelong journey and that can be tough, especially when you encounter setbacks. That’s why having self-compassion is so important.

Be patient with yourself and have the courage to accept your flaws, mistakes, and weaknesses. Remember that no one has it all figured out – everyone makes mistakes!

Treat yourself with the kindness you deserve.

By learning to practice self-compassion, you’ll be able to keep going on your journey of self-discovery even when the road gets tough.

Remember, the journey of self discovery is about growth , not perfection. So don’t be too hard on yourself and don’t compare your journey to anyone else’s.

The last tip is to make self-care a priority in your life. It’s easy to get overwhelmed and stressed out while on your journey of self-discovery, so it’s important to take care of yourself before anything else.

Take time for yourself – go for walks, give yourself some “me” time to relax or do something that brings you joy.

An added bonus to this is you’re likely to find new insights about yourself while doing something that you enjoy.

Related: 32 of the Best Self-Care Gifts for Women

As you start exploring and getting to know yourself better, it’s important to recognize that change and growth are not only inevitable, they are also going to be key parts of your self-discovery journey.

Instead of being fearful, I want you to embrace the idea of change and growth.

Accept that you are going to learn and become a different person as you go through this process.

Embracing these moments can be some of the most liberating experiences on your journey to discovering yourself.

Change invites you to step out of your comfort zone, where the magic of self-discovery often happens.

And growth provides the opportunity to learn and build upon new ideas, concepts, and skills.

Welcome the twists and turns of your journey, and know that even setbacks contribute to your growth.

Every experience, positive or negative, is a valuable lesson just waiting to be learned.

Now just a heads up, as you learn more about yourself it’s likely that you’ll find that some things no longer align with who you are and what you want. And you know what? That’s absolutely okay!

Don’t hesitate to let go of the things that no longer serve your growth. Instead, be open to the new ideas that will help you move forward in life.

The self-discovery journey can often be a lonely one. But it doesn’t have to be!

Find people who will support and encourage you on your journey.

Building a strong support network can help you stay motivated and encouraged during your journey.

Ask close family members or friends to check in with you as you make progress. Or consider joining a support group where you can connect with others who are embarking on their own journey of self discovery.

Surround yourself with positive, supportive people who understand what you’re going through. Having an encouraging circle of individuals can make all the difference on your self-discovery path.

Some Self-Discovery Support Network Examples:

*You are your most reliable support system

Building a support system isn’t just about receiving; it’s also about giving too.

Your unique experiences and insights can inspire others on their own journeys.

So engage in reciprocal support – share your discoveries, ask for the ok to offer advice, and be a source of positivity for those around you.

As you progress on your journey of self-discovery, it becomes crucial to wholeheartedly embrace your true and authentic self.

You might be wondering, “Well, what does that mean?”

Authenticity means being honest and true to yourself. It’s about being real, even when it feels uncomfortable.

It’s about honoring your thoughts and feelings without apologizing for them or feeling ashamed of them. And being aware of what drives you, how you react and respond to different situations and feelings.

Being authentic also includes integrating the new changes you experience into a sense of self that still remains true to you.

Here are 7 ways you can foster authenticity as you continue on your self discovery journey:

Authenticity thrives when you release the need to meet others’ expectations. Embrace the freedom to be yourself, even if it doesn’t conform to societal norms or others’ opinions.

Perfection is an illusion, and authenticity is born from embracing your imperfections. Instead of striving for flawlessness, embrace your quirks and vulnerabilities – they’re what make you beautifully unique.

Authenticity demands that you speak your truth, even when it feels uncomfortable. It’s important to remember that expressing your truth doesn’t mean being unkind or hurtful though. Share your thoughts, feelings, and experiences without fear of judgment. Your vulnerability can inspire others to do the same and foster an atmosphere of open communication and growth.

Setting and maintaining boundaries that protect your physical, mental, and emotional well-being is an act of self-respect. By clearly defining what’s acceptable to you and communicating it to others, you’re safeguarding your authentic self and fostering healthy relationships. This practice empowers you to create relationships that align with your true self.

Authenticity blooms when your actions align with your values. Reflect on your choices – are they in harmony with who you are? Seek activities, relationships, and pursuits that resonate with your authentic self.

Your journey, with all its triumphs and challenges, is part of your unique story. Embrace it with open arms. Owning your story, without shame or apology, is an act of authenticity.

Self-awareness is the cornerstone of authenticity. To be authentic, you must understand who you are. That’s why I’ve put so much emphasis on the importance of taking time for self-reflection throughout this post. Refine your understanding of yourself through questions such as: How do I want to show up in the world? What values drive my decisions? What parts of me need healing? Pay attention to how other’s words and actions make you feel too – it can help provide insight into what matters most to you.

Cultivating authenticity is an ongoing process, and it looks different for everyone. It’s about being true to who you are in each moment, without the need to hide or conform. As you continue on this journey, remember that your authentic self is your most valuable treasure.

It takes courage to embark on a journey of self-discovery. And while you’re on it, be sure to take time for moments of celebration and appreciation – you deserve it!

Give yourself credit for all that you have achieved along the way, no matter how small.

Remember those times when you faced your fears head-on? That’s something to celebrate.

Or that moment when you embraced your unique quirks instead of trying to hide them? That’s definitely a victory worth acknowledging.

Each step you take, every insight you gain, and all the hurdles you overcome are stepping stones to your growth.

So, how can you celebrate yourself?

Treat yourself to a day of indulgence – whether it’s a favorite meal, a relaxing bubble bath, or that book you’ve been wanting to read.

You could write yourself a heartfelt letter, acknowledging your progress and the qualities you admire in yourself. Or gather with friends who uplift you, and share your wins with them.

And don’t forget to take a moment in quiet solitude to honor your journey, appreciating the remarkable person you are becoming.

These celebrations aren’t just about rewards; they’re affirmations of your commitment and an expression of self-love.

It’s never too late to start anew – you are the author of your own story.

Your journey of self discovery is about learning to understand, accept, and love yourself. So trust in the process.

You have all the tools and capabilities you need to create a fulfilling life story.

The journey is ongoing, with new experiences and revelations each day. And it’s not just any journey; it’s YOUR journey.

So stay curious, be brave, embrace change – and remember that wherever life takes you, authenticity will always be your superpower.

I sincerely hope that this guide proves to be invaluable to you as you embark on your journey of self-discovery.

May it provide you with the guidance and insight you need to take those initial steps towards uncovering your true potential.

But this isn’t the end; no, it’s just the beginning!

I invite you to download my FREE Self Discovery Journal .

This printable workbook will help you gain clarity about your life goals and values, uncover your passions, and find meaningful ways to express yourself.

You can download it here .

You are capable of anything you put your mind to – so believe in yourself as much as I believe in you. 😘

Until next time,

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The Profound Journey of Self-Discovery: What Does It Mean to Love?

In the depths of heartbreak and self-discovery, I found myself pondering a question that had often been taken for granted: What does it mean to love? It was a question that had lain dormant, until the moment of a profound heartache, an initiation that changed the course of my life.

Losing a relationship that held profound meaning, a shared dream, vision, and identity, sent me spiraling into a state of emotional turmoil. The pain was excruciating, but it also presented an opportunity for unparalleled transparency with myself.

I stood at a crossroads, with two divergent paths beckoning me. One path led to moving on by placing blame outside of myself, perpetuating a cycle of resentment and finger-pointing. The other path, however, invited me to embark on a courageous journey within.

I chose the latter, and it was a pivotal decision. I rented a small place, a sanctuary of solitude, and sought the counsel of therapists. It was a period of deep self-reflection, an introspective voyage that demanded I confront my vulnerabilities. It was, without a doubt, one of the most painful times in my life, yet paradoxically, it has also been a period where I felt most alive, truly connected to my essence.

The journey has been messy, very messy, some days, I don’t know what I want. I lean into insecurity for the future, I’m afraid of closing doors or cutting bonds. Some days I feel a lot of love, other days, I feel an incredible sadness and confusion. But one thing is certain, this precise moment is MINE.

So, I continue to ask myself: Am I here to receive something, or am I here to truly love somebody?

This fundamental question has become my North Star, a guiding light in the labyrinth of life. It lingers in my thoughts, a constant companion, gently reminding me of the profound journey of self-discovery that altered the course of my existence. It's a question that doesn't demand a quick or easy answer; rather, it invites introspection and an evolving understanding of what it means to love.

In my quest for a more genuine and selfless love, I find myself on an ongoing exploration. It's a quest that's not for the faint of heart, for it requires the courage to confront our deepest insecurities, selfish desires, and ego-driven needs. It beckons us to unearth the authentic essence of love that resides within us.

To embark on the path of love that transcends self-interest is to journey into uncharted territory. It's a path that challenges the conventional narratives we've been fed about love – those narratives that often emphasize possession, control, and the pursuit of personal gratification. The love that I now seek to embody is something altogether different.

This love is an unconditional force. It's not bound by expectations or conditions; it doesn't keep a ledger of debts and favors. It flows freely, unencumbered by the need for reciprocity. It's a love that extends a hand without expecting it to be grasped, that offers a listening ear without anticipating a return audience. It's a love that seeks not to change or manipulate, but to understand and support.

To love in this way is to cast aside the masks we wear to shield our vulnerabilities. It's to lay bare our fears, insecurities, and imperfections, for it's in this vulnerability that authentic connection and compassion take root. This love recognizes that perfection is an illusion, and that our flaws are not impediments to love but integral parts of the beautiful mosaic of human existence.

As I navigate this path, I'm constantly challenged to release my ego's grip on what I believe love should be and allow it to be what it is. Love is not a transaction; it's not a currency to be hoarded. It's a living, breathing energy that pulses through the universe, connecting us all.

This journey of discovering the true meaning of love is not a solitary one. It's a collective endeavor, for love is most potent when shared. It enriches the lives of all those it touches, reverberating through our connections, our communities, and ultimately, the world at large. It's a ripple effect that has the power to heal, unite, and transform.

So, as I continue to explore the depths of love's mysteries, I do so with a sense of purpose and commitment . I've seen the profound impact that selfless love can have on my life and the lives of those around me. I'm determined to be a vessel for this love, to cultivate it within myself and to share it with the world.

In a world often driven by self-interest and division, the quest for a love that transcends ego and enriches the lives of all it touches is a revolutionary act. It's a path less traveled, but one that holds the promise of a more compassionate, interconnected, and harmonious world. So, I invite you to ask yourself the same question: Are you here to receive something, or are you here to truly love somebody? Your answer might just set you on a profound journey of self-discovery and transformation, one that has the power to change your life and the lives of those you touch.

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Self-Discovery: What is it? Why is it Important?

Personal development has been growing in popularity within the last couple of years. Whether it’s books , podcasts, or inspirational documentaries, people are seeking a better understanding of who they are and how they can improve their life. A huge part of this personal growth movement is self-discovery.

Traditionally, self-discovery is simply known as discovering something about yourself, which is easy enough to understand. Most people associate self-discovery with taking a personality test like Myers Briggs , or doing some soul searching to figure out your dream career .

However, self-discovery goes way beyond just finding out your personality type or your perfect job . In fact, self-discovery is almost every aspect of personal development. While yes, the previous examples I mentioned do fall under this umbrella, what many don’t know is just how deep self-discovery can go when exploring these parts of personal development.

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Let’s get down to basics and explore all of the different exciting aspects of self-discovery:

Discovering Your Passions

Is there anything in your life that you can happily spend time on for hours and completely lose track of your day? Discovering your passions is one of the most exciting parts of self-exploration because there can be a wide range of possibilities that you aren’t even aware of yet. Plus, they can change and develop as you get older!

If you’re not quite sure if you have any passions, simply take 10 minutes a day to explore something that interests you. This could literally be anything, like researching a new sport or signing up for an art class. Maybe you invested in a fancy camera in the past and it’s been collecting dust for too long? (Guilty!) Take it out, look up some Youtube videos or explore some tutorials on Pinterest and start dedicating some time to see if this interest transforms into something bigger.

For me, writing has always been my biggest passion, which I discovered at a young age while writing short stories in elementary school. Later in life after I graduated high school, I developed a passion for blogging, which later transformed into an additional love for marketing! Pursuing each of these passions helped develop brand new ones, which is a wonderful and exciting way to learn more about yourself and bring more joy and positive change into your life.

Figuring Out Your Purpose

What are you meant to do in your lifetime? This doesn’t necessarily mean what you are “meant to do” for your career, but more what purpose do you feel you need to serve to make an impact in the world?

Now I know that sounds rather intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be scary. Making an impact during your lifetime could be something even as simple as reaching out to one person to help brighten their day with your radiant smile and positivity . Sure, some people may find their purpose to be something huge like selling all of their belongings and moving to another country to help conserve the environment, and that’s great too! Not one person’s purpose is better than another’s. What matters is you’re creating a positive difference and feeling aligned with your soul in the process.

Discovering your purpose doesn’t come at any specific time in life. Don’t pressure yourself to have it all figured out right now, especially if you’re finishing college or in your twenties – you have so much life left to explore! I recommend simply following what feels good and asking your friends what types of activities help you shine like the beautiful human you are. Stay curious, and you’ll never know what you’ll discover about yourself.

If you’re feeling stuck and unsure about where to even start with finding your passion or purpose, download my free 3-Step Life Audit Workbook .

Finding Out What Motivates You

For those days you feel stuck in a rut and need that kick-start towards productivity , it’s helpful to have an arsenal of tactics that help you feel motivated again. Do you know any quotes that resonate with you? Maybe some songs help light the fire? How about meditation techniques to help you clear your mind and find focus for productivity ?

There is an abundance of articles online about finding motivation, but only you can discover what truly resonates and works for you the best. For example, simply explore all of the different workout playlists available on Spotify. There are countless types of music, ranging from HIIT pop to hip hop to rock music and beyond. This is because everyone not only has different tastes in music but also because various kinds of genres work better than others for specific people.

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Discovering Your Mental Capabilities

Mental health is slowly becoming more and more acceptable to talk about on a more casual level than in the years past, which is fantastic progress for such an important topic. With that in mind, now is the best time to spend time reflecting on your own mental health and capabilities.

What does this mean, you ask? Well, while some people may be aware of any mental health issues or struggles with anxiety or depression, we ALL need to be in tune with our mind and heart. When you’re feeling stressed, overwhelmed, or simply a bit off, those are signs that your mind, heart, and soul are trying to let you know you need to take time for self-care .

Personally, I know I usually find myself feeling ultra motivated and productive for about two-week increments. However, if I don’t prioritize self-care (especially meditation ) I’ll quickly find myself burning out with anxiety and feeling overwhelmed. While I have a history with anxiety and went to a therapist to help discover more about this aspect of my mental health, I also took plenty of time to do research and explore different coping mechanisms and self-care practices that fit best for my own mental capabilities and needs.

Keep an eye on your triggers and don’t be afraid to turn inward when you’re feeling off or overwhelmed. Learning more about yourself and your own mental capabilities will help you not only feel more connected with your inner self but also create an effective strategy for preventing future breakdowns or simply feel more mentally balanced on a more consistent basis.

If you’d like to learn more about building a solid foundation of self-care, the Self-Care to Confidence Masterclass included in my Self-Discovery Starter Kit will help you with exactly that.

Learning What You Need in Relationships

Whether you’re in a relationship with a significant other or spend time with important friendships, you will have needs and expectations that are different than anyone else. This is another part of you that can change over time, learning more about who you are and what you want in life requires positive people who fit into the life you’re living. This is why you may gain and lose relationships with others as you grow older. Certain people fit into specific times in your life, and when you grow into a new stage, some friends may not fit your new needs.

If you’re unsure about what you need and if your relationships are a positive fit in your life, take some time to evaluate your own personal values. What’s important to you in life? What do you think creates a healthy friendship? Once you’ve pinpointed these needs, take a look at the people in your life and see if they fit into what you’ve written down. You may discover some of your relationships aren’t serving you in the way you need.

Essentially, self-discovery is an all-encompassing journey of getting to know yourself better, what makes you tick, and how you go about life.

This exploration has always been one of my absolute favorite parts of personal development, even before I realized it. I was taking personality tests, career aptitude tests, trying out different forms of productivity techniques to see what would work best…the list goes on! Basically, if there was anything I could research to help me learn more about myself, I was hungry for it. Learning more about myself and how I can improve or understand who I am as an individual in life, at work, in relationships, or with my mental health is completely fascinating and I’ve never gotten tired of it!

Along with this, I’ve always loved learning about others in this way as well. It’s probably why I was originally a psychology major when I started college. I’m extremely passionate about digging deep and learning the core of who my friends and family are, especially with personality types or trying to help them find what they love to do.

This is why I’ve felt pulled towards self-discovery for the direction of my coaching business. The inner work and soul searching is what makes personal development so beautiful and transformation possible. You can’t change without knowing where you are now, because you won’t have something to reference during your growth and change.

I want to help others experience the beauty of discovering who they are on so many different levels during their personal development journey. Feeling stuck and unsure where to even start? I’ve got you . Feeling fairly happy with your life, but feel like your career could use a change? We can do this. Love your job and your life, but something inside still feels off? Hell yes girl, I’ve been there and want to help.

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May 7, 2019 at 5:59 am

This is so important! It’s crucial to be on a self discovery path. I recently had to go on mine AGAIN and it was so rewarding and NECESSARY. You are so right about it helps you discover what you need in relationships (for yourself too) and developing your mental capabilities. LOVE your blog, thank you for your article!

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The Art of Self-Discovery: Navigating the Journey Within

Embarking on the labyrinthine journey within oneself is an exploration often neglected. The intricate process of self-discovery involves peeling back the layers of identity, a fundamental catalyst for personal growth. This blog into the essence of our being entails understanding our values, skillfully navigating the currents of change, and wholeheartedly embracing the dynamic nature of self. Beyond the surface of daily existence lies a profound odyssey—one that, when undertaken with intention, fosters resilience, authenticity, and an enriched understanding of our own unique path in the vast tapestry of life.

Definition of Self-Discovery

At its core, self-discovery is the conscious act of exploring one's identity, values, and purpose. It involves peeling away societal expectations, unraveling conditioned beliefs, and embracing authenticity. It's a journey that transcends the superficial and dives deep into the soul, fostering a profound connection with oneself.

The Starting Point: Knowing Oneself

In the intricate tapestry of personal growth , there exists a foundational cornerstone—the profound act of knowing oneself. This journey of self-discovery is not just a philosophical pursuit but a practical necessity for navigating life with authenticity and purpose . In this exploration, we will unravel the significance of the starting point—the moment when we embark on the transformative path of truly knowing who we are.

Reflecting on Personal Values and Beliefs

The journey of knowing oneself commences with introspection—a deliberate reflection on personal values and beliefs. What principles guide our decisions? What ideals shape our worldview? By examining these foundational elements, we gain insight into the essence of our identity.

Understanding Strengths and Weaknesses

To truly know oneself is to recognize both strengths and weaknesses. Understanding our capabilities empowers us to leverage them, while acknowledging our limitations becomes a catalyst for growth. This self-awareness forms the basis for making informed choices aligned with our authentic selves.

Exploring Passions and Interests 

Passions are the soul's compass, pointing us towards fulfillment. The journey within involves an exploration of our interests—those activities that ignite our enthusiasm and breathe life into our existence. By identifying and nurturing these passions, we cultivate a deeper connection with our authentic selves.

The Significance of Knowing Oneself:

The starting point, marked by a conscious effort to know oneself, is not merely a philosophical pursuit. It's a pragmatic approach to life. Armed with self-awareness, individuals can make decisions aligned with their values, leverage their strengths, and pursue endeavors that resonate with their passions. This knowledge becomes a guiding light, illuminating the path to a more authentic and purposeful life .

Benefits of Knowing Oneself

• Authentic Decision-Making: Armed with a deep understanding of personal values and beliefs, decisions become authentic expressions of one's true self . This authenticity fosters a sense of fulfillment and purpose.
• Personal Growth and Development: Acknowledging strengths and weaknesses is the first step towards growth. Knowing oneself provides the self-awareness necessary for continuous personal development.
• Alignment with Passions: Exploring and embracing passions aligns daily pursuits with personal fulfillment. Knowing one's interests allows for a more intentional and meaningful life.

Practical Steps for Self-Reflection

• Journaling: Regularly journaling thoughts, experiences, and reflections provides a tangible record of personal growth and evolving self-awareness.
• Mindfulness Practices: Incorporating mindfulness techniques, such as meditation and mindful breathing, creates moments of stillness for introspection.
• Seeking Feedback: Soliciting constructive feedback from trusted friends or mentors offers an external perspective, enhancing self-awareness.

The starting point of knowing oneself is a transformative endeavor—a conscious decision to embark on a journey of self-discovery. In this exploration, we lay the groundwork for authentic living, aligning our choices with our values, leveraging our strengths, and nurturing our passions. As we delve deeper into the understanding of who we are, we pave the way for a more intentional and purposeful existence. 

The Transformative Power of Mindfulness and Self-Reflection

In the bustling symphony of modern life, finding moments of stillness and introspection can be a rarity. Yet, within the cadence of our daily routines lies an extraordinary practice—the art of mindfulness and self-reflection. In this exploration, we delve into the profound impact that cultivating mindfulness and embracing self-reflection can have on our well-being, personal growth , and overall quality of life.

Incorporating Mindfulness Practices into Daily Life

Mindfulness is a practice that promotes present-moment awareness and tranquility in a fast-paced world. It involves conscious breathing, meditation, and mindful eating. Breathing calms the mind, meditation helps maintain focus, and mindful eating encourages sensory awareness and gratitude for nourishment. Regular meditation sessions provide a mental reset, while mindful eating transforms mealtime into a ritual, fostering a deeper connection with oneself and a deeper connection with the present moment.

Journaling and Its Role in Self-Reflection:

Self-reflection is a practice that involves introspection to gain insight into thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Journaling provides a platform for expressive writing, allowing emotions to flow freely. Tracking progress through personal goals and achievements fosters a deeper understanding of oneself. Devoting a section of the journal to gratitude promotes a positive mindset by acknowledging the positive aspects of daily life.

The Symbiosis of Mindfulness and Self-Reflection:

The marriage of mindfulness and self-reflection creates a powerful synergy that transcends the sum of its parts. While mindfulness anchors us in the present, self-reflection illuminates the inner landscape, allowing us to navigate our thoughts and emotions with greater clarity.

Benefits of Mindfulness and Self-Reflection

Mindfulness is a natural stress reliever that promotes calmness and resilience in life's challenges. It also enhances self-awareness through regular self-reflection, allowing individuals to understand their reactions and motivations. Combining mindfulness and self-reflection leads to improved emotional regulation, enhancing overall well-being.

Practical Tips for Cultivating Mindfulness and Self-Reflection

Start with brief mindfulness exercises and gradually increase duration as comfort grows. Consistency is key, whether daily meditation or weekly self-reflection sessions. Create a Sacred Space: Create a quiet, comfortable space for mindfulness and self-reflection to foster a sense of sacredness and focus.

In the dance of life, where time seems to slip through our fingers, mindfulness and self-reflection emerge as anchors, offering a sanctuary of presence and self-awareness. By embracing these practices, we tap into reservoirs of resilience, deepen our understanding of self, and nurture a profound connection with the essence of our being. In the symphony of existence, let mindfulness and self-reflection be the melody that soothes the soul and elevates the human experience.

Celebrating Milestones in Self-Discovery

In the tapestry of self-discovery, every step forward is a triumph—a milestone marking growth, resilience, and a deeper understanding of one's essence. The journey within is a transformative odyssey, and it becomes even more enriching when we take a moment to acknowledge and celebrate the milestones along the way. In this exploration, we delve into the importance of recognizing and celebrating progress in the continuous and dynamic process of self-discovery.

Acknowledging Personal Growth Achievements

Self-discovery involves personal growth achievements, including recognizing inner strength, celebrating positive habits, and appreciating emotional intelligence. Recognizing resilience, cultivating mindfulness, adopting healthier habits, and understanding emotions are key to personal well-being. These achievements contribute to healthier relationships and personal contentment.

Setting and Achieving Realistic Self-Discovery Goals

Setting and achieving self-discovery goals provides direction and purpose in life . Aligning actions with personal values leads to a purposeful life . Pursuing personal development goals enhances competence and confidence. Nurturing passion projects adds fulfillment, reflecting commitment to one's authentic desires. These goals contribute to a more intentional and authentic life.

Cultivating a Positive Mindset on the Journey

Celebrating progress involves not just achieving external milestones but also cultivating a positive mindset that sees challenges as opportunities for growth. Gratitude practice, learning from setbacks, and fostering self-compassion are essential for maintaining a positive perspective. Reflecting on the journey, learning from lessons, and embracing self-compassion in moments of difficulty or perceived failure contribute to a nurturing mindset.

The Significance of Celebrating Progress

Celebrating progress is a crucial aspect of self-care and motivation. It fuels motivation for continued growth, builds confidence , and encourages self-reflection. Recognizing achievements inspires individuals to continue their quest for self-discovery. Celebrating milestones affirms the journey as a series of triumphs, contributing to a stronger, more resilient self. The act of celebrating encourages clarity and intention in envisioning the path ahead.

Practical Tips for Celebrating Progress

Create tangible markers for progress, such as a journal or vision board, to visually celebrate the journey. Share achievements with friends or a supportive community to enhance joy and celebrate both small and large achievements on the path of self-discovery.

Every milestone is a brushstroke contributing to the masterpiece of our authentic selves. By taking the time to acknowledge and celebrate progress, we infuse the journey with positivity, resilience, and a sense of purpose. May each celebration be a reminder that self-discovery is not just a destination but a continuous, evolving journey deserving of recognition and applause.

In the intricate tapestry of self-discovery, we find the threads of personal growth , resilience, and the transformative power of the journey within. As we navigate this profound odyssey , let us pause to acknowledge our achievements, both large and small. The art of self-discovery is a continuous evolution, urging us to explore, grow, and embrace the authentic tapestry of our lives. Today, we invite you to embark on this transformative journey. Contact us or visit our website to discover how self-discovery can be a catalyst for a more intentional, fulfilling life. Begin your transformative journey today.

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The Profound Symbolism of The Journey: Exploring the Deeper Meanings Behind Life’s Adventures

Symbols are powerful tools that help us understand and navigate the world around us. They can represent complex ideas and emotions in a simple and universal way. From ancient cave paintings to modern-day logos, symbols have been used throughout history to communicate and convey meaning. Understanding symbolism can help us connect with our own inner wisdom and intuition.

Symbols have the ability to transcend language barriers and cultural differences. They speak to our subconscious mind, bypassing the rational thinking process and tapping into our emotions. For example, a red stop sign is universally understood as a symbol for danger or caution, regardless of language or culture. Similarly, a heart shape is universally recognized as a symbol for love and affection.

Symbols also have the power to evoke strong emotions and memories. The sight of a national flag can stir up feelings of patriotism and pride, while a wedding ring can symbolize love and commitment. By understanding the symbolism behind these objects, we can tap into the deeper meanings they hold and connect with our own experiences and emotions.

Key Takeaways

• Symbolism plays a powerful role in our lives.
• Archetypal symbols help us understand the collective unconscious.
• The hero’s journey is a metaphor for life.
• Overcoming obstacles and challenges is necessary for growth.
• Dreams can reveal secrets of the unconscious.

Archetypal Symbols: Understanding the Collective Unconscious

Archetypes are universal symbols that are present in all cultures and societies. They represent fundamental human experiences and emotions. Carl Jung, a Swiss psychiatrist, believed that these archetypes are part of the collective unconscious, a shared reservoir of knowledge and experiences that all humans inherit.

Some common archetypal symbols include the mother figure, representing nurturing and protection; the wise old man, representing wisdom and guidance; and the shadow, representing our hidden desires and fears. These archetypes can be found in myths, fairy tales, and religious texts from around the world.

Understanding archetypes can help us connect with our own unconscious and tap into our deepest desires and fears. By recognizing these universal symbols in our own lives, we can gain insight into our own motivations and behaviors. For example, recognizing the mother archetype in ourselves can help us understand our nurturing and caring tendencies, while recognizing the shadow archetype can help us confront and integrate our hidden fears and desires.

The Journey as a Metaphor for Life: Exploring the Hero’s Journey

The hero’s journey is a universal story structure that can be found in myths and legends from around the world. It represents the journey of self-discovery and transformation that we all go through in life. The hero’s journey is divided into several stages, each representing a different aspect of the journey.

The first stage of the hero’s journey is the call to adventure. This is the moment when we are called to leave our comfort zone and embark on a new journey. It can be scary and overwhelming, but it is also an opportunity for growth and transformation. Embracing the call to adventure can help us overcome our fears and discover our true potential.

The next stage of the hero’s journey is the threshold guardians. These are the obstacles and challenges that we encounter on our journey. They can represent our own fears and doubts, or external forces that try to hold us back. Overcoming threshold guardians is an important part of the hero’s journey, and it can help us build resilience and confidence.

The Call to Adventure: Embracing Change and Transformation

The call to adventure is the moment when we are called to leave our comfort zone and embark on a new journey. It can come in many forms, such as a job offer, a new relationship, or a personal challenge. The call to adventure often brings with it a sense of excitement and anticipation, but it can also be accompanied by fear and uncertainty.

Embracing the call to adventure requires us to step outside of our comfort zone and embrace change. It requires us to let go of what is familiar and safe, and venture into the unknown. This can be scary and overwhelming, but it is also an opportunity for growth and transformation.

By embracing the call to adventure, we open ourselves up to new experiences and opportunities. We allow ourselves to learn and grow, and we discover our true potential. Embracing the call to adventure is not always easy, but it is necessary if we want to live a fulfilling and meaningful life.

Threshold Guardians: Overcoming Obstacles and Challenges

Threshold guardians are the obstacles and challenges that we encounter on our journey. They can represent our own fears and doubts, or external forces that try to hold us back. These threshold guardians can take many forms, such as self-doubt, criticism from others, or unexpected setbacks.

Overcoming threshold guardians is an important part of the hero’s journey. It requires us to confront our fears and push through our limitations. It requires us to believe in ourselves and our abilities, even when faced with adversity.

By overcoming threshold guardians, we build resilience and confidence. We learn that we are capable of overcoming obstacles and achieving our goals. We discover our own strengths and abilities, and we become more confident in our ability to navigate the challenges of life.

Allies and Mentors: Finding Support and Guidance Along the Way

Allies and mentors are the people who help us on our journey. They can provide us with guidance, support, and wisdom. These allies and mentors can come in many forms, such as friends, family members, teachers, or even strangers.

Finding allies and mentors is essential for navigating the challenges of the hero’s journey. They can provide us with a different perspective, offer advice and support, and help us stay motivated and focused on our goals.

By finding allies and mentors, we gain access to their knowledge and experience. We learn from their mistakes and successes, and we benefit from their guidance and support. Finding allies and mentors can help us navigate the challenges of the hero’s journey with greater ease and confidence.

The Abyss: Facing Our Fears and Confronting the Shadow Self

The abyss is the moment of greatest challenge and transformation in the hero’s journey. It represents the moment when we must confront our deepest fears and face our shadow self. The shadow self is the part of ourselves that we often try to hide or deny, but it is an essential part of who we are.

Facing the abyss can be terrifying, as it requires us to confront our deepest fears and insecurities. It requires us to acknowledge and accept our shadow self, and to integrate it into our conscious awareness.

However, facing the abyss is also an opportunity for profound growth and transformation. By confronting our fears and embracing our shadow self, we can release old patterns and beliefs that no longer serve us. We can let go of limiting beliefs and behaviors, and step into our true power and potential.

The Return: Integrating Our Experiences and Sharing Our Wisdom

The return is the final stage of the hero’s journey, when we return to our ordinary lives with new knowledge and wisdom. It represents the integration of our experiences and the sharing of our wisdom with others.

The return is not just about returning to our old lives, but about integrating our experiences into who we have become. It is about bringing back the lessons and insights we have gained on our journey, and using them to create a more meaningful and purposeful life.

The return can help us find meaning and purpose in our lives. It can inspire others to embark on their own hero’s journey, and it can create a ripple effect of positive change in the world.

The Symbolic Language of Dreams: Unlocking the Secrets of the Unconscious

Dreams are a powerful source of symbolism and meaning. They can help us connect with our own unconscious and tap into our deepest desires and fears. Dreams often use symbols to communicate messages from our subconscious mind.

Understanding the symbolic language of dreams can help us gain insight into our own lives and experiences. By analyzing the symbols and themes in our dreams, we can uncover hidden meanings and messages. We can gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and our motivations, and we can use this knowledge to make positive changes in our lives.

Embracing the Journey and Finding Meaning in Life’s Adventures

The hero’s journey is a powerful metaphor for the journey of life. It represents the call to adventure, the overcoming of obstacles, the finding of allies and mentors, the facing of the abyss, and the integration of our experiences.

By understanding the power of symbolism and the hero’s journey, we can connect with our own inner wisdom and navigate the challenges of life with courage and resilience. We can embrace the call to adventure, overcome obstacles, find allies and mentors, face the abyss, and integrate our experiences. In doing so, we can find meaning and purpose in our lives, and inspire others to embark on their own hero’s journey.

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What is symbolism?

Symbolism is the use of symbols to represent ideas or qualities. It is a literary device that enhances the meaning of a text by adding layers of significance to it.

What is the journey in symbolism?

The journey in symbolism refers to the use of a physical or metaphorical journey to represent a character’s personal growth or transformation. It is a common theme in literature and can be used to convey a variety of messages.

What are some examples of the journey in literature?

Some examples of the journey in literature include “The Odyssey” by Homer, “The Lord of the Rings” by J.R.R. Tolkien, and “The Alchemist” by Paulo Coelho. In each of these works, the protagonist embarks on a physical or metaphorical journey that leads to personal growth and transformation.

What are some common symbols used in the journey?

Some common symbols used in the journey include the road, the path, the bridge, and the mountain. These symbols represent the challenges and obstacles that the protagonist must overcome in order to achieve personal growth and transformation.

What is the significance of the journey in literature?

The journey is a significant theme in literature because it reflects the human experience of personal growth and transformation. It allows readers to identify with the protagonist and to see themselves in the journey towards self-discovery and enlightenment.

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Navigating the Spiritual Path: A Journey of Discovery and Transformation.

In the tapestry of human existence, the spiritual journey stands as a timeless odyssey—a quest for meaning, connection, and a deeper understanding of the self and the universe. It is a journey that transcends religious affiliations and philosophical doctrines, inviting individuals to explore the profound dimensions of their inner landscapes. In this exploration, we delve into the essence of the spiritual journey, tracing its universal themes and the transformative power it holds for those who embark upon its sacred path.

The Call to the Spiritual Journey:

The spiritual journey often begins with a subtle yet powerful call—a stirring within the soul that beckons individuals to explore beyond the surface of everyday life. This call may manifest as a yearning for purpose, a quest for inner peace, or a curiosity about the mysteries that lie beyond the tangible world. It is an invitation to embark on a journey of self-discovery and spiritual awakening.

Seeking Meaning and Purpose:

At the core of the spiritual journey lies a quest for meaning and purpose. Individuals on this path grapple with fundamental questions about existence, the nature of reality, and their role in the grand tapestry of life. This quest propels them to explore diverse spiritual teachings, philosophical traditions, and introspective practices to uncover the deeper truths that resonate with their hearts and minds.

Self-Exploration and Inner Wisdom:

The spiritual journey is a deeply personal exploration of the self. It involves peeling back the layers of conditioning, societal expectations, and egoic identities to reveal the authentic essence that lies beneath. Through meditation, contemplation, and self-reflection, individuals tap into their inner wisdom, gaining insights that guide them on their quest for self-realization.

Connection with the Divine:

Central to the spiritual journey is the pursuit of a profound connection with the divine or the transcendent. This connection may be expressed through prayer, meditation, or communion with nature. It is a recognition of a higher power, a universal consciousness, or a divine presence that infuses every aspect of creation. The journey towards this connection is marked by moments of awe, reverence, and a deep sense of interconnectedness.

Challenges and Dark Nights of the Soul:

The spiritual journey is not without its challenges. Individuals may encounter periods of doubt, confusion, and what mystics refer to as the “dark nights of the soul.” These are moments of profound inner questioning and purification, where the old must be shed to make way for the new. The challenges become catalysts for growth, resilience, and a deepening of spiritual understanding.

Transcending Ego and Embracing Love:

As the spiritual journey unfolds, individuals grapple with the task of transcending the ego—the conditioned sense of self that often leads to separation, fear, and attachment. The journey towards ego transcendence is marked by a shift towards love, compassion, and a recognition of the inherent unity that binds all of creation. Love becomes a guiding force, dissolving barriers and fostering a sense of universal kinship.

Integration and Wholeness:

The culmination of the spiritual journey is often marked by a sense of integration and wholeness. The fragmented aspects of the self are reconciled, and individuals come into alignment with their higher selves. This integration extends to all facets of life, fostering harmony in relationships, work, and the broader community. The journey towards wholeness is a continual process of self-discovery and refinement.

Service and Contribution:

Having traversed the landscapes of self-discovery and spiritual growth, individuals on the spiritual journey often feel a deep calling to serve and contribute to the well-being of others. This service arises from a place of compassion, empathy, and a recognition of the interconnectedness of all life. Acts of kindness, altruism, and the sharing of spiritual insights become natural expressions of the transformed soul.

Conclusion:

The spiritual journey is a sacred pilgrimage that transcends religious dogma and cultural boundaries. It is a universal quest for meaning, connection, and self-realization that has echoed through the annals of human history. As individuals navigate the intricacies of this journey, they embark on a transformative odyssey—one that leads to the discovery of inner wisdom, the recognition of divine presence, and a deep sense of interconnectedness with all that is. In the tapestry of the spiritual journey, each step becomes a revelation, and each moment an opportunity for profound transformation.

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